Hello friends. I'm writing this story from the phone, so I apologize if I made a spelling mistake, etc. I just want to ask you a question. I'm a 20-year-old girl, I'm in college, and I have a seasonal job. I dare say I'm quite patient, but lately I just can't stand it. I work with my family in our restaurant. I have been working there every summer since I was 14, simply because it is difficult to survive the winter at sea with one season. And a season. My problem is that I am always late for work, with 10-40 minutes. At the expense of my delay, I do not take a break, arbitrarily, and I have never worked until the end of my working hours. I always stayed until we closed the site. Although my position is a bartender, I help in the kitchen and sink non-stop. That is, a general worker. Well, all my life I couldn't fix my sleep. I'm writing the story now at 3:30 before I go to bed. I work 10-12 hours a day, and my family always finds fault with me, regardless of my tasks and the fact that I help everywhere. They shout at me from the other side, insult me, I even dare to say that precisely because I am from a family, working 10-12 hours, I receive BGN 1,200. I did not complain about the money or the working hours. But I can't explain to them that I go to the restaurant all day and I just can't wake up in time, no matter how hard I try. The fact is that I'm in the restaurant from 12 to 00 and when I get home I want some time for myself. I just stand and listen to music or write to friends or drive. If I go to bed the moment I get home, I won't succeed because I've become hyperactive. I stay awake with my eyes closed. It is very tough for me, that everyone notices only the negative part - the fact that I'm late. And no one wants to appreciate my work. It hurts to scream at me every day. I don't want to quarrel with anyone, I want to work calmly. But I can't rest for the aforementioned reason. So I'm late and this vicious circle ensues. I work as a bartender myself, respectively, as he leaves the bar and will weld it, so I do not allow myself to leave before my last glass and ashtray are washed. Give me advice on what to do. It's very hard for me, I'm trying my best, I just can't stand this daily mental torment anymore. And it hurts me the most that they behave like that with a member of the family, and the strangers / the rest of the staff / will take down a few more stars. I apologize for the long story .. I just had to tell someone at last .. I know it seems childish to you, but it hurts. It hurts every day to know that I have failed again. Thank you, good night.
1 officialhelene answered
Find another job. You don't have to be a slave to your family because that's what they expect of you. That's how you learned them. I tell you this as a family slave. I was the one who entertained the guests, I was the one who washed the dishes, the one who was still wine-free, regardless of the successes. So just change jobs. To find an employee, because you are their child at home, you are their employee at work, and if you spend these hours without breaks, it is slavery.