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Women Are A Strange Thing ...

By lukeharangody November 08, 2020 22 answers Last updated November 08, 2020

Hello, a confused boy who needs advice is writing to you. We have been dealing with a girl for 1 month now, we have been out 4-5 times and the last time I sent her to them (3 days ago) I kissed her. She didn't object, she even liked it because I wanted to pull away, and she pulled me to her and we continued. From that evening on, she stopped looking for me and wrote to me every day before. I asked her what was wrong, if I had done something wrong, and she told me that there was no problem, but it was obvious that there was. I told her to tell me when she decided, and she never contacted me again. I don't know why I pushed her away, she told me she liked me. Give me advice on what to do - should I wait for her to think of me or take matters into my own hands, talk to her and understand what we are doing from now on I am really confused and I will be grateful if you help and criticize me!

Answers 22

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stiff696911 answered · November 08, 2020

   You go to her and ask her briefly precisely and clearly to understand each other.

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for answered · November 08, 2020

   We write it 4 girls :)

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sweetboy_cam answered · November 08, 2020

   Most likely we are talking about a teenage libof. This has nothing to do with women. She is still a child. And I came here to read some drama ... what it turned out to be. And for your problem ... Look for another.

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infinitechristina answered · November 08, 2020

   Invite her again, expect ..

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20yroldpersiand answered · November 08, 2020

   He likes you. He has a friend. She is confused now and does not know what to do from now on.

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clapivara answered · November 08, 2020

   When you ask her such things and show that you are insecure, hesitant, and the girls do not like it. Now your option is to get harder, write again and again in order to go out on a date and act more confident. You should have done this earlier, because kissing her only on 4-5 dates is a bit late. Maybe that repulsed her. But nothing, you still have a chance. That she's not looking for you is probably her toy. Ignore this. Until she tells you a real reason why she doesn't want to see you, act boldly, she still told you directly that she likes you.

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ZoeyAndrews answered · November 08, 2020

   Yes, women are weird. I have been convinced of this many times.

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Para_Fitt answered · November 08, 2020

   If you wait for her to call to tell you what the problem is, you have to wait. A woman will never do that. It's probably a sewn test on her part, and it checks how much you're going to tie, unless someone else is involved. The more you beg her to tell you or ignore her, or show any reaction, the more you push her because she enjoys herself putting you in chess and making you wonder what's going on, but then again you fall in the eyes. This is to test how far you will give in and whether you are a man on the spot. If you get into her tone and show that she can manipulate you, goodbye. You've even made a few mistakes so far, but maybe it's not too late to fix things. Just pretend everything is the same and invite her out and be a little tougher. It will be understood in time, if there is anything.

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freshman10 answered · November 08, 2020

   What woman? You both act like paws. She may have a friend and she acted instinctively, you know. I have a friend who was dealing with a boy. The same job, however, on the part of the boy, boy, boy, 25 years old. He seems to like her a lot, they kissed there as well. She doesn't answer the messages, or she answers in one word. Last time he invited her to them just to blow her whistles ... So who knows what's in the heads of these paws. Supposedly great people ...

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hetero_erectus84 answered · November 08, 2020

   Don't you know that kissing is the first step in sex? If after the first kiss you have a receipt cut off, then you are sanctioned, or you do not like the kiss, or you repulsed it with bad breath, you do not comply with this at all, the tobacconists stink disgustingly. Invite her to see you and you will understand what she thinks!

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karacsonygergely answered · November 08, 2020

   That's right, women are weird, and it's not a coincidence that a woman is not like a man. Do what is sweetest to them all - they play. She will not tell you openly what is happening. Speaking in their language, it is waiting for you to take not only the first, but also the other steps in all circumstances, and it to be done on the affected, injured, etc. The goal is to check and increase your interest in it. And she likes you - she showed it, but if she says it, she knows that you will hurry with sex, and this, according to women, means that it is "easy". And they don't want to have a reputation for being "easy." And that's why she plays you - it turns out that she pulled and is not "easy", but you are the initiator of the "easy". She is a pure tear, and you are the bad man who sees in the woman only the hole, not the big soul and the high intellect.

