Womb Hired Or Wife Hired ...

   In Bulgaria this is prohibited by law.

   many things are forbidden, but there is always a way, a matter of prejudice and point of view, if you have nothing to write and solve my problem, read and do not write ...

   I had wonderful pregnancies, I would gladly have children, but I would not allow myself to watch more, I would not bend over to carry my genes, for a surrogate with material of another couple, maybe, but in our country it is not allowed ... One a man to have a child alone is strange, most men do not care. Better with a woman, a child should have parents.

   Someone has watched a lot of movies.

   I would be terribly rude, but a gypsy prostitute would immediately curl up. And do you happen to want the child to have a mother and not a foster mother? When it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen, life is like that, it doesn't give us equally. It is more important to get the right decision from the given circumstances, and one such decision is everything else, but not the right one.

   You have done something wrong, what you are talking about is not a hired womb, but you want a woman to give you her child. The womb is rented when you have an embryo already created by you and your wife, for example, and you want another woman to bear it for a fee, to get pregnant in vitro with your embryo, which carries your genes. What you want is a woman to give birth to you, the child to carry 50% of her genes, and then give you the child, but it is not clear why this supposed woman does something tall for you.

   I think you're a very damaged mother's son. Why don't you ask 100 men if they are happy with their wives? This child also needs a mother to develop properly mentally. You will not do anything alone.

   And did he think about the child, whether he would not need his mother? And what will you answer him by asking why the other children have a mother and he doesn't and where is his?

   .... what is the meaning of number 10, when a child grows up without a father or without a mother, as you try to make him ... growing up with you without his father and you can't give him everything he deserves, with which is better if he grows up with me without a wife and is provided with all the amenities and conditions for normal development .... or you could say, the mother is important to be with him, it is important for me and the father to be with him , but it turns out that in Bulgaria 80 percent are divorced, then your comment goes behind ... and as I wrote, if you do not have a solution to my question, do not write unnecessary comments just to fill your empty daily life.

   You obviously have no idea what it's like for a child to grow up without a mother! It's scary! I was orphaned at the age of one. I would not wish it on any child! Shame on you and forget about this "idea"! It is not bad to consult a psychologist.

   №2, because it is forbidden, is that why most children in Bulgaria are raised this way? Marriages are no longer concluded, children are recognized and, after separation, raised by one parent. What does the author want, to fertilize a woman without marriage, to recognize the child and to separate from the mother, and then raise that child himself. What is illegal? Not to mention that it is immoral and harmful to the child. And is it good for a child to be raised by one parent and two parents without fixing their sexes !? The world has gone crazy already! Author, if you are not a pedophile, why do you want only you to deal with a child - "to leave him in my care"?

   Another author who wants to read only opinions that coincide with his. Author, you will probably find a woman who will roll for a rather fat sum. Surrogacy is also prohibited by law here in Germany, but there are ways. And in your case, it's not about a surrogate mother. In Germany, it costs 25,000-30,000 euros - at least, what I've seen in various movies. Very often the surrogate mother develops feelings for the baby and simply does not want to give it to the family. Various contracts signed by both parties are absolutely legally invalid. So, set aside a very cool bundle and you will find the child's mother. Otherwise, what should a woman do it for?

   You're a bit selfish, of course. There is no perfect woman born for you, but do not kill your complexes. A child needs a mother and nothing can replace her. Why do you see women like that? This is the problem. And is it all like that or is it a projection of your perceptions.

   It is one thing for a child to be left without one parent due to separation or other circumstances, it is one thing to be intentionally created with the idea of ​​being separated from one parent. Children find it difficult to accept such sections, how will a child accept that someone created it with the idea of ​​leaving it, or selling it? Or that his other parent "ordered" it as an item and bought it? It is extremely difficult without a mother, how will you protect the psyche of this child at all? Author, I'm sorry, but someone has to tell you. If you can't get along with a woman, why do you think you can raise a child? Caring for a child is beyond any material things you can provide. It is also associated with a lot of autism and self-denial. Your selfish, narcissistic and dangerous ideas do not speak well of your ability to provide what you need.

