Hello, a desperate girl is writing to you. I am 18 years old and I can't find a real friend, which makes me very sad. Over the years, I had several girlfriends and friends, but they always betrayed me (then they tried to get along, but I do not forgive betrayals). I currently have a "girlfriend" at school, just so I'm not alone. It may sound immodest, but I am much nicer and liked by her, it is obvious that she is complexed by me and she envies me. How did I find out? Constantly making fun of me, which he knows I'm annoyed with. Hell, it's annoying, I just can't stand it. And it's always been the problem with me that everyone is jealous of me, and I'm a person who cares a lot about my friends and I would never be jealous of anything (I'll even be very happy if the person is happy). I really want to meet such a person, who is not envious and be my true friend. Basically, I'm such a person that I don't need a big company, I've always had a "girlfriend" (maybe that's my mistake). I feel hellishly lonely. Do you think it's my fault, how do I make them treat me like that?
1 bo3dnan84 answered
Hello. Don't worry, the problem is not in you. It's just that the Bulgarian mentality is like that. The people are crushed and cannot tolerate people who are not. I have the same case from a teenager, but I am almost 30 years old and it stopped impressing me. There are good people who are not complex and contain value in themselves. They will be around you for better or for worse :) Just be patient and do not force yourself with negative people. As such, discard it and live alone. Practice some hobbies and fill your time. So, in addition to the things you like to do, you can meet people with your interests that you like. Success!