Hello, I am 18 and I have been in a relationship with a man for almost three months. So far we have not had any problems, although our interests are quite different. He does sports and I study. Two weeks ago he went to work in another city and since then every day we either hear each other on the phone or write to each other on Facebook. He told me a few days ago that he could come home for the weekend and then we would see each other. Then I had a problem with the phone, that is, my outgoing calls were stopped due to an overdue limit and I can't call until I pay the bill, and this will happen at the end of the month. He knows this and we agreed to call me to talk for a few minutes because I can't. However, he has not called me at all for two days and has not written on Facebook. I'm not the person to question his friends. I will not do that. I just want to know what's going on. Oh, I understand that, that he can't afford to accumulate an account for me, but after talking to his friends for half an hour, is it hardly as fatal for him to call me as to tell me that everything is fine? Two days is not a long time, but so far we have heard and written to each other every day, and I have not noticed any cooling in our relationship ... nothing! I understand that he will always ignore me, at the expense of sports. I know I will always be after his sport. However ... but I put so much time and patience into it and I don't think I deserve that kind of treatment. Not that I want an account of what he's doing, but I think as his girlfriend it's important to know if he's home, and now that I'm writing this, he was supposed to be in town for three hours. If he wasn't, he could say he wouldn't come. Ah, only three days ago it was-,, "I miss your kisses a lot,", "I have no one here," etc. I thought, that he was different from the others and I believed. I know this is my first relationship and at times I may not do the right thing, that's what I want to know. The problem is in me or in it. Do I want too much or am I right?
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I'm your age too and I've had this problem .. I was wondering the same thing .. it's crazy for a loved one not to think about you and when I talked about it, he told me that he is not the only one who should look for me and so on. n. 2 days are not fatal, you try not to become more .. because if he stops being interested in you, the problem will be in him .. Sometimes men are stubborn or just feel a little suffocated ..