Hello! My story is quite interesting. We met briefly at a disco, and initially our relationship was non-committal. He didn't talk much, I don't know if I could call him my friend. But over time, we began to communicate and look for each other more often. I became very attached to him, we do everything for each other, we help each other, we respect each other and we go everywhere together regardless of the event. The problem is that I'm his first girlfriend, at least that's what he's been with for almost a year. So far he has not had or at least has not been with a sober girl. Obviously there are complexes, fear of being alone and hurt. Another fact is that we are 14 years apart, but even our parents know each other and everything is normal. But one night it became clear that he did not love me and still could not let me in. In my opinion, through everything what we have gone through so far should not be the same as the attitude we have towards each other. He claims that it is something new for him to have a person by his side, to love him or more precisely to allow him to himself. To do this, the ice in his heart had to be broken. I don't know what else to do, please advice.