For several weeks I looked in the mirror and saw a very thick legs, belly. I stopped having lunch. My most normal diet is morning muesli with yogurt and a teaspoon of honey. I haven't eaten chocolate since April, I don't eat other sweet things either. Even just yogurt satisfies me. Otherwise I eat meat and fish, but rarely. My mother forced me to eat, she said I would become ugly thin ... But now look ... Why my girlfriend (Let's call her M) can be 163 tall and 47 kg - the difference between her height and kg is 116 ( let me add that she will gain 45 kg !!) ... And I, who am 150 tall, can't be 34 kg No, I didn't mean to get up that much, but I just wonder. My mother told me that I would look awful if I gained 34 kg. But why? Won't I look as thin as M? What is the problem? I want to be thin :( My waist used to be 68, now it is 62 cm, I want it to be 60 cm; d My hips were 93, now it is 83 cm, and my breasts have shrunk, not that I care how big they are ... Am I crazy? You will probably think of me as such ... For my first sentence - it is not so, there are moments when I see myself weak, but not always. Tell me if I continue to lose weight (something that happens at the rate of a snail - 1 kg per month ...) Should I get up, well, not 34 kg, but 37 or 38 kg. If I become so, will I be as weak as M? Or will I look worse than her? I am now 42; 42.5 when I ate. I don't want to be anorexic. I do not like them! I want to be healthy! Tell me what to do :) Give me some advice and if possible do not attack and insult me :) For my first sentence - it's not true, there are times when I see myself weak, but not always. Tell me if I continue to lose weight (something that happens at the rate of a snail - 1 kg per month ...) Should I get up, well, not 34 kg, but 37 or 38 kg. If that happened, would I be as weak as M? Or will I look worse than her? I am now 42; 42.5 when I ate. I don't want to be anorexic. I do not like them! I want to be healthy! Tell me what to do :) Give me some advice and if possible do not attack and insult me :) For my first sentence - it's not true, there are times when I see myself weak, but not always. Tell me if I continue to lose weight (something that happens at the rate of a snail - 1 kg per month ...) Should I get up, well, not 34 kg, but 37 or 38 kg. If I become so, will I be as weak as M? Or will I look worse than her? I am now 42; 42.5 when I ate. I don't want to be anorexic. I do not like them! I want to be healthy! Tell me what to do :) Give me some advice and if possible do not attack and insult me :) I do not like them! I want to be healthy! Tell me what to do :) Give me some advice and if possible do not attack and insult me :) I do not like them! I want to be healthy! Tell me what to do :) Give me some advice and if possible do not attack and insult me :)
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I don't know why I think you might look better than her right now, but you just don't notice because you're obsessed with imitating her.
Don't lose weight anymore, especially if you are a teenager. It's like a mania - it's hard to stop losing weight. I know it from experience. You will always think that you are fuller, this is because you are comparing yourself to someone there. Stop so you don't really catch anorexia. Your mother is right that too little is ugly.
In no case lose weight more! It's not healthy, it's not beautiful. What femininity will be in you? What's so beautiful about your bones sticking out? Nothing! Such weight loss can stop your cycle. And yes, it will turn into anorexia if you continue like this. Do not be influenced by others. You are you! Eat normally, exercise and everything will be fine, especially since you are developing now / I guess at 13-14 or 15 years old /. * Yasa
Something doesn't fit my mind, how do you want to be 34? And how do you eat only muesli and yogurt? I am 1, 59, 42 kg, I am 24 years old, but I have been playing sports since I was a child (my father is an athlete) and until now, I don't remember getting sick, I eat a lot of healthy food at home - muesli yogurt for breakfast, dark chocolate, lunch - light salad, meat - chicken, turkey, duck, beef, very, very rarely pork. And fish at least 3 times a week. Do not fry. The meat is boiled, grilled, baked. We prepare the food more simply so that it is not so processed, but preserved. No bread is consumed, and if it is consumed we take black vita. Many fruits and vegetables are consumed. We try not to have dinner after 8 p.m. I don't really understand why you don't eat? Just choose the food.
Until recently, I was in your position. I didn't want to hear about food, about 170 cm high and weighing 45 kg, believe me, I'm sorry for what I did to my body. My menstrual cycle stopped, then came back after a long time. So I advise you to eat normally, exercise and not try to imitate anyone there. Be what you really are and not what others want to see. * Petya
Go to the doctor fast !!!!