I would like to hear the opinion of women on two issues. Thanks for the answers in advance! How long (since starting sex) did it take before you had your first orgasm Is there a frigid woman at all or are their husbands just incompetent?
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I am a man, but I will allow myself to answer you. In some women the orgasm is from the very beginning, in others somewhere in the middle, and in others .... In some men the instinct of how to arouse a woman, how to do it is stronger, in others not. And if he has read a little literature besides instinct, it is even better for both. I have a friend who had sexual intercourse with a woman for the first time (about 35, who was with men over 10 years older than him, she was an activist) for one date - the first had an orgasm three times without any one of all his other connections before (everything is true and confirmed). There are three important things for men: 1. Not to be selfish and not to do it only for himself 2. Not to be worried - it also depends on the woman what will happen and to abstract and relax. 3. To use both instinct and what has been learned,
For me, no more than 3 months would have passed.
Four years....
№ 1 - congratulations on the accuracy, I absolutely agree with you. I am a woman and from my own experience I will say that a lot depends on the man, to predispose you, to know where and how to touch you, and to relax yourself / not to be worried /, because the psyche is especially important and accordingly to you also have a fantasy, things apply to both men and women, if one is worried - it doesn't work. For the woman, I will say that she must also have read a little literature, to know which places are particularly sensitive to her and, accordingly, to direct the man there, then things fall into place. Everything is very individual.
Hi, I'm 20 and when I had sex for 1 time, I was with a boy I loved very much, we were together for a long time, after the 1st time he always tried to be nice, I trusted him, etc., but it didn't work. I can't say exactly how long it took, but I know for sure that the first 10 times not only did I not have an orgasm, but I didn't feel well. However, things fell into place. As for men, most don't care if the woman will cum, as long as they feel good. The only thing you can do is relax as much as possible and tell him exactly what you like without worrying. Or change partners :) Good luck! :)
I am a man and I will say only one thing ... if it is not true or tell me exactly: It all depends on the mood of the person. And if he knows how, where and when to do it ... if things don't work out, then changes or a change of partner must be made. In my opinion, in order for a woman to have an orgasm, the man and she must know at least a little literature. thanks
I'm a recorder here, so on the 3rd time I had an orgasm and since then 3-4 per intercourse
during intercourse, how many times can a woman reach orgasm?
SO ... there is an old saying that a woman is a woman of 30. For me this joke was valid, I did not experience any orgasm 30 years ago, but it coincided with the fact that I did not love this man, and after I met the man who I adore him as much as he adores me, and we both had supreme pleasure. Rosiros 49
to №8 It depends on whether you love and want your partner very much, then it depends on him if you show him your erogenous zones and what excites you the most. Then there is no cum on your part and he will go crazy. the more resilient the man, the more likely he is to bring you to more orgasms. This also applies to the woman for endurance .... Regards: Rosiros P.P. I have not had such a case, but I have heard that the selfish man, looking only at himself, will end in seconds. Well, there may be a health problem. VARIOUS PEOPLE, different ideals ...
I will only share that in 13 years of active sex life I have never experienced an orgasm. Now I'm with a man I really love, I'm starting to feel that if I relax completely I could experience an orgasm. The question is how to relax and break the pattern of behavior that I have for 13 years? Therefore, ladies, I will only say that with the right person and a little more faith in yourself, anything is possible ... Ina, 27 years old.
It depends mainly on the woman. For me, everything was immediately ...
I am a man but I can tell you I had a case with women one reached orgasm 8 times while I finished I another tormented her for 2 years and could not reach gas / we broke up / and I do not know further about her. a third had an orgasm, literally ejaculating and getting me all wet. different people different ideals.
When immediately, was it number 12? When did you fantasize for the first time?
№ 13 how exactly did you empty and wet you all over? Didn't she write? There are such cases ha ha ha.
14, I arrived long before the 1st time.
And how was it, 16? Is he dreaming it? And, for the first time, how do you both hurt and have an orgasm ???
As soon as it stopped hurting, that's right, yes. The first time we both didn't do anything with it and it was awful, but it's because of the opening itself. In fact, there was pain for the next 2, but the point is that as soon as things returned to normal, everything fell into place. I mean that. Because here, as far as I understand, most women talk about how long after normal sex they relax and begin to experience pleasure. Otherwise, it is clear that if there is pain there is no way.
That's better. Still, I can't believe at 16 (or something of the sort) that you can succeed right away ... Personal opinion.
