And if you were healthy, you would still face the same problem. Everywhere you will hear the opinion that it is difficult to find the right person to start a family with, but it is just as difficult to find valuable friends in your life. You need thick skin. I tell you this because you may be disabled, but you are equal to everyone else in my eyes. Friends make jokes, sometimes these jokes are inappropriate. The situation with your legs is very delicate, but when someone gets used to you, they will hardly notice your health and will be inclined to joke with you. The more times I found myself in a friendly environment, the more times I heard a number of inappropriate jokes. A big plus is if you yourself can accept the situation slightly with ridicule. I have a friend who recently broke his thumb and has been walking with plaster or whatever for a month now. Everyone is joking with him, he also jokes with himself. I'm below average height, they joke with me that I can't reach the high shelves in the store. If you can't accept such jokes, you better tell yourself that it's not funny at all, that you're almost disabled and you don't like to comment on this topic. If they are normal people, they will understand you and will not tease you. As for pure betrayals, he is not angry. It happens to all of us. There are rotten ones around good apples, that's life. Anger takes away so many other good emotions, try not to absorb only ink in your heart. You will meet various people who, frankly, will be complete bastards, but you do not live for them and you do not have to think about them. Someone betrays you, you learn a lesson, you have one thing in mind for him and you move forward without this person. In fact, it will be much harder than it sounds, but take it as a kind of self-care. If someone uses you, do the same. How to fix your life? Learn to accept yourself, try to look at things as if you are no different from others. Love yourself, like yourself. Take time for nice people and experiences. Indulge in hobbies, learning, entertainment. Don't waste time on people you don't like. Give everything for the others who are good to you. Live, in other words. Try new things, don't shut yourself up at home, don't indulge in depression. Many people have been depressed, I know it's convenient to curl up in a shell and watch others walk out the window, but it's much better to be the one walking in the sun and looking at the branches of the trees. Accept depression as an enemy to fight. Go out in spite of her, communicate in spite of her, defeat her.
1 tsmreginald answered
Do not accept that this is because you are disabled, most people look only at their interest and in general. I am twice and older than you and I have only 4 friends and everything else is familiar.