Hello! I am a girl of 21 years. I want to share my great sorrow ... or most of you will say "this one" I am an employee in a store and in short I have a manager and a deputy. I have been working there for a year and a half and the manager and I are very close friends. But with the deputy NO! I feel a great antipathy to her, because she has more than once insulted me, so to speak, mockingly, and then justifies herself by saying that and not having bad feelings. "Oh, to believe and .. pff .." Anyway. My boss was away from him for almost a month and therefore she was the "boss". I can't describe you ... full AD! Everything was going wrong, she was nervous because she was an incompetent motherfucker! We were all rushing hard and still not doing well. It was obvious how bad the material was. I don't know why, but since then I've had a fixed idea, maybe ... I WANT TO TAKE THE PLACE! And it started ... when my boss came back and I told him all the truths, all the mistakes, everything ... almost. He kept asking me what to do and he wished we weren't on bad terms. And I don't know if he understands my desire ... If he takes the place of the one in question, everything will just go smoothly. My desire increases with each passing day, it continues to work improperly, BUT AS IF THERE IS NO ONE TO SEE IT! There are people in the store who are taller than her who have to see the way it works ... but why does everyone close their eyes as if? Please tell me if I can get this out of my head, this fixed idea or if I dare to wait for my star moment ... tell me what to do please! He kept asking me what to do and he wished we weren't on bad terms. And I don't know if he understands my desire ... If he takes the place of the one in question, everything will just go smoothly. My desire increases with each passing day, it continues to work improperly, BUT AS IF THERE IS NO ONE TO SEE IT! There are people in the store who are taller than her who have to see the way it works ... but why does everyone close their eyes as if? Please tell me if I can get this out of my head, this fixed idea or if I dare to wait for my star moment ... tell me what to do please! He kept asking me what to do and he wished we weren't on bad terms. And I don't know if he understands my desire ... If he takes the place of the one in question, everything will just go smoothly. My desire increases with each passing day, it continues to work improperly, BUT AS IF THERE IS NO ONE TO SEE IT! There are people in the store who are taller than her who have to see the way it works ... but why does everyone close their eyes as if? Please tell me if I can get this out of my head, this fixed idea or if I dare to wait for my star moment ... tell me what to do please! who have to see the way it works ... but why does everyone close their eyes as if? Please tell me if I can get this out of my head, this fixed idea or if I dare to wait for my star moment ... tell me what to do please! who have to see the way it works ... but why does everyone close their eyes as if? Please tell me if I can get this out of my head, this fixed idea or if I dare to wait for my star moment ... tell me what to do please!
I'm not talking against employees, they're talking about themselves. I just want the job ... please someone really competent to advise me something. How can I prove that I am worthy of the position or these are just sick ambitions .. tell me they are not ..
What do you want? The position, or to remove your colleague? When you want a job, isn't what you write about it just an excuse?
I want the job! I want her! How can I get it, should I dare, should I prove myself? Does it make sense .. is there anyone to see me .. in principle there is, but what can I do for god? :( It has become a FIXED IDEA for me!
I am number 4. When you make a comparison between yourself and your colleague, what advantages do you see for you and her, respectively? Write something more about the position.
The position is deputy head of sales department in a large store. My advantages are that I have a desire for development and a career, for which the first step in my opinion is this. I have ideas for innovation, ordering and increasing customers accordingly. I'm just inspired with a passion for development, for something new. And it floats on the current and works as long as it doesn't stay with them. Not angry! But I just see that she is without any motivation. Either I'm too stupid to think I can take her place, or it's really possible. I am ready to prove in every way that I have ideas and desire to rise! But sometimes I cry ... and I cry because I'm sensitive and because I see that my boss sees her mistakes too and I see that he doesn't mind me becoming his deputy, but as if he has no good reason to tell his superiors, that the work is not going well because of her and she has to leave. Oh, I signed a lot, but I'm living, I hope someone gets into my situation. Thanks !
Hello, I give you advice - Work without noticing the personal relationship. You just work there, don't you? Your star moment will come without doing anything in that direction. And maybe you'll understand that they didn't give you this post now because it's early, they're not sure they can handle it. Dealing is a responsibility! They don't trust you yet, this is the answer that is not said directly! You are very young and beautiful employees, like birds wanting to fly before they have feathers, and not everyone is waiting for this moment. Diplomacy is a very important thing! If you decide to ask again: [email protected]
Girl, did you take the job? What happened, please keep us posted, I'm excited, write!
Hello! Not that I haven't taken the position yet, but with each passing day I want it more and more and I think I'm getting closer! But the only way is for her to leave ... but she has to go to bed first to have a reason to kick her out. So ... if anyone wants to advise me something, let them do it! I will be grateful, so many people read it, let them write to the experienced! THANK YOU!
It must be a miracle to get rid of it for no particular reason! Many people do not know how to do their job well, or at least not as well as others, but do not remove them for years. I think you are ambitious, but there is no place to develop. Try somewhere else. If you decide to leave, you will certainly be asked why you made this decision. Tell them that you want to develop, that you want more responsibilities to prove your qualities - and if you are a valuable staff for them, they can offer you an alternative;)
From the author: Now the problem is that I constantly talk nonsense and always make my boss guess, but he understands what I want and sees my ambitions, just pretends to be fucked as they say :) I think he knows that I want the position that this is my desire and the reason for my erratic mood and hard work. But he asks me what he has and wants to tell him, but I do not find the courage :( tell me how to tell him about my ambitions and does it make sense to talk about it given that he "understands" what it is about? Why he so keen to say it in his eyes and how to find the courage and the right words though, would it be better if the cards were open or .. PS I've become a workaholic, I'm constantly thinking about my work, it's not good at all according to me. I don't know what he needs maybe a break? And maybe only my goal will fix me from this mental state of mine. And if there are such people here, let them write me how to deal with the problem. THANKS!!!
Now listen to what I have to say. In a store, profits fall from FALSE goods, invoices, and double-entry bookkeeping. Don't you understand that they don't trust you? You're the Barbie doll. Your boss will kick you out tomorrow and take your copy in your place. My advice is: Don't think that the bosses didn't appreciate you. You sit on your ass and start stalking that woman in a blunder. It seems to me that you are very stupid to set traps, because you will fall into them. Whores usually sleep with the boss. Try it. Your parachute may open. If I have a store, I will take a 50-year-old friend to run it. I know he won't lie to me. A man like you shovels them. GS1
To the 14th opinion of the author: I want to tell you that I am not k *** and as you call me and I do not want to sleep with my boss! I have serious ambitions for development and aspiration to rise in the hierarchy. I think I'm smart enough and intelligent girl with high goals, not STUPID as you call me! I'm sorry, but I'm here to seek an objective opinion from people who want to help me and give me good advice, to a young and ambitious person like me! Thank you in advance again.
If you're sure she's so incompetent that you don't take a longer sick leave and leave her to fend for herself? If you're right, she'll blow herself up. At least it worked for me.
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Either leave or stop talking against employees because it's not right.