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divine_passion_69 answered · November 08, 2020

   Rule number one is that no matter how much you like a woman, you should not be tied to her chaotic behavior! A confident man does what he thinks is right without slipping, apparently obeying her, or doing ridiculous things just to get some reaction out of her. Many women test potential partners by testing whether they will deviate from their opinion or desires under the influence of external factors, ie. if someone doesn't approve of what you do or tells you to do it another way. Don't worry about defending your own, you are no less valuable and powerful! It is very important to realize that a woman's strange behavior is not always a test. They often make decisions based on emotion, especially when they are under 28 years old. The fact that she didn't pull away and the kiss happened (something quite intimate) speaks for itself, that she has a romantic interest in you, and the feelings do not cool down for a few days. The comments say to be tougher, and I say to be more insistent, but all with limits. The woman you like seems to feel insecure, but it's not your fault. You took the first step - you asked what was wrong if she didn't want to tell you, let her clarify things with herself for a while, ie. give her space. The ball is already in her yard and it is up to her to return it. When she contacts you again, be calm and offer her to go out, somewhere where you can have fun and do something together (dinner is too formal). The rest of the time, don't get involved in movies and do what you enjoy and it will lift your spirits. Whatever comes out, at least you will gain experience;) Regards, M28 and the feelings do not cool down for a few days. The comments say to be tougher, and I say to be more insistent, but all with limits. The woman you like seems to feel insecure, but it's not your fault. You took the first step - you asked what was wrong if she didn't want to tell you, let her clarify things with herself for a while, ie. give her space. The ball is already in her yard and it is up to her to return it. When she contacts you again, be calm and offer her to go out, somewhere where you can have fun and do something together (dinner is too formal). The rest of the time, don't get involved in movies and do what you enjoy and it will lift your spirits. Whatever comes out, at least you will gain experience;) Regards, M28 and the feelings do not cool down for a few days. The comments say to be tougher, and I say to be more insistent, but all with limits. The woman you like seems to feel insecure, but it's not your fault. You took the first step - you asked what was wrong if she didn't want to tell you, let her clarify things with herself for a while, ie. give her space. The ball is already in her yard and it is up to her to return it. When she contacts you again, be calm and offer her to go out, somewhere where you can have fun and do something together (dinner is too formal). The rest of the time, don't get involved in movies and do what you enjoy and it will lift your spirits. Whatever comes out, at least you will gain experience;) Regards, M28 The comments say to be tougher, and I say to be more insistent, but all with limits. The woman you like seems to feel insecure, but it's not your fault. You took the first step - you asked what was wrong if she didn't want to tell you, let her clarify things with herself for a while, ie. give her space. The ball is already in her yard and it is up to her to return it. When she contacts you again, be calm and offer her to go out, somewhere where you can have fun and do something together (dinner is too formal). The rest of the time, don't get involved in movies and do what you enjoy and it will lift your spirits. Whatever comes out, at least you will gain experience;) Regards, M28 The comments say to be tougher, and I say to be more insistent, but all with limits. The woman you like seems to feel insecure, but it's not your fault. You took the first step - you asked what was wrong if she didn't want to tell you, let her clarify things with herself for a while, ie. give her space. The ball is already in her yard and it is up to her to return it. When she contacts you again, be calm and offer her to go out, somewhere where you can have fun and do something together (dinner is too formal). The rest of the time, don't get involved in movies and do what you enjoy and it will lift your spirits. Whatever comes out, at least you will gain experience;) Regards, M28 which you like seems to feel some uncertainty, but it is by no means your fault. You took the first step - you asked what was wrong if she didn't want to tell you, let her clarify things with herself for a while, ie. give her space. The ball is already in her yard and it is up to her to return it. When she contacts you again, be calm and offer her to go out, somewhere where you can have fun and do something together (dinner is too formal). The rest of the time, don't get involved in movies and do what you enjoy and it will lift your spirits. Whatever comes out, at least you will gain experience;) Regards, M28 which you like seems to feel some uncertainty, but it is by no means your fault. You took the first step - you asked what was wrong if she didn't want to tell you, let her clarify things with herself for a while, ie. give her space. The ball is already in her yard and it is up to her to return it. When she contacts you again, be calm and offer her to go out, somewhere where you can have fun and do something together (dinner is too formal). The rest of the time, don't get involved in movies and do what you enjoy and it will lift your spirits. Whatever comes out, at least you will gain experience;) Regards, M28 give her space. The ball is already in her yard and it is up to her to return it. When she contacts you again, be calm and offer her to go out, somewhere where you can have fun and do something together (dinner is too formal). The rest of the time, don't get involved in movies and do what you enjoy and it will lift your spirits. Whatever comes out, at least you will gain experience;) Regards, M28 give her space. The ball is already in her yard and it is up to her to return it. When she contacts you again, be calm and offer her to go out, somewhere where you can have fun and do something together (dinner is too formal). The rest of the time, don't get involved in movies and do what you enjoy and it will lift your spirits. Whatever comes out, at least you will gain experience;) Regards, M28