I want to ask if anyone has had the same problem as me and if you think it will be solved. I'm used to cumming on my own, long before I start having sex with a man. That's how I succeed, with appropriate fantasies in my head. I have noticed that I have intense sensations when irritating the clitoris and anal area, but not such vaginal ones. So, although I really like sex, I don't end up without my hand. It could all be due to the fact that I haven't relaxed completely and I've been doing it recently.
First orgasm with a man - at 23, ie 5 years after 'my first time'.
I want to ask the following: "Can a woman who is 53 have an orgasm?"
23-what nonsense, of course you can! Some even then rediscover their sexuality. I am closer to the age before puberty and years before my first menstruation I had clitoral orgasms, why not a woman after the last?
Come on, a comment from me :) I did it for the first time with my first boyfriend, we were both 16, I was in a lot of pain and there was a lot of blood. After that we did it many more times but I never managed to finish. We broke up and after a while the next boyfriend came and with him how much sex I had is just not true but I never managed to finish. I started to think that the problem was in me, that something was wrong with my body and with each passing day I panned more and more: D Then the MOST GREAT BOY appeared in my life and I thought with him that I would not happened. We saw each other every day, we pushed each other like crazy, but he never took a serious step. Before we started having sex, I shared my problem with him and he reassured me that it was not scary (I forgot to say that he is 4 and a half years older than me). One night we were alone in them and we did it. He aroused me to the limit and then scored and it was the tip. I finished twice. These were the greatest orgasms of my life. Everything, dear ladies, depends on the man next to you, how he will play you before the real part, how good a lover he is and I think it is important what you feel for this person. F 19
Number 15 will not be bad to read a little literature. What number 13 describes to you is not writing but is called a scurvy orgasm. This can only be done by some women who, when they reach orgasm, release fluid from their paraurethral glands. And number 20 don't worry a lot mako women experience a vaginal orgasm most of us are like you, I always stimulate myself while he is in me in a spoon position when we are both lying on one side or in the doggy. I've talked to a lot of women, most of them do
oh, rubbish! It is individual for each woman - for example, I started having sex at 16, for the first time I had an orgasm with a regular partner when I was 20, and sex did not cripple me, nor could I complain about monotony. Since then I can (almost) always position myself in the right position and reach a vaginal orgasm (it works best when I'm on top and his partner has the instrument slightly bent upwards) but after I finish the first time, my place it becomes very sensitive and so far I have not had the opportunity to reach orgasm for the second time without a break (recently I got up and I was pleasantly surprised) but, as I said ... I think a big role is the shape of the penis and each woman is individual . Otherwise, the clitoris can also be satisfied while my partner is in me or my favorite - to rub in the member For hearing them such chicks, where at 17 I have a "whirlwind" with 4-5 orgasms per minute, it just makes me laugh. It is no coincidence that people have said that at this age you do not know if you want to pee or have sex and every single "thrill" during sex they give it to orgasm. P. have you noticed, however, that VERY few men are clearly aware that they have not brought a woman to orgasm? A little secret, but we're all simulating, guys ... let me know! The fact that in one way you "brought" the former to orgasm does not mean that the same will happen with the new Offff. that VERY few men are clearly aware that they have not brought a woman to orgasm? A little secret, but we're all simulating, guys ... let me know! The fact that in one way you "brought" the former to orgasm does not mean that the same will happen with the new Offff. that VERY few men are clearly aware that they have not brought a woman to orgasm? A little secret, but we're all simulating, guys ... let me know! The fact that in one way you "brought" the former to orgasm does not mean that the same will happen with the new Offff.
A year or two after I started having sex with the fourth man, because he was making French love very well. Then it took me a few years to start experiencing a quality vaginal orgasm, I mean.
If the very thought of sleeping with your partner does not arouse you, this person is not sexually attracted to you or you are already bored. In this situation, it is difficult to reach orgasm. Even a man if he doesn't like his partner can have the same problem. There is no orgasm without arousal! Women, imagine a man who is not aroused. Can he end up in this situation? So it is with women. They must be very excited. And to like your partner a lot. Otherwise you better change it. Also, if intercourse is regularly short, the reason is the man. During a short intercourse it is almost impossible to reach even one orgasm, let alone several.
i am a boy myself and i want to ask a 13 year old girl could have an orgasm
There is nothing more arousing for a man than to bring his wife to orgasm and cum after her!
When a woman stimulates herself, she can reach multiple orgasms, almost every woman can reach a dozen or more orgasms only with masturbation.
