I need to tell you. I work in a relatively small store that offers both four types of services and sells ordinary stationery at the same time. This is my fourth job, I'm 28 years old and my other jobs have always been satisfied and pre-charged with me and would take me again, but this job is not the case. I am constantly subject to attacks and criticism of how I am phlegmatic, how I can not do my job, how i have something, etc. And so my pay is also very low for this job the minimum wage, and I constantly stay overtime (unpaid) to catch up on my "phlegmatic" and as a result, my friend is causing me problems because we do not have personal free time for myself and because I do not respect myself and keep them silent on the attacks.I have very low self-esteem and as a result, my problems are from this. Please help me with advice.
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billsbadass99 answered · May 30, 2020
The problem is, you're not there. He's looking for a job at a big company, you're not paying for a future here.
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genuinepaidguys answered · May 30, 2020
Well, your friend's right when he tells you you don't respect yourself and let them play you. More sensitive and less self-esteem people are usually also the ones with whom they are most often abused, and they are the first to wash their hands when something goes wrong. They use your insecurities to suppress you even more, telling you you're phlegmatic. In this way, they create a sense of guilt in you, and they in turn create the illusory feeling that they have the right to hold you overtime without being paid. In short, they manipulate and use you.
I don't see any point in wasting energy trying to adjust the attitude and situation there. Just get yourself a new job quickly. And be more confident.
Success! :)
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lucianaortiz answered · May 30, 2020
Listen, there's no one specific workplace in the world for every single person. We are in the 21st century, diversity is huge. You don't have to work in this store, since you can work somewhere else, other work and whatever you want.
You, with that low self-esteem, will collapse in a similar way. Insecure people don't need to be crushed, they need to feel comfortable to build confidence and do well. That's true for other people when we think about it. You have every right to leave, it's normal, people do it all the time. You're not tied to this job.
I'm sorry, but the minimum wage is not worth daily rough treatment, unpaid extra hours and tons of labor. Come on, get tight and stop thinking nonsense. Your bosses with a similar practice will very quickly be left without business, because there is no one to tolerate them and work with them willingly at the same time.
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pablo_y_tere answered · May 30, 2020
The friend wants to tick, he doesn't care what's wrong with you.