Good evening!
In December I started a new job with a completely new team. On day 3 I realized that one of my colleagues had a different attitude towards me and demonstrated it openly.
On December 19, he had a birthday and we had all prepared a little surprise for him and he suggested how he had already found what he was looking for and how he would want to keep it ....
I'm in a serious relationship and I tried to act like there was nothing.
Subsequently, we communicated on Facebook and not on my initiative. He admitted to me that he liked me, I did not respond in the same way and explained that I had a serious relationship and that I would not cheat on the person next to me.
During the pandemic I lost my job ....
He was very disappointed ... He often followed me and liked the posts on social networks until I uploaded a photo with my partner.
I admit that I deliberately uploaded it, and not in order to irritate him, but to deny him myself, because in all probability after the quarantine I may be sent back to work and until then he will lose interest in me.
I would like to ask if you think I was able to refuse it? We are not children and I do not like such behavior. Flirting, ligatures in the workplace is completely unacceptable to me and I would never respond. He is very arrogant and always mentions how the people of his zodiac sign were what they were, how cool they are, how every woman should take advantage of the opportunity that is offered to them. Such neighborhood insinuations are very unpleasant to me, but I like my job.
I will be happy to share your opinion. I don't post anything on social networks and I don't log in often, I deliberately removed my messenger to avoid communication. There is no way to delete it, because it will be annoying if we work together again and that's all I thought of as an option.
For now, the measures are working and I hope it will be permanent. How do you think?