Hi, I'm a 15 year old boy. I am writing here because the events that have taken place in the last 10 days have completely ruined me. I have no one to share with, so I expect good cooperation from you. Let me start: It so happened that I ruined the relationship between me and the best friend of the girl I like. I apologized, but it didn't help, she blocked me. I couldn't sleep all night because of that. The next day I decided to write to the one I am in love with. I told her to see me because I had something important to tell her. I wrote it several times, but she kept refusing. He thought it was nonsense. Okay, I wrote everything in our chat (I told about my feelings and everything else). She didn't tell me anything, I just left her speechless. Anyway. We wrote a little more and the chat was over. I don't think I'm giving up on her. Another sleepless night. 2-3 days have passed. Gradually, I began to correct my poor mental state. I was in the mood, everything was great. But it turned out that someone had access to my accounts and sent photos from my Snapchat to those with whom I spend days. The photos are of myself and are very exposing
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The first part of what is written has nothing to do with the second, and what does "those I spend days with" mean at all? I guess it's for people you interact with every day. Here is my opinion: You should not have admitted your feelings at such a moment. Overall teen drama, not much to comment on, I hope you get it, naughty if you don't. Then for Snapchata. Why are all children 12-18 so stupid and repeat each other's mistakes millions of times without remembering to learn from the past ... What do you do on such platforms that are not for you EXACTLY because you are vulnerable to such traps and you can't make sensible decisions. It's very safe to have Snapchat and to feel very big and cool ... And finally you take pictures like naked idiots and the photos shine in one way or another for everyone's eyes and you become a laughing stock in front of everyone, that you know, which actually cripples you mentally for the rest of your life. Why do you insist on growing not naturally and normally with your time, but forcibly from experiences like these ?? Some lessons are learned the hard way ... And somehow it's so hard to help and protect you, not to have such things happen to you, because you are determined to break your head conditionally or literally ... For advice : 1. Stop being a typical first-time teenager 2. Get help from an adult to connect with a social media administrator / take advantage of alerts for posts that contain you without your consent 3. Change passwords and methods of verifying account ownership and test your computer / laptop / phone / other virus widgets (So you can log in to your accounts) 4.