I think you just felt some lack in your relationship and became emotionally vulnerable. And this has manifested itself as a reassessment of the wooden philosopher. Alcohol and physical intimacy have only added more vulnerability, but they are not the main factors. It's just that when a person feels emotionally lacking, he begins to rethink certain things on a subconscious level and idealize alternative possibilities. And a subconscious monologue begins as to whether what you have is good enough to fight for. Wouldn't the other be more exciting and satisfying? Which to choose now? If you choose one or the other, won't you fuck up? The bad thing is that this mental noise has the properties of an avalanche and increases on its own until it grows into very serious torment and torment. Older people call it winding wicks, and younger ones enter the movie. Of course, all this is only in your head. Neither the wooden philosopher has become cooler, nor have you liked him. It's just that for a moment you saw in it some kind of substitute for something you needed at the moment and that you missed. The point is not to take it upon yourself to believe that you are almost in love with him. If things aren't going well in your relationship, that's another matter, but the wooden philosopher has nothing to do with it. Rather, realize what you are missing and find a way for your friend to give it to you. Don't blame him, just predispose him to give it to you, because it could be the reason for you. If the thrill is gone, do something, surprise him. But do not follow the model "I have a problem with my friend -> I will look for another". There will always be problems in a relationship, because nothing in the world is perfect, but the question is to solve the problems, rather than letting the first colleague you meet color you. Because this is not a solution either. If you are in a relationship with him, you will have problems with him in time. Then will you be colored with a third? In short - Stop idealizing the philosopher, be aware and fix your relationship problems delicately. If that doesn't help, talk directly. Discuss what problems you have, how you plan to solve them, and whether you want to solve them at all, or the relationship is over. Only then does he think of new ones. He doesn't do monkey and branch tricks like most women. how do you plan to resolve them and do you want to resolve them at all or is the connection exhausted. Only then does he think of new ones. He doesn't do monkey and branch tricks like most women. how do you plan to resolve them and do you want to resolve them at all or is the connection exhausted. Only then does he think of new ones. He doesn't do monkey and branch tricks like most women.
1 rina_saint answered
There's something to worry about. It's your fault you let him in too close. Only your husband has the right to touch there. If you keep drooling with this one, don't be surprised if you cheat. In my opinion, even now you are fighting.