Why Isn't He Calling?

The male point of view towards men and women in particular has always been interesting to me. Whatever things you have in your head, what a man thinks is never one of them. After going through the clichés of who is what and how much a man is in relation to his attitude towards a woman, and how serious this is at all, we come to the conclusion that the modern man never looks first. He does not consider it necessary. A friend had told me that “A man is patient enough to wait for a woman to get tired of her and look for him first. "Someone had told her. Wise man. Likeing and looking for someone hasn't changed since you were in fifth grade. If then you were ashamed to admit it, now it will be so. If you didn't call then, now that feeling has doubled. Modern women's magazines try to convince you, and some succeed, that the "modern meeting rules" say that you should not wait for him to look for you, but to ride the moment and do it first. The man always finds the woman he likes. He always picks up his phone when she calls him. He never dumps his friends for her.

The rule is that you should never look for it because you look desperate, and the new one is that if you are brave and real, you can look for it at any time. When a man always makes a woman look for him, she begins to feel like an intruder. To feel that she is not wanted, that she is bothering and annoying. It has happened to me many times. Do they scratch their egos like that? While only I was looking for them or waiting for them to remember, they were looking for another. Of course, in the beginning it is the opposite and they always think of you. But over time, that is likely to change. Their attitude is changing. You feel something happening and you guess, that you are probably no longer of interest to them. And so, soon everything is over. Here I am not talking only about short-term relationships, but also about those of one-two-three years. Men are a universe misunderstood by me. You know those people who learn from their mistakes. I'm not one of them. The reality and attitude of a particular man bites me in the back shortly after I did what I shouldn't have done. I confuse kindness and goodness with other things or vice versa. The men I've been with always diverge somewhere between what we want and what's happening.

The discrepancy between what you want and what someone is willing to give you is the biggest nightmare. For each. Gender does not matter in this case. Yet. There is still the wonder after "why doesn't he call? “ And so, soon everything is over. Here I am not talking only about short-term relationships, but also about those of one-two-three years. Men are a universe misunderstood by me. You know those people who learn from their mistakes. I'm not one of them. The reality and attitude of a particular man bites me in the back shortly after I did what I shouldn't have done. I confuse kindness and goodness with other things or vice versa. The men I've been with always diverge somewhere between what we want and what's happening. The discrepancy between what you want and what someone is willing to give you is the biggest nightmare. For each. Gender does not matter in this case. Yet. There is still the wonder after "why doesn't he call? “ And so, soon everything is over. Here I am not talking only about short-term relationships, but also about those of one-two-three years.

Men are a universe misunderstood by me. You know those people who learn from their mistakes. I'm not one of them. The reality and attitude of a particular man bites me in the back shortly after I did what I shouldn't have done. I confuse kindness and goodness with other things or vice versa. The men I've been with always diverge somewhere between what we want and what's happening. The discrepancy between what you want and what someone is willing to give you is the biggest nightmare. For each. Gender does not matter in this case. Yet. There is still the wonder after "why doesn't he call? “ Here I am not talking only about short-term relationships, but also about those of one-two-three years. Men are a universe misunderstood by me. You know those people who learn from their mistakes. I'm not one of them. The reality and attitude of a particular man bites me in the back shortly after I did what I shouldn't have done. I confuse kindness and goodness with other things or vice versa. The men I've been with always diverge somewhere between what we want and what's happening. The discrepancy between what you want and what someone is willing to give you is the biggest nightmare. For each.

Gender does not matter in this case. Yet. There is still the wonder after "why doesn't he call? “ Here I am not talking only about short-term relationships, but also about those of one-two-three years. Men are a universe misunderstood by me. You know those people who learn from their mistakes. I'm not one of them. The reality and attitude of a particular man bites me in the back shortly after I did what I shouldn't have done. I confuse kindness and goodness with other things or vice versa. The men I've been with always diverge somewhere between what we want and what's happening. The discrepancy between what you want and what someone is willing to give you is the biggest nightmare. For each. Gender does not matter in this case. Yet. There is still the wonder after "why doesn't he call? “ who learn from their mistakes. I'm not one of them.

The reality and attitude of a particular man bites me in the back shortly after I did what I shouldn't have done. I confuse kindness and goodness with other things or vice versa. The men I've been with always diverge somewhere between what we want and what's happening. The discrepancy between what you want and what someone is willing to give you is the biggest nightmare. For each. Gender does not matter in this case. Yet. There is still the wonder after "why doesn't he call? “ who learn from their mistakes. I'm not one of them. The reality and attitude of a particular man bites me in the back shortly after I did what I shouldn't have done. I confuse kindness and goodness with other things or vice versa. The men I've been with always diverge somewhere between what we want and what's happening. The discrepancy between what you want and what someone is willing to give you is the biggest nightmare. For each. Gender does not matter in this case. Yet. There is still the wonder after "why doesn't he call? “ we are always somewhere on the way between what we want and what is happening. The discrepancy between what you want and what someone is willing to give you is the biggest nightmare. For each. Gender does not matter in this case. Yet.

There is still the wonder after "why doesn't he call? “ we are always somewhere on the way between what we want and what is happening. The discrepancy between what you want and what someone is willing to give you is the biggest nightmare. For each. Gender does not matter in this case. Yet. There is still the wonder after "why doesn't he call? “