Hello, so I need advice because no one can help me nor can I ask anyone. The whole story starts years back when I had feelings for a boy (Radostin) and now years later I realized that he had experienced the same, but just none of us did anything about it... mostly because at one time we were both busy with other people. I stood by and waited an extremely long time for something to happen and what he took that he did - he got in a relationship with a girl under the pressure of his friends and when I realized it was very nasty and in time I was already experiencing it and i got into a relationship with a wonderful boy with which we are together and at the moment. We've been together for a year and I love him so much, and I'm so happy, mostly because he liked me and did everything he could to win me over, which impressed me very much, and Radostin stayed with that girl even though he didn't want to be with her. How do I know that? I know that because he came back into my life and explained to me what a huge mistake he made for falling for the brains of his friends and, most of all, that he was still standing with her and tormenting himself because he felt nothing for her. Of course, I was furious because he only thought of it when I got over it, and now there's been a lot of unpleasant things going on, because we both cheated on each other. He's very in love with me and he really loves me, the point is, yes and I feel something like that, but I love my friend so much more. Now I don't know what to do about leaving a lovely relationship for him and giving him a chance or just being too immature and better not throwing away a guy who makes me feel happy. There is another that he constantly tells me how Radostin and his girlfriend "come to an end" but this ending never comes, and I think it may not be worth making this compromise for him at all and waiting for him again for a long time, provided that he can't do it for me for the second time. What do you think I should do and what should I even think?
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kasandracummz answered · June 01, 2020
He just likes having a fan. You both don't care about the people next to you. If you're saying your friend's a great guy, why are you doing this to him? And with a guy who didn't do anything to be together and think of it until you're busy? Doesn't that sound suspicious and surreal to you? To me, this guy sounds like a man looking for a backup because maybe his relationship really isn't going to work, and he just thought of you, because that's when you were up for it. And, yes, you could have been together then, there was no hindrance. What are these friends going to be that pressure that miracles that forced connections? Who can force you to be with someone and how exactly? Isn't that your own thought? He just liked her more then, that's the cruel truth. If a man wants you, no one can make him be with someone else. He himself will not allow it.
Now this prince wants to ruin your life, and I think he's succeeding. Think straight and real.
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andrea_kawaii answered · June 01, 2020
You call him immature, and you cheated on him. Are you mature? You both don't deserve anything, and it's bad for your wonderful friend that you don't deserve it, and he's been trying to break his heart one way or another, now or later- it's obvious to you. Too bad about the boy.
Radostin would take a step... What do you care if you're "so happy" with your boyfriend? What kind of ch*n did you cheat on him about? Because you are afraid to "live", you are very afraid of missing an opportunity, not long as you are with a good person who values you and be happy. You need more. "if anything could happen, would he do something."
You don't deserve what you have! You don't deserve it...