Shy have no success. You have to be able to communicate, to flirt, to have a broadcast and to demonstrate your character. Otherwise you just lose in front of people with whom it is easier and more interesting.
At this age the most talked-about are the most provocative visually, because the boys itch their genitals and have to melt the hammer.
You seem to be more serious, and they can't wait to wait for you. You're lucky to be. At this age people have not built themselves as personalities, yet know their priorities and are looking for mostly entertainment. After 2-3-4 years, things will be a different way.
I'm in this position, too, author. :) And I've been asking myself the same thing for so long. During the day I pretend I'm nothing, but I'm crying at night and asking myself why? Am I not worthy of love? Am I that ugly and uptight? Am I not a good person? But I don't get any answers to my questions anywhere. Probably men keep a girl's esteem to look good in every way and last but not least to have a self-esteem that you and I don't have:)
Put on a sticky wedge (as long as you're not fat). When you have your legs and pussy, they'il start looking at you.
In each company first the loudest ones are noticed, they simply stand out against the others with their behavior.
It's not bad you're quiet and shy. I don't believe there's anything specific about you that pushes the boys off. You're just quiet, a man has to look at you and pay attention to you, to see what you are, because you don't stand out with noise, provocation, or scandals. That's not bad, and you don't have to change the basics just to attract someone, because that way you won't get it with the truth. Maybe you should try to be more sociable, work on your self-esteem and try to make sure you're not a bad person and you deserve everything good. When you feel better in your skin, you will automatically start expressing your opinion freely, communicating without concern and attracting people. You will still be quiet and modest, but you will not be ashamed of what you represent really and the difference will be palpable to others.
And you're 30 years old. I'd like to lie to you