She writes you another mistress, but as an ex. With your peers, you don't experience such stirring emotions because they don't have the right experience, and this gentleman is already a grown man and knows how to process you so that you feel wanted, special, enjoy being with him and wanting him yourself. But he won't leave his wife and two children. Not for you, not for anyone else. After his wife's got him, for a while, maybe he'il back off, then he'il come back and get what he wants from you. If not now, then after a while, step aside and put an end to all this. Life is ahead of you, and one day you'il meet someone you'il be real with. I know how good it feels, but it's deceptive. Now that my story is over, I'm sorry for the wasted time, the wasted nerves, and that I ever agreed to be with a married man.
How did you know she was thoughtful and whiny? Did he tell you?
For the record, I'm not a wife, i'm not old and unhappy. I'm not going to sue you. When you're backing up after another year, the big brother's going to find another young girl. You don't have to step aside, he'il probably do it if his wife threatens him.
I don't think you care about his family. If you're in a fight with a married man. Although he's guilty, too. In fact, even more so, he's the family one. When you're attracted to older people, be with one again, but free. But you said yourself that the thrill of doing something forbidden is great... there are frees at this age who will please you. Also experienced. Don't be the second violin. You're young and you're not leaning on the married man. You had fun, okay? Step aside now.
A lot of women at some stage in their lives have been lovers, even me. And men. I've had a thrill myself, and I've kicked him. I wasn't in love, I didn't want it. Make sure you don't fall, it's not out of the question. Then you'il suffer. He won't leave his wife unless she kicks him out. And he's got two kids, you don't need one. Life is ahead of you. And think about what kind of parasite he's cheating on, and she's got a baby at home. As his wife, she's so awful, why is he with her? Don't fall for his stories, most married people tell all sorts of things to open their parachute.
No, don't back off by any means! Do your best to divorce your wife, and marry you! She gave birth to two kids, and you stayed home looking at them on your own. But don't whine at all so you don't give her any reason to complain about you to your next mistress. because, you know, whoever cheats is so much.
He's not guilty. However, don't trust him, he doesn't have to be grumpy, they can do their best!
And I'm 32 years old with a happy marriage and a child, but I'm very excited about having a 19-year-old mistress. The young one is young, who wants to tell me what. And yes, infidelity itself is arousing. Yes, it's not right, yes, it's selfish and ugly, but it's exhilarating and exciting.
Congratulations! Bravo! You're dooming two children to an unhappy childhood! What a good, mature man you are! Obviously, you don't care about desperate, pathetic whining women, but know that one day you'il be in their role. You won't be 21 forever, my girl. One day another one will turn your husband on and send him nude photos. Don't tell one person what you can't handle. Don't go into other people's families, tearing the bonds of husbands, parents and children. Too bad, child, you haven't learned anything from life yet...
I don't know who's to say who's to blame, but there are two children who can be left without a healthy family at a young age, which in time will affect them very badly.
You know, on the other, you're going to be cheated on, so don't make out the desperate wives like that!
The wheel's spinning!
I, as a desperate wife, say, if I touch my dods, pack the bags, invite the mistress in my house to take over my throne and smoke will be gone.
It gets everything I have: The man, the children, the laundry, the dirty socks, the pots, the everyday life. I wish them a happy ever after and eternal love.
Who knew, understood what :)
Haha go do your homework and don't get into movies.
And step back and not, next time you'il be smarter playing mistress so they don't pluck your feathers somewhere.
Heh, you know what's funniest in this whole situation?
That in time, you'il be in place of his "snarling and grumpy" wife - with a depreciated p.. and with two kids on your head, and some little cov will muddy your water without even realizing it... :)
Everything comes back to this world, but... Go bold!
You're such a fool, your lover, author. At least he'il learn to keep his phone.
His wife was fussy, but two children told her that one of the almost-baby... And while you're going to the baby, your husband's some chick somewhere.
