Hi, I've been looking for a job for a long time and I finally found it. At first I liked walking so much that I was constantly thinking about the day. I got along very well with my colleagues. I am basically a very cheerful person, I dare say that I have a sense of humor ... and I quickly adapt to work and people. Every day we worked and had fun, laughed and joked with each other .... not in a few months everything .... changed. Colleagues began to back away, to be rude, and not even to call me for a cigarette. There is a colleague who annoys me a hell of a lot and I don't contact him. I haven't been very rude about him, but I don't hide it from him or from anyone that I don't like. And another colleague who came after me annoyed us a lot, because firstly he didn't work but supported himself and secondly, that he was blabbering on like crazy. But after a while they put me on the same machine with him and we both worked and gave me a chance to get to know him well. It's really weird, but it's not that bad. Anyway ... today very few people respect and talk to me, and I stayed with this "strange" colleague. From now on we will be a team with him and we have to help each other and for that I decided to admit my words to him. That is, I had a guilty conscience and told him everything that I and the others had said. I don't know what I wanted to do to insure that he would probably be my best friend anymore ... I don't know. I'm very ashamed I made a mistake somewhere and I don't know what, but I changed my opinion of most colleagues about me (and it was very good), and now what I don't know what to do, I don't like going to work when I know people are talking behind my back. And I still try to like them again but it doesn't work. What can I do to get my friends back? How to bring back the happy days again?
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As banal as it sounds at work behind the backs of colleagues, either only good or nothing is said.