Suppose you start a relationship with someone and everything goes well. He seems in love with you, and you with him. But one day his ex-partner writes to you to tell you that he is looking for her to see her and makes obscene proposals. He shows you correspondence, and everything is as he says. Would you like to know that, and would you be grateful that she told you? Even if he doesn't want to separate you, but just tells you to be careful and that it's not fair to you? If you were in her place, would you tell the new one that you are still wanted? How would you react after that?
1 lll_p answered
I would like to know and I would like to thank you, it's awful for someone else to know how they make you miserable in front of everyone. Whether I would do the same depends a lot on the chick herself. (Whether she was the reason for the separation or not, whether they knew him and whether she knew me ..)