I don't know how to start this topic .. generation x, y .. I don't know what to call us. It's a generation that looks like the last electron in the nucleus of a chemical element. or we are an electron that is free in space and we need to be desperately attracted to something. at the moment we do not have a big war, we do not live in a time when there is an explosion of new discoveries. The values of a time are almost dead, lost, fading. We have no motivation, we have no goal. Today I was watching the news and you know ... I think that the statistics showed that the most sought after job in 10 years in Bulgaria will be SELLER. This means that my sets or even maybe I will be a saleswoman. What the hell? Do young people really imagine life this way? The chaos of what is written and the mess in my head are a fact, they are obvious. The parents of the current generation .. Most of our parents work as robots 24/7 to get an education so that we are not deprived of anything ... Who the hell has decided that a child should not be deprived of something? And that everything should be ready? And that it's good for him? Consumerism ... the mania for material goods has turned us into people who think that it is bad for us to lack something. What about moral hunger? Who dreams nowadays? Ask a young man what he dreams of. Well, 90% of them are convinced that they have no dreams, they don't even need to have them. They just indulged in some kind of depression and apathy. You live mostly day by day, without thinking about the future. That's what we have .. GREAT DEPRESSION. I get angry. There is no will in people. And this is the only thing that makes us beautiful. I admit ... years ago I had no desire for anything, I didn't want to study, but I found an incentive and changed in small steps. Things are simple and change, but it takes willpower. Why don't young people have it? Why do 20-year-olds rarely have this ambition and sparkle in their eyes? Why don't people dream?
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It is true that the chaos of what you write to us and the mess in your head are evident. Everyone has dreams, it's just that most people don't have the courage to pursue them because they are depressed for various reasons. The problem for many people is that they have toxic, controlling and suffocating parents who impose their views, and even dreams, on their children. Rejoice that you have found the courage to pursue what you want and do not judge others, because it is not easy for them, although it does not always seem so.
Our brains have been brainwashed by freedom, that's why. We grow very fast, we try everything very fast, because our curiosity is too great. At 20 we are dead mentally, with fucked up organisms, because who thinks about the consequences. It is wide around our necks, we are oversatisfied with all kinds of material nonsense and it is still not enough for us. Yes, most of them are in the Great Depression, they are looking for a vent from there, because your parents don't seem to understand you. The vent is most often something that breaks you down, be it a person or a substance or a hobby. Not everyone is like that, of course, there are exceptions and thank God there are. Mentally dead, thinking that going out of high school and living in an apartment with someone will live life. "Brother, give me some money, I'll return it to you in 2 days" Today BGN 20, tomorrow as no-no. "I have nothing to eat? Well, big deal, there's always food at home, I will not stay hungry, ours are for you. "Everyone looks at the easy, looks at the thin. And again, from freedom, over-satisfaction and laziness. What if you look for a salesman, you take some money there, you're young," I have time, well, in the future I will start a business, calm down. " They. "Big leeks, I'll try elsewhere. "And again, and again, and again ... These are quotes I've heard in conversations .. dreams? You don't even know the meaning of the word." My, my dream is to whip aylak. "That's what people want, that's what they want. Sad but true, there are few who have the will and the dreams and something hits them in the head at 16-18 and they say to themselves that they have to build their own lives. "I have time, well, I'll start a business in the future, calm down." They fire you. "Big leek, I'll try elsewhere." And again, and again, and again ... These are quotes I've heard in conversations ... dreams? The meaning of the word is not even known. "My dream is to whip aylak." That's what people want, that's what they achieve. Sad but true. There are few who have the will and dreams and something hits them in the head at 16-18 and they say to themselves that they have to build their own lives. "I have time, well, I'll start a business in the future, calm down." They fire you. "Big leek, I'll try elsewhere." And again, and again, and again ... These are quotes I've heard in conversations ... dreams? The meaning of the word is not even known. "My dream is to whip aylak." That's what people want, that's what they achieve. Sad but true. There are few who have the will and dreams and something hits them in the head at 16-18 and they say to themselves that they have to build their own lives.
"... You are a generation that looks like the last electron in the nucleus of a chemical element. or are we an electron that is free in space ... ”Did you, darling, start criticizing others seriously? !! Look at yourself first. Here is your goal - to become literate, to get an education, to read a lot of books, so that you don't expose yourself to elementary things like that another time. Not to mention serious. Don't be angry, but pretend that there is nothing more terrible than ignorance! Success!
