I have been in a relationship for 5 months. My boyfriend and I were in a very good relationship. He paid a lot of attention to me. But now for some time he doesn't pay attention to me. he remembers that he has a girlfriend and is looking for me. And at that time he tells me that he wants to be with me and so on. We don't fight otherwise he behaves very well. When we see each other everything is great that he doesn't look for me very much. How can I explain it to myself :(
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He goes elsewhere, thinks elsewhere and you are alone and so on!
And why are you waiting for him to look for you. Is it because you're not looking for him, that he "beats off"? If not, he's obviously not in love, he just likes you. A little info. you gave, a person can deceive you with his thoughts ...
You are his backup plan. I don't want to be nasty, but your friend doesn't want to be with you completely. Men who "forget" that they have halves guess how much they really care about them. How will you get to know each other and have a relationship if you don't see each other normally and don't hear each other regularly? If you see each other once a week or once every two weeks, completely delete it from your schedule. He probably has other interests - whether it will be other women, hobbies, friends, etc. that are more important to him than you are. There is another, little possible option. He can wait for YOU to look for him and show interest. He may not want to bother you;) In the end, one relationship requires two. You can't just get one and wait for attention, can you?
how many hours a day do you want your friend to pay attention to you? does he want and can so much? aren't you a girl with low self-esteem with a desire for obsession