I'm a man in my 30s. And I have a child and the greatest woman in the world, two girls like you, who I fuck like parantis, call them my little whores, fuck them mostly from behind rough, then in the mouth, and I've humiliated them, and i'm super cool right now. I lie to them that I'm not doing anything with my wife, that I'm neglected in my country, even if she's fat. The truth is, ever since my wife gave birth, I can't her like that, and I'm sick of it. You're probably going to say this guy's crazy. I'm super nice to lovers, but i'm really so squeamish, especially after sex. I would never leave my wife for another one, at least for one of these whores. But I want it back, obviously. I've always had respect for her. But I don't want her to be like that anymore, I want to kiss her gently and tell her how much I love her and end up with her. And my wife is the best. I'm very afraid of losing her. What's more, I'm afraid she might miss a little rudeness at times and look for her with someone else. Sometimes I imagine she's going to get fucked like I fuck whores and I go crazy, I'm just spinning. I want to tell you that it doesn't matter if you step aside. I'm sorry, but no one cares about you, you're his disgusting whore for fun, he must be secretly hating you. If it's not you, it'il be different, whatever.
I do not understand those who speak to the author about children and that they could be left without a "healthy family" etc.
The kids are responsible for their father, not the whores, people.
As number 24 says, if it's not her, it's going to be different.
24, dude, I'm not judging you, I'm just interested in what pleasure you enjoy with them when they're disgusting to you?
15, I agree with everything, I just didn't understand why the kids would leave? It's going to be a good thing, I admit, but it's not going to be very good for them. I don't think children should be used as a tool in your relationship.
I don't understand, dear girl, why you call yourself with all these offensive epithes - shameless, brazen, unconscionable. Notice that none of the commenters used them. Just you. That is, this is this self-assessment. From your post, I've drawn a completely different picture. First I asked myself why this whole story should be shared publicly, as it is quite banal. Second, I tried to look for the problem you're looking for help with, and I didn't find one. You're in a good position. Are you going to "ruin a family"? Trust me, a healthy family can't be broken. And from a 19-year-old, the least. My guess is that you yourself feel insecure, and that's why you're seeking public support. Here I am! Realize that life is what happens to us while we make other plans. At your age, I also preferred casual relationships, but that was because I had serious plans for my education and didn't want to get married. I wasn't the mistress of a married man just because it seemed too burdensome, and yet I wanted to have free fun - holidays, pubs, weekends, and if your partner was hiding, that couldn't happen. But then I started to prefer relationships that set on a healthy friendly basis - like-minded people, colleagues by profession, people with similar interests, etc. Then I turned to men who actually wanted a family in his 100-year-old version - he at work, she in the kitchen. In the end, though, things turned so much that I bet on love and general emotion. And I wasn't wrong. At least to date, I still think I wasn't wrong. With you, author, this experience in the organization of love life is at the level of first grade. You haven't come your way yet, and you can't look back and say, I was wrong. It's okay, at least for me, that your lover is a family man. The problem is, you don't know what you want not from him, but from yourself. If you just want sex, okay? If you want to pay for your place, so do you. But why are you bothering us here with some dramas about how you were going to ruin a family? Well, don't spoil it then. Even though you're not in a position to ruin it. You're too inexperienced for that. And if these people actually get divorced, then the reason is not in you, but in the lack of integrity in your wife. In short, you're going to do his wife a favor. I would thank you from the bottom of my heart.
28, I'm 15... I think there was a healthy dose of sarcasm in my post :) That's why I added, "Who found out, found out." When you get a man with kids, you get a man with kids, not a milut and those who come for two days a month.
Do you think I'il leave my kids behind? The idea is that few women clearly understand the consequences of being married with children.
For children in particular:
Whether I'm with their father or not, it doesn't matter. I believe that children should spend equal time with their parents, even if they are separated. I don't slave to prejudice, you and Mom, Dad alone. Their father will spend at least half his time with them. Because he's their father, and because they need him, and he needs them. I don't understand, and I don't accept Sabbath/Sunday Dads. Nor do I accept that children are a tool in the hands of their parents. They are the best thing about a marriage/relationship.
