Hello, I am a girl of 20 from Balchik. More than a year ago I met a boy, originally from Balchik, 24, but living and studying in Plovdiv. When we met he was engaged for 2 years, but we constantly communicated, he behaved very well, he was very kind. He broke up with his girlfriend a few months ago and I wonder if he can be serious with me. I really want to be with him, but the fact that he had a serious girlfriend and cheated on her with me worries me a lot. On the other hand, he behaves literally as a child (he constantly posts his opinion statuses, most of the time he jokes and can't be serious), I know that he writes to others, but he denies, I have many times closed my eyes to his mistakes no matter what they were and how much they hurt me. I keep being with him because he showed me that he cares about me, he cares about me, he behaves so well, and he is the only boy I have any feelings for after my ex, with whom I broke up 4 years ago. I'm confused by his behavior and I don't know what to do, I don't want to be sorry if I leave him, but his behavior hurts me ... Does it make sense to keep being with him or does he just Use me because I'm comfortable with him, because I know that he still has feelings for his ex.
1 carlosbb answered
You will certainly regret it, but not if you leave him, but if you continue to have a relationship with him! A person, if he cares about you, if he wants something serious with you, will show it to you in every way. He will try to make you feel happy, not hurt. You realize very well that as he did to his ex-girlfriend, he can easily do the same to you.