Hi, I'm a 21-year-old girl. I have been working in an office for almost 1 year and for some time now I have been receiving attacks and malicious comments, but not from women, but from men! When I went to work for the first time, I was aware that there would be girls who would disapprove of me and talk behind my back, that didn't bother me, but when my male colleagues started teasing me for no reason last week, I was very surprised. After all, I have done absolutely nothing to them, I try not to even pay attention to their nonsense, but I can't stand it anymore!
What do you think could be the reason for these people to treat me badly since they haven't even communicated with me, don't know me, and yet have such a hostile attitude towards me?
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txcollegestudent4 answered · July 05, 2020
You know the story of the sour grapes, don't you?
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xxxsaku answered · July 05, 2020
What exactly are they telling you? Do you have personal contacts with them? If your company is large, it probably has staff you can turn to for help.
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jenhallow answered · July 05, 2020
Um ... just like Number 2 told you things are
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qoralqueen answered · July 05, 2020
It will hardly be like that. It seems to me that you are saving us something. If it's not that, but you're a liaison, it can irritate others. In any case, no one behaves like that for no reason.
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kinkyhumor answered · July 05, 2020
I agree with number 1. It's just that the men you don't let go get angry. You ignore them correctly. In time, they will find another object. Do not dress provocatively and sexy at work and do not negotiate after work with anyone - separate work from your personal life.
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sexylax69 answered · July 06, 2020
I'm not a liaison, I don't know the reason. I don't spare anything in my history, I haven't done anything to them. Number 3, they call me miserable, arrogant bastard, and I'm not like that at all, nor do I think of anything more than them, nor do I drool unlike most of my colleagues. At first it wasn't like that, I've been working there for 10 months, and only now have the attacks started ...
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yeahufknluvit answered · July 06, 2020
Are you doing well with your job?
Does anyone else have to finish things for you or correct your mistakes?
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_bigger_18 answered · July 07, 2020
Author, did you ASK them directly in the eyes WHY do they talk and insult you like that?
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minkababies answered · July 07, 2020
From issue 3, then I recommend you read the book Decontaminate Difficult People at Work Without Using Weapons Or Duct Tape by Marsha Petrie Sue. I don't know if there is a translation. But if you understand English very much, you will like it very much.
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cocoaloca answered · July 07, 2020
Ignore these "men". Watch your work and let them talk "femininely".
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ukpower1 answered · July 08, 2020
The best thing to do is to pretend that nothing has happened and to always be smiling. This will irritate these individuals even more and things will certainly escalate, so when that moment comes you have to be prepared and cool. Carry your smartphone with you and when someone insults you, record it with your phone. Then go to your boss and play the recording. After this incident, I guarantee you that no one will dare to mushroom. Unfortunately, such times have come that people have lost the moral limit and do not stop until they are hit by a number.