Hello, I am a man ... but remember these tips from me: 1. You should know that a woman does not have only breasts and vagina. 2. Don't try to keep your naughty hot right away! 3 Don't just think about your own pleasure! 4 Learn to control your ejaculation! 5 Do not leave any hour of the female body uncovered with caresses and kisses! Follow these tips and the woman you want to make happy will be grateful to you. sexy
About ten years after my first time. I can cum more than 10 times during intercourse, and during masturbation over 50. In the second I cum in less than a minute by stimulating my clitoris. It also helps to tighten the abdominal muscles.
I think it took me 5 years. I mean the vaginal orgasm, I have been experiencing a clitoral orgasm since the time I started to masturbate. I don't think that there are frigid women or if there are, there are too few, there are just too many men who, out of ignorance, out of selfishness, do not give the woman what she needs. And some women are also to blame for not reaching the final. You can't have an orgasm while thinking, "What should I cook for dinner?" And "Don't I look fat with my new dress?", That is, thinking about all sorts of nonsense, but not about what's happening. For this, girls, to have a good time between the sheets, starting the party think only of pleasure. You will think about dinner, the new dress, etc. later. Also, good sex has a good effect on the figure and mood and this ensures that you will look great in the new dress. :))
And I, dear ladies, want to tell you my story ... I am 21 years old. I was with enough partners, men, boys, boyfriends, fiancés, etc ... Until I met my Turk. And he did not satisfy me completely. From ordinary sex. Nothing but passionate sex - while it ends he looks me in the eyes and looks in mine while I finish. Because he never turns his head away and looks straight at me and this excites me so much that I sometimes cum 3-4 times. Before - only when I'm on top. Horror. Now, he told me - so that I can satisfy you, stop masturbating and use your clit. I only give it to him. Well, there are no such full orgasms anywhere!
And can I ask after I'm 16 after I started to have an orgasm ... it's like it took a smell to be felt every day .. I'm scared ..; (are there other girls like me ..
I started having sex at 16, but I haven't had a vaginal orgasm so far (I'm 22). I only cum when I use my clit during penetration, ie I masturbate or I am on top so that it is stimulated. So I started having orgasms maybe on my 15-20th intercourse. Well, it hurt, I was uncomfortable and I only ended up licking. Because number 27 mentioned the mention of simulation ... I don't know how there can be such stupid men who write like-minded people without basic knowledge. There are things that cannot be imitated - the trembling of the legs, the blush that kills on the cheeks and the uncontrollable contractions of the vagina. If a man has once felt these contractions of the vagina, then he will always feel that they are missing in my opinion. My friend can only cum from them without moving inside me, as long as he asks. matrixx
Up to 45: When you experience sexual desire and masturbate, then you have the presence of female sex hormones, which mature women need to reproduce. They are responsible for the individual smell and taste of each woman - generally speaking, it is sour, because the environment is such as to protect the vagina from bacteria. The smell can be unpleasant if - you did not wash all day and went to the toilet often - there is no way one of the shortcomings of the female anatomy - you missed a shower after masturbation These are of course the cases when there is no infection or other disease - they are usually accompanied by itching, discoloration of the secretion, etc. In case the only disturbing factor is the smell, just wash more often, but do not always use an intimate gel, because it changes the pH and you can develop a fungal infection. I hope I was useful to you matrixx
Hello, I tell you, as a man to a man, start with French love, there is no lady where she refuses or dislikes, hence the first orgasm, so declitatory. This way you will be more likely to create a uniquely slippery "slide" to run on, wow ... And if you are resilient, very soon a synchronous or 2nd of your first successes will come. Knock, don't fight!
A lot of time passed because my first friend was rude and hurt me, so until I learn to relax enough to reach orgasm ... it may be 2-3 years. And to your second question, well, there may be frigid women, but quite a few, so more often the reason is in the inexperience or unwillingness of the man to please the woman next to him.
I'm not sure it's strictly individual because I haven't had much experience. I am 20 and my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. He is my first. The first month I had a huge desire for sex, he too. I wanted it a lot, but I just didn't feel any pleasure because I was worried about my breasts (very dumb; e). The moment he took off my bra (a month or so later), I finished twice the first time. I think that a woman should be completely relaxed and convinced of her attractiveness, for which a man has a big role. I have many girlfriends who have been in long-term relationships and have not reached the top. But you can see that they are not passionately in love and lack the sparkle in the eyes of their partners, but they are great babes :)