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yk answered · November 08, 2020

   She thought for some reason, it could be another boy, it could be a friend's opinion or a very superficial problem. I don't think it makes sense to hope that she will clarify the situation for you and be as honest with you as possible. Few people do this, it takes courage. I see that you have an incredible desire to understand the reason, so you can try one last time to call her on a date (roughly speaking) a meeting and talk about the change in her behavior. I don't think he'll tell you anything, but you can at least try. Such discussions are not for chatting, so I do not recommend you to write. She may deny you the meeting with a stupid excuse, in which case just explain to her that you want to talk about something that is important to you and nothing more.

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pantyeatter69 answered · November 08, 2020

   Women just look weird, otherwise they are extremely elementary until you get to know them. And they are all the same. You have been rightly told that you have proved insecure and indecisive, thus repelling her. You shouldn't have asked her if you did something wrong, you shouldn't give her the opportunity to evaluate you at all - it's not her job, she can't evaluate a man, because her brain is not competent for that. First, clarify with yourself - do you like to continue the dump, to waste your time and nerves, because she obviously has some scruples and most likely, a friend. When you ask her, you give her the opportunity to play games, you become dependent on her, and this is the worst thing you can do with a girl / woman. From here on out, don't explain yourself to her in love in any way, they hate it, you will act terribly stupid. Be with her a little ironically and a little mockingly, distantly, as if you understand that she is pretending and selling you styles, but not so openly as to offend you. You call as if nothing has happened and take her out on a date. She doesn't pray very much, you have to set the rules. But don't show that you are reconciled to her, on the contrary - that you can do great without her, that you have other options, and another company, keep her in check. Let him wonder. You are the strong. It is . on the contrary - that you can do great without it, that you have other options, and another company, keep it in check. Let him wonder. You are the strong. It is . on the contrary - that you can do great without it, that you have other options, and another company, keep it in check. Let him wonder. You are the strong. It is .

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biahaddadmaia answered · November 09, 2020

   Either there's someone else, or he's making you games. In either case, I wouldn't deal with it. I'm not a clown to tie myself to cheap numbers and brush my ego at my own expense.

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maryanne2111 answered · November 09, 2020

   She may be confused, but why did you ask such questions and cut the rope yourself. You just had to write to each other like other times or invite her out again, but not such stupid things. The other thing is how and why you haven't written for a few days, a lot of women are easily offended and quite angry, this thing is a bit dumb for such things. And now, if you are asleep, be a man, you go and talk like number 1 told you, in the end do you have any feelings, are you friends or not and so and so the man or you decide and continue to write as before, but it seems no matter what she does, you will look for her, and if women feel that, you are no longer interesting, unless she is in love and waiting for you to look for her. It is enough to know a woman a little to know when and what, women are not complicated on the contrary everything is just there or, or it all depends on what she is like as a person, as a character, and if you don't know a woman that well, why should you be with her. It's still hard for men, you don't think, you don't try to think or you can't really understand something even when it will catch your eye and it's super simple, but it's always been normal. You are complex, but whatever the author, take your lesson another time either, or. You kiss her like that, you don't write to her, you don't look for her, then you ask if there is something, you wait for her to write an absurdity, she is angry or confused, it's either, or. :) And if it's something very important, it could just be a game. but normally it has always been so. You are complex, but whatever the author, take your lesson another time either, or. You kiss her like that, you don't write to her, you don't look for her, then you ask if there is something, you wait for her to write an absurdity, she is angry or confused, it's either, or. :) And if it's something very important, it could just be a game. but normally it has always been so. You are complex, but whatever the author, take your lesson another time either, or. You kiss her like that, you don't write to her, you don't look for her, then you ask if there is something, you wait for her to write you absurd, she is angry or confused, it's either, or :) And if it's something very important, it could just be a game.

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herkules065 answered · November 09, 2020

   I think it's a trifle. Either she didn't like something in the kiss afterwards, or she's worried you pulled away and she wanted more. Maybe in the end she didn't like sending something ... crazy women!

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growerandshower2020 answered · November 09, 2020

   Here they told each other how the women did tests and played games, and then explained to the author how he could run several tests and spin some games. The pot rolled over and found its lid. People, finally understand that when you really like someone, these things * are not necessary *. What's more, you're going to do them and fuck your chance with someone you really like because you've pretended to be interesting. Applies to both sexes. Learn to express your interest as adults, and tell each other directly when there is none, and it will be much easier for everyone with relationships.