15/32, in my opinion, if you were a man and not a woman, then the chance of someone writing you 'but why would you leave your kids' would be a lot, a lot smaller.
In Bulgaristan, there is still the perception that children are raised and cared mainly by their mother, and sultan-grandmother - rather - is present in the next room, resting in front of the TV for example...
From 24 to 27 dear (a man would not ask this question), the truth is that every man likes to obey, to inflict pain, just mine is a little out of the ordinary, and I am married. And the women they tie up are disgusting, look at the author, they're all like that. She's got to know the guy that he's married and they're just going to have fun. Then he began to show some power over his family's fate. Her whole theme is a provocation. From the first sentence it becomes clear to me, she likes to be insulted and humiliated, that's why she wrote the subject, she calls you to pour a bunch of shit. That's what they pray to spit in their mouths. And when they see that they're not the first hole in the world, they start to tell you if you're sleeping with your wife/other women and making movies. They're trying to get you a sucker, hiding a letter to your wife in your pocket, or they're secretly taking her phone number. Forgive me, so if I want to be with you, I'm going to part with my wife, why would you take that choice away from me? Because if you leave it to me, I'm not going to pick you, will I? And when you can ruin my family, is i'm going to fall for it? Basically, that's disgusting to me, the mentality. Whichever one is obvious in this subject. I know very well that I'm getting involved in this myself, and it's nobody's fault. I have a problem, and I know that. I like kinky things about sex, but I don't like women who tend to do them. My wife is a doctor, a former ballerina, a beauty, a perfect mother, and I adore her. My lovers are nothing, zero compared to her. I decided to write an opinion on this topic because I wanted the author to understand what was in the head of her trampling and to get down to earth. I think it'il be good for her. Thanks to her theme, I became convinced of some of my observations and my sterilotype became completely clear. I don't want my family to depend on the mood of some crazy masochist.
32 - Sarcasm and posts on the net are like water and oil.
Is that the only one that seems to me that #24 is a woman?
A man who wouldn't write such a comment, not as vulgar as a bitter, horned woman who wants to remind lovers that they're just for sex, so they don't look for anything else.
whoever you want, but one day you'il be 32 with a kid and your husband can with students while you change diapers.
24, 34, your condition is a bit like the Madonna complex and the k*rva.
And I don't want to judge you, but if your wife is so holy and dear, you won't cheat on her with some walking brothels, because if she finds out (and the truth comes out sooner or later) she'il feel betrayed and hurt. Not to mention the you're talking about the same brothels that she was fat, and I don't know what. You don't sound holy to you, nor do your actions show it.
And she's got more rough sex, and you're going to be depriving her because she's too holy. Imagine looking for it from another with the words "my husband sucks in bed and doesn't make me feel good." He'd probably feel really bad.
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Life gets more and more disgusting every day.... where did true love remain?
Any woman who is a mistress and thinks a married man loves her cruelly is lying. A man will never leave his wife and children for ku... which makes him nice... Bom. The mistress is for fun, even mockery, which many women do not understand that they do with them. The married man can convince you that you're his only true love, it's a lie to you on... Was. A married man is looking for sex, not love. Women, understand it.
34, I don't understand that:
'I like kinky things about sex, but I don't like women who tend to do them.
I'm a woman, I respect myself tremendously, I haven't been a mistress, I like sometimes a little rougher.
I'm looking for a serious commitment and quality relationship, I don't agree to any less of that.
And what, I get a gentle, restrained, porcelain.
What prevents you from having kinky sex with the women you love.
Well, if I don't have kinky sex with the guy next to me, I won't love him.
How come you have this addiction reversed?
Up to number 40 Many men, in Bulgaria and around the world, have actually abandoned and will continue to abandon their wives and even children because of... and who make good with... i. I've been a wife, a wife for a long time, for the record.