   To number 10: and when a divorced mother says or so-called single mothers (although a single mother is whose child is from an unknown father), she says she doesn't need a husband and can take care of her child on her own, then you applaud and you give her as an example, don't you, hypocrites?

   My personal opinion is that it is stupid and not because it is illegal. It will be justified why: - no normal woman would agree to have a child and then just leave it to someone. Accordingly, you will either not find one, or if you find one, it will be a gypsy, a psychopath with back thoughts, who can then do such mischief to you that you will drag yourself to court all your life - this is a bit selfish towards the child, it will need a normal family and two parents. You doom him to an incorrect development from the moment of his birth and it is not known where this will kill him. It has been proven that both parents have a role in the proper development of a child. Separately, it will probably suffer, be complexed by other children and all sorts of unpleasant things in general, and I think that it is not a wise decision to want to satisfy some of your needs to be a parent on the back of a child. Not that it's bad to have a need to be a parent, but not that way. Yes, I know that there are children who, due to circumstances, had to grow up without parents or with such alcoholics and all sorts of things, but I don't think it is right and necessary to do it on purpose. - If you do not have a mother or opportunities to hire babysitters, it will be very difficult to look after him alone. At least what do you do the first year when it doesn't go to the nursery. Further, if the child is ill, respectively, you can not send him to the garden, and this will probably happen quite often, how will you work? who, by coincidence, had to grow up without parents or with such alcoholics and all sorts of things, but I don't think it's right and moral to do it on purpose. - If you do not have a mother or opportunities to hire babysitters, it will be very difficult to look after him alone. At least what do you do the first year when it doesn't go to the nursery. Further, if the child is ill, respectively, you can not send him to the garden, and this will probably happen quite often, how will you work? who, by coincidence, had to grow up without parents or with such alcoholics and all sorts of things, but I don't think it's right and moral to do it on purpose. - If you do not have a mother or opportunities to hire babysitters, it will be very difficult to look after him alone. At least what do you do the first year when it doesn't go to the nursery. Further, if the child is ill, respectively, you can not send him to the garden, and this will probably happen quite often, how will you work?

   The child is not a toy. YOU want to have a child and the world must revolve around your desires. However, this is not the case. Are you so incapable of a normal relationship? At least you will have a good memory, if nothing else.

   You will be required to do it in a foreign country, with a foreign citizen, in order to avoid future cases and so on. Then you have to bring the child to Bulgaria and issue him a Bulgarian passport. It will take a few bribes, but "mother: unknown" is not that difficult to do. Well that's it! Success!

   "I don't want to have a woman who will then poison my life," says the author. Well, why isn't the "child to poison my life" option considered? Or is it presumed that the child will necessarily be healthy, smart, obedient and grateful? But why did the children of all my friends, who are families, become educated and responsible young people, and among the units that were raised by one parent, we have: a minor drug dealer (with one mother), a malnourished mother who does not study and doesn't work, so he steals (only with his father), a 16-year-old alcoholic (also a father's child) and a pickpocket who was expelled from school because of pornographic photos (only with his mother). Well, author, the child can poison your life like nothing else, because you will drive out your wife, but you have nowhere to hide from your own flesh and blood. As for the woman, who would agree to bear a child for nine months in exchange for housing and food, which she would then leave to the father and never see again, I think that prisons offer a suitable contingent. Those who leave there fully meet the necessary conditions: they have nowhere to go, no money, and no job prospects, so it is ideal for them to have one year to be full and warm while figuring out how to drive it from now on. And moral scruples should not be expected from them. What is a child? Goods! so it's ideal for them to have a year of being full and warm while figuring out how to drive it from now on. And moral scruples should not be expected from them. What is a child? Goods! so it's ideal for them to have a year of being full and warm while figuring out how to drive it from now on. And moral scruples should not be expected from them. What is a child? Goods!

   Would he raise a child? !! You hardly have a cat at home. No child, you need a psychiatrist.

