Hello! I'm a girl and I wonder if it would be an ugly thing if I didn't go to the ball? Especially if I'm the only one? If I choose not to go again, I will feel like a hermit, but this time I will not care, because I will not meet my class again and I hope in the future I will meet people with whom we will be on the same page and, with who will no longer feel like an outsider. I never felt accepted by my class. I just don't have any points of contact with them and I know that I won't have as much fun as they do (and I don't like gypsies and hangovers). For me, the experience will not have the same value as for them. That's why it seems completely pointless to give so much money (which I didn't even win, but my parents) for one night. Especially considering that for years I have been dreaming of traveling outside Bulgaria, and the money which I can give for the ball are my only chance to travel. But if I refuse to go to the ball, I will feel bad, as if I have acted very ugly, given that everyone else will be there. What do you think?
1 handscombforu answered
M 31 I felt like an outsider in my class. However, I went to the ball and it was not good at all. If you don't want to walk, don't walk. This is not an ugly thing to do. If you do not intend to keep in touch with classmates, it is still a question of whether you will go.