42,, you say? :)
Whether you've been a wife for a long time doesn't matter. When he comes, he doesn't ask.
A man leaves his wife when he's not emotionally involved. When there's nothing between them anymore. They may be best friends and wonderful roommates, but wish, affection, etc. /Women are the same, but we are an idea more patient."
And the whistles, they're a bonus.
You could be the perfect flutist and still be left behind. Marriage and family are not a simple formula. It's not like, crazy sex, etc. But without question, good sex is important.
To the author: Matzko, you're 19 years old. Everything interesting and wonderful is in front of you. You don't need a man after a divorce, two kids and an ex-wife. trust me! No matter how much sex, libow and passion- you don't need it!
He had two children, his wife was moaning and engaged to a young 19-year-old... the bahti tart. A clean sample of garbage. It's not worth the exercise.
If you like older men, there are free dudes on this rise. and not free, at least there are no children.
Black Sabbath you hit me in the ten, from yesterday I read about this complex Madonna and and it's like it's meant for me, except I haven't always been like this. I cheated for the first time three years ago when my wife was a few months pregnant. It was very hard for everyone, I was home alone. The first time I picked up a waitress and for two days we didn't come out of us, then with a few of the net. It's become a habit for me, I rarely have any remorse for fears that I'm going to get caught, and as I said in my first comment, I imagine sometimes that my wife goes to her, just like I did. That would drive me crazy if it happened. I really think that what I'm doing doesn't hurt my marriage, even the contrary. I don't have any feelings for other women, and I don't have any feelings for other women, i don't have any feelings for them, no one to see me. It can only become a problem if someone pushes to notify my wife. They've tried. Otherwise, I don't think it's impossible for a man to have kinky sex with his wife. There are men who like just such women, more open, more open, slightly vulgar, I'm not one of them. I'm jealous, I'm going to freak out to know that someone else has perverted my wife.
By 36, it seems to me that you find it hard to accept the truth, which you don't read the other comments.
45, I don't know exactly what to write to you. I'm jealous, too, and if I had a friend who was cheating on me, it would be scary...
It's about putting yourself in your wife's place and thinking about how she'd feel when she found out you were cheating on her, even if you didn't have feelings for the lovers in question or whatever they were. Nowadays, many women can have sex without feelings, and it is not necessarily that a woman falls in love with intimate contact with a stranger or a little-known man.
I don't mean to sound like a threat, but everything on this planet is coming back, and your wife may also decide to cheat for one reason or another, or make a fuss when she finds out about what you've done. And indeed, your actions are disrespectful to her, especially if she has pledged allegiance to you. Pregnancy has been severe, but the bad news is that you succumbed at a time of weakness, and even worse, you allowed this to continue to date. You also rarely have remorse... or your conscience is poorly developed, or something somewhere in time has broken you. Maybe it was the pregnancy or something.
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This Black Sabbath is starting to rise in my eyes - I had taken it a while ago, for which I apologize, but it just grew up in the forum. My worry is that "good apples eat them pigs" - i hope she doesn't run into someone like 45, that jealousy doesn't help there. The man has a wooden soul, it's important not to get caught, he was left alone at home for a month or two, and that's an excuse to his wife, your future child, and hang out in the sheets with women you don't even like. There's some pride in his words, look at me how great I am, waitresses wipe all kinds of things. Pathetic picture, lack of any responsibility, infantile mixed with brazenness - which woman is okeapsil, and his child in what smell lives?
47, sarcasm, irony, mockery?
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Black Sabbath, none of the above, relax, I don't attack you, and there's no reason to attack you - just told him at 45, and the fact that he didn't understand you and never understands you is a separate matter.
I wish you don't come across such a variety of cunning, they're hard to recognize, but it hurts like a whip!
Look, you might think he makes you feel like a real woman, but you're still a kid and you're thinking about it all in childhood. Attack you? Why? You're good for it. You don't owe his wife anything, he's the one I'd "attack," but he won't either. It's not about other people's lives.
Council? There's no point in one, because you're going to do whatever you want. Maybe at some point you'il realize that there's absolutely no point in being with him. Yes, you're going to get a certain number of nice sex, and yes, it's normal for most of the experience of sex to say its word, but it's also with you - it feels great, which it really isn't. :) He's just an ordinary man- like everyone else. And yes, in the same way they feel (some of) young boys with an experienced woman.
I wish you to find your harmony and happiness!
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24, in my opinion, these women simply want to be the center of attention of anyone who contacts them, whether it be a lover, a friend, etc., because as children they were neglected in their family - they had a sister or brother who received more attention from parents and other close people, and they were in the shadows, neglected.
Often, such women would like to 'ruin' your 'family', not because they've kicked so much to take your current wife's place, but simply because they want to punish you for not giving them as much attention as they wanted.
I don't just write this to you, and I'm not on the side of anyone in this kind of topic, but because I have a friend like that that we've known each other since we were young kids, and she's just that kind of woman today - a mistress who, if she's not the center of attention in her lover's life, finds a way to punish him and it works out, maybe because she's quite conscious already, she knows her emotions pretty well and why they are.
Like I said, people like that want to be the center of the universe for every person in their lives. She's been on a rock with her friends, too, and I've been able to do that, but she's been hitting a rock, maybe because I'm a kid and I'm used to my attention being sought after and winning, not me being the one to fight - to make an effort to get it, hold it, etc. Childhood is largely defining to the psyche of the grown man - we have reached this conclusion not once, having philosophizes about things. 100 percent, and you're who you are because of your attitude in your childhood.
Be careful /it's also to be careful not to, if you're meant to be, you're going to get into someone more conscious like this friend of mine, because they're going to get your hair gray. at best. Just the fact that you're so confident in having control of your affair, it's going to be a very strong trump card for her actually...
Well done, little one! You're such a heroine! You know, everything's coming back! First of all, there's a good chance he'il just dump you in the end, because you're not going to be as interesting to him as you are now, you know, one day you're going to be 20 and a new 19-year-old younger, fresher and more exciting than you. Second, I don't know why this is happening, but really, most of the comes back to you one day. You're a very horde of yourself now, but someday you're going to be the permanent girlfriend/wife and you're going to see how cool it is to be mocked behind your back. So enjoy your "achievement" because it won't last long.
46, you're obviously very young, so you're saying that if you catch your boyfriend cheating, it's going to get scary. And what exactly is going to happen, sweetheart, what can you do? The only thing possible is to break up. I was so thrown out at your age, because this thing was always super disgusting. When it happens in my family I have to swallow it-believe it is not easy when you are connected by two children, common properties, common relatives. And my husband is flawless otherwise in every way, he does everything for his family, and as brazenly as it sounds, I'm sure he loves me. Just briefly, he got into the clutches of a slick and cunning slut. I've always been freaked out by men's thinking-what's keeping me from loving my wife, but when something foreign falls... Here, you have a visual example-- not ashamed to tell what a wonderful woman she has, how much she loves her, and how proud she is... and how he cheats on her by lying to the that there is a fat woman with whom she does not sleep. I know what time we live in, but I'il never stop being amazed at people's degradation. And to the author what to tell her-she's going to be used and dumped, she has to make sure she's not able to ruin anyone's family. Yes, I'il agree with 42, there are indeed men who divorce their wives, extremely rare, but there is. I personally know three of them. Pischman got up and swore that they ruined their families... And they take it out of their second wives.
53, if you are meek and humble, I am not. yes, it's really going to get scary. Some people out of jealousy do scary shit!
And i wouldn't tolerate anyone cheating on me with rags, explaining to them how fat I was, and when she comes home to fat, let alone have kids like that! I can't stand people with weak angels, and if you have nerves, you put up with your man. Don't forget, you chose him.
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