   Author, the service you are looking for is actually offered. It is expensive, but not unbearable - as far as I know, if it is a normal good-looking, healthy and clean woman and not a gypsy mother - according to the agreement between 6 and 10,000 euros the cost of childbirth, examinations and medical care and pregnancy tests (in your interest is to make them to make sure that the child will not have deviations), appropriate healthy food and cosmetics, etc. There is, of course, a last-minute chance to give up, but then you keep your money and go with only what you have invested in care and food. In addition, this service is most often offered through intermediaries, not by women directly, so there will be a commission, but it could still be included in the above amount - according to how you bargain. If you prefer not to start a family, then for you this is a much cleaner option. Option 2 - cheap and legal - you catch a naive girl without much experience who dreams of children and family. You wrap her in promises, you make her pregnant before she realizes it. You take care of her while she is pregnant and make sure she is totally dependent on you. After the birth, you start making her life a living hell, until she gets to the point where she wants to leave on her own and can't stand it. You also say how no one will want her with a child and how she can't survive without you. You bring her to a nightmare and a dead end. Then you noblely show her a door - you also offer to take care of the child and support her financially for the first half or a year. After the nightmare with you, probably the first person to pay a little attention to her will be the love of her life, which is in your interest, because he will not need another's child, and the mother will get out of your head.

   By 26, not the child is a commodity, but the woman, even more expensive than the prostitute. not in vain in folklore - psychology says - a woman is cheap as a car, but both are expensive to maintain. would you take the trouble, but without prejudice, to open some of the dating sites and find me a single woman who in her desire to have a man next to her does not require anything from him, no. or to think, if you happen to have a man next to you, how he wins you, only with love and romance and you both share the costs and you tell me that you are independent of him, you girl are complete nonsense and everyone like you too, you you are poisoned by life and you are a domestic prostitute and when your husbands are gone you are wondering where to kill your complexes, I don't want to comment anymore, like you, I wouldn't even let you in my bed without money. Until 28 your second option is not for me, I can be everything but I can not cause it to anyone, but thank you for your positive attitude to my question, for your first option, I am open to suggestions and contact, be it and with an intermediary, as you write. to 23 not that I'm not capable, I don't know if you're a woman or a man, so to tell you this, it's easiest to have children and then get a divorce and if you call it a good memory and then fight separately , I write it again - how many of your acquaintances around you and around their acquaintances are a stable family, this will give you an answer to my desire. to 21 in its first part your justifications are a bit ragged, roughly speaking. your second part is contradictory - in the beginning you see it is not moral .... etc. and at the end you write - I know that there are growing and such children, but again it was not right .... I do not know which or who are you, but I'll tell you - these days I met a girl, ten pleasant days passed and at one point she told me - yes, but I'm pregnant and divorced, I answered, ok no problem, but the problem was the difference in my age , you see it is not accepted by society, so what is the society according to which I have to live, does society pay my bills or does it make me money, does society the unit of measure for my life, what does society do for me to live according to his rules, complete and abnormal nonsense is to live in this way to comply with the so-called society, laughter and it is big. to 13 clearly I tell you exactly to do it directly .... to the number 19 thank you for writing to people like number 10 and putting them in their place, today everyone writes, speaks and lives primarily ... how your domestic public love has survived I am the Author and I do not blame the worthy mothers and fathers who manage to keep their families and children, but against the background of 80 percent of proven divorces to blame me is a little silly. I can introduce you openly and without concern on their part to at least seven of my acquaintances who have a child of men who do not know this and have done so deliberately because their frustrations are too much for men, and their children for your understandings and their actions. are normal and mine are not. Please think before you write, if you have nothing to do, do one .... success in the fight against the counter virus. I can introduce you openly and without concern on their part to at least seven of my acquaintances who have a child of men who do not know this and have done so deliberately because their frustrations are too much for men, and their children for your understandings and their actions. are normal and mine are not. Please think before you write, if you have nothing to do, do one ... success in the fight against the counter virus. I can introduce you openly and without concern on their part to at least seven of my acquaintances who have a child of men who do not know this and have done so deliberately because their frustrations are too much for men, and their children for your understandings and their actions. are normal and mine are not. Please think before you write, if you have nothing to do, do one .... success in the fight against the counter virus.