You know the story of the sour grapes, don't you?
What exactly are they telling you? Do you have personal contacts with them? If your company is large, it probably has staff you can turn to for help.
Um ... just like Number 2 told you things are
It will hardly be like that. It seems to me that you are saving us something. If it's not that, but you're a liaison, it can irritate others. In any case, no one behaves like that for no reason.
I agree with number 1. It's just that the men you don't let go get angry. You ignore them correctly. In time, they will find another object. Do not dress provocatively and sexy at work and do not negotiate after work with anyone - separate work from your personal life.
I'm not a liaison, I don't know the reason. I don't spare anything in my history, I haven't done anything to them. Number 3, they call me miserable, arrogant bastard, and I'm not like that at all, nor do I think of anything more than them, nor do I drool unlike most of my colleagues. At first it wasn't like that, I've been working there for 10 months, and only now have the attacks started ...
Are you doing well with your job?
Does anyone else have to finish things for you or correct your mistakes?
Author, did you ASK them directly in the eyes WHY do they talk and insult you like that?
From issue 3, then I recommend you read the book Decontaminate Difficult People at Work Without Using Weapons Or Duct Tape by Marsha Petrie Sue. I don't know if there is a translation. But if you understand English very much, you will like it very much.
Ignore these "men". Watch your work and let them talk "femininely".
The best thing to do is to pretend that nothing has happened and to always be smiling. This will irritate these individuals even more and things will certainly escalate, so when that moment comes you have to be prepared and cool. Carry your smartphone with you and when someone insults you, record it with your phone. Then go to your boss and play the recording. After this incident, I guarantee you that no one will dare to mushroom. Unfortunately, such times have come that people have lost the moral limit and do not stop until they are hit by a number.
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