Some words, problems and views are very modern at the moment, here, see: toxic relationships, mental harmony, mental elevation, meditation, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, nature walks, sports, healthy eating, reading books, internet addiction, failed generation, failure, loneliness, success, being self-sufficient. You see, some things are talked about a lot, they are very modern and accepted by society. In theory, these things exist, they are important and it is good that they are given the necessary attention, but the practice is wrong compared to the theory. The idea of everything is to learn to accept others, as well as to accept ourselves. The idea is to cultivate, but for ourselves, not in an attempt to reach another person. In practice, there is an imposition of reasoning that is not appropriate for every situation. One must feel free to live normally, and nowadays there are many artificially imposed norms. You enter social networks and see seemingly ideal people, you want to be like them, and they pose for the camera and distort the truth. For example, anyone can beautifully arrange that part of his room that is visible on camera, and the rest can sink into chaos. Everyone can take a certain position with their body in which they look thin, tight and beautiful, but this is only in the picture. Everyone can climb to get in the right positive mood and start teaching others how to be happy. We say that everyone creates their own happiness, but we do not stop following other people's models for creating happiness. It is wrong, we understand something good in theory, but in practice we do not learn its meaning. Only a part of someone's life can be seen on social networks, and few people make sense of it. Then comes the depression, it seems to me a very logical development. Why are you surprised? Every second person tries to give reason to others. A Western model of behavior, of thinking, of a way of life is being imposed en masse. Basically, the internet is swirling with moralists who are capable of making everyone blacker than the devil. The same advice is given, which obviously does not work for everyone. It is foolish to try to fit in boundaries that we may not like. We live in a time when higher education is almost compulsory, not a luxury. In 10 years, there will be more engineers, lawyers, doctors, educators, philologists, philosophers and psychologists than salespeople. Once sellers become sought after, they will be offered higher pay and it is perfectly normal to fight for such work. As now, there is a certain struggle for the jobs of IT specialists, and years ago there was one for economists. Even if you are a person with a university degree, you will still work to feed your children. As much as I like the specialty, I want to have bread on the table, and in time I will have children and it will be important for me that they are well dressed, wear sturdy shoes and have toys. I really don't want to deprive my children and I really understand every parent who doesn't want to deprive their children. Of course, the child should not receive everything he wants, but why should he be ashamed, oppressed and deprived. I want all children to be healthy and happy, I want all adults to be calm and satisfied ... a very dumb dream, but it is one of mine. People have dreams, but they want a decent realization in life, a decent income and a quiet life. My mother once told me that a house artist does not eat. Now I am grateful to her for guiding me like that, but I still paint in my free time. Let the young people choose which path to take. Let the young be as they are. Stop judging the young. Stop comparing generations. Each generation condemns the previous and sets the next for failure. Each generation grows up in its time, there is no basis for comparison, life flows and changes, and with it the ideals, morals, views. We are not a big depression, we are the result of everything that has happened in recent years. We are confused by all the norms that have changed radically as we have grown. We hear different opinions from every angle, we need a model for life and thinking, we must fit into the present and we must work for a better future. We are learning, we are just entering life and it will take us some time to find the right balance for us. Maybe we will be good parents, maybe our children will be calm, balanced, wonderful, because we were not like that. Yes, many of us are anxious and depressed now, but it won't last forever, wait and see. Talk about us in 30 years, when our actions will have paid off. wait till you see. Talk about us in 30 years, when our actions will have paid off. wait till you see. Talk about us in 30 years, when our actions will have paid off.
Well, I'm part of that generation you're criticizing. And I'm 25 in the same age category and guess what, and I work in a store. And not because this is my dream job, but because there was no one to support me. Because from now on there will be no one to support me. I took a break twice to make some money for a living. The work I am currently doing does not define what kind of person I am. It doesn't determine if I have dreams or not. Don't judge people without knowing the story they hide behind what you see. In the evening I go home and read Russian literature, listen to classical music, jazz and go to the theater, but you can't know that. Do not think that people in lower positions do not have different qualities that they may be superior to. We live in such a time that if you do not receive money you are lost and you are tied up. Today I work in a store, in 10 years you can work for me and still criticize the generations. Develop as a person, improve continuously and do not judge anyone. I would rather work in a store until I can achieve what I want and find my true path than listen to reproaches and take a position that is publicly accepted as successful. To be with the false mask of a happy person in front of people, and inwardly to torment myself that I am not real because I do not listen to myself. Which is actually you, to say that 90 percent have no dreams. You are simply anonymous on this site and have no right to categorize. Watch your own life. than to listen to reproaches and to hold a position that is publicly accepted as successful. To be with the false mask of a happy person in front of people, and inwardly to torment myself that I am not real because I do not listen to myself. Which is actually you, to say that 90 percent have no dreams. You are simply anonymous on this site and have no right to categorize. Watch your own life. than to listen to reproaches and to hold a position that is publicly accepted as successful. To be with the false mask of a happy person in front of people, and inwardly to torment myself that I am not real because I do not listen to myself. Which is actually you, to say that 90 percent have no dreams. You are simply anonymous on this site and have no right to categorize. Watch your own life.