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thelatherdaddy answered · November 09, 2020

   18 is not that simple. Love is battle field - this is how it is sung in one song. Love is a battlefield. The probability of both approaching in the same way tends to zero. And if only the man leaves with open cards, he will meet on the other side all possible shades of cunning, hypocrisy and lies. This is the reality, and thinking about how it should be is the realm of utopia and fantasy. Accordingly, the more open and naive has no chance of winning, one almost always remains used and discarded.

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sofia_hadid answered · November 09, 2020

   19, I also understand your point of view. You want to protect yourself from users with fake behavior. I will share with you what happened to me years ago, however. We were in the same company with a guy and we liked each other. Some steps started towards each other, but he always gave it a reserved, he always wanted me to say things, he told me some strange things. I'm the one who told myself directly what I wanted with him. Emmy nice, but he pulled away. Years later, we saw each other and talked. I call him what happened between us. And he tells me, but you didn't want to. I looked cracked. He tried in I don't know what ways to judge me and obviously thought that things would not be the same. He didn't believe me. His previous girlfriends played tricks pretending to be something they weren't. And he already had one thing in mind. He had tested me on a number of tests, of which his results and conclusions were totally out of reality. And so we were left with the failed chance, and at least for me, the feelings were sincere. I wondered, of course, what the connection would be with someone who had no confidence at all and acted that way. It probably wouldn't be good, but I'll never know. Otherwise, believe me, those who know how to lie and play roles, it will be difficult to catch them before it's too late. Because they know the correct answers to all the tests and are looking forward to you applying them. So, 19. I understand a man that when he burns once, he tries not to burn a second time. But the coin has two sides. And for a relationship to be normal and successful, you need trust. There will always be risk, but sometimes there is profit. the feelings were sincere. I wondered, of course, what the connection would be with someone who had no confidence at all and acted that way. It probably wouldn't be good, but I'll never know. Otherwise, believe me, those who know how to lie and play roles, it will be difficult to catch them before it's too late. Because they know the correct answers to all the tests and are looking forward to you applying them. So, 19. I understand a man that when he burns once, he tries not to burn a second time. But the coin has two sides. And for a relationship to be normal and successful, you need trust. There will always be risk, but sometimes there is profit. the feelings were sincere. I wondered, of course, what the connection would be with someone who had no confidence at all and acted that way. It probably wouldn't be good, but I'll never know. Otherwise, believe me, those who know how to lie and play roles, it will be difficult to catch them before it's too late. Because they know the correct answers to all the tests and are looking forward to you applying them. So, 19. I understand a man that when he burns once, he tries not to burn a second time. But the coin has two sides. And for a relationship to be normal and successful, you need trust. There will always be risk, but sometimes there is profit. it will be difficult to catch them before it is too late. Because they know the correct answers to all the tests and are looking forward to you applying them. So, 19. I understand a man that when he burns once, he tries not to burn a second time. But the coin has two sides. And for a relationship to be normal and successful, you need trust. There will always be risk, but sometimes there is profit. it will be difficult to catch them before it is too late. Because they know the correct answers to all the tests and are looking forward to you applying them. So, 19. I understand a man that when he burns once, he tries not to burn a second time. But the coin has two sides. And for a relationship to be normal and successful, you need trust. There will always be risk, but sometimes there is profit.

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lucky_400 answered · November 10, 2020

   №20, sorry for the missed chance after you were both wound up. But! Here was a topic of a young babe who admitted the following: "I fall in love, I want him, I suffer for him ... and when he reveals his feelings, I immediately lose interest ... And with each new one it still happens ... I don't know , why am I like that! .. "That is, the reality, as you call it, is something unknown even to the girl herself: today it is one, tomorrow it turns out to be another. Furthermore, the case you describe in post 20 does not confirm, on the contrary, it refutes the instructions in post 18. Because nothing happened with the direct approach. Or the person may have answered you out of politeness so that he won't tell you, "I didn't like it, you're not my type!". He may just not want to be rude.

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ona86on81krak answered · November 10, 2020

   21, Probably never. There are cases like this chick, there are men, but I was interested in the man, not in whether I can have him. And about his words. As I told you, we were in the same company and accordingly we continued to see each other often. So the story didn't end right away. But after he pulled away, I pretended to be interesting. Accordingly, he replied and turned a wheel ... A lot of things happened, we also did not miss sex. But now everything was going wrong. And so. Otherwise, everyone draws their own conclusions. If you have decided that directness is what has confused things, it is your choice to follow this path. I learned other lessons and I try to follow them.