Hello, unknown princesses :) You can see what my question is. Would any woman sit with me again .. will she stay at all: D I've been single for a long time. Do not get me wrong. I haven't dropped out. I have some chances, but not serious. Not what I'm looking for. I want a serious relationship, not to entertain a 17-18 year old kid for a month until she's tired of playing me. Not that I will tolerate her making fun of me. And now to give "a little" details for myself. Male 26 from a big city, 185 cm, 85 kg. I look good (I know it, I've been told it, but it doesn't matter - I'm just describing myself to get an idea), body face everything is fine. Not everything is pink (wait). I go to trainings, I love shopping and I dress well. I have a cousin designer and he taught me (big praZ). In general ... without wanting and without purposefully doing it, from the side I look like a cocky and bad boy who looks very happy. I have the permissible self-confidence, I make jokes, I always break the silence around the people where I have been and everyone likes that. Mostly among colleagues and in the jobs where I have worked hard. But here's the main problem that makes me wonder if I would keep a woman by my side. Due to betrayals and disinterest of my previous acquaintances, classmates and "friends-traitors", I was left alone. I stopped all contact with everyone. I'm just tired of being ignored because of my girlfriends, lying about money and so on. I also had a girlfriend for 2 years, but my attention was well distributed between her and them. I deleted them all and when they look for me I don't pick them up. So for a long time. Not to mention that they were vandals and did obscene deeds, they stained me and now the neighbors have a bad opinion of me. So now, apart from going to work, training and malls, I do nothing else. In my free time I am always at home. I call him "House arrest": D I can be with different people for fun, for a party and at a table, but I can't pretend and I can't be artificial just not to be alone. It won't be much, much fun. So, in my opinion, what woman would stay with me in this situation? Meaning if I will be enough for her? If she introduces me to her friends, I guarantee I will fit into the setting. I know my girls and it's normal for them to want fun all the time. I'm not sure I alone would be enough for her.
For example, on birthdays, holidays, NG, Christmas, I've always been alone and certainly no girl will like it. Wouldn't going out to a restaurant just the two of them be stupid? As for myself. I'm definitely good at it. I am caring, I give small gifts emphasizing tenderness and attention. Whatever is up to me, I will do it to make her feel happy. I have a car (Opel at the age of 12), I will take her back and forth, to swimming pools, cinema, theater, mountains, shops, sea of vacations ... BUT you remember that if it's just the two of us PERMANENTLY on her, I will I'm tired: D No one will sit with me because I'm very "beautiful": D That's why divisions and infidelities happen - because they are bored and have no thrill. Well, surely some crazy person would hang out with me or a single mother with 2 children (100%) ... but I can't do that. The dating sites are full of people who have flown from color to color all their lives and at the age of 35-40 have thought of getting home ... but late mom :( All this above prevents me from taking any action to find a girlfriend. What do you think? Ah, I forgot to say, I do not take a lot of money;) I've always worked for a maximum of 1000 levs. Personally, I would be happy to live in a dormitory with my wife / girlfriend and to deal with a common budget. This is all I can offer: D What do you think about the topic and what do you suggest :) CHN: *: *: *
1 jayesummers answered
Well, what can I tell you - happy couples isolate themselves from everyone else. My husband and I are like that - our friends started to fall apart because of different interests / views / achievements, and besides work / fitness / travel / homework we don't have much time to spend together and that's why we prefer to be alone. Whenever you comply with a lot of people, quarrels start. It strikes me that the people around me with unhappy relationships are looking for the exact opposite - all discos, big companies, parties.