the question is quite general to answer unequivocally. you did not write anything about the man, whether you love him, whether he loves you, but only about the financial side. other things being equal, it is better to start a relationship with a man without children if you plan to build a family. not only the children will always be a part of his life and there will be a commitment to them, but also the former. it doesn't matter how old the children are, who they live with. problems while getting used to the new woman next to him are inevitable. last but not least is the financial side. if I still have a hard time, another child would overturn the car, I don't see how he will support you while you are a mother. however, financial problems can be temporary, one can successfully get back on one's feet and move on, or one can sink further. but since you're obviously only looking at money, more precisely, their absence, you better not get involved with this person. F45
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It is very relative, but by getting in touch with a person in such a situation - you become part of his life, of his problems, of his lack of money. In general - misery and you have to decide for yourself if you are ready to be part of it. Nowadays, many of the problems, conflicts are rooted in the lack of funds, think about whether you want it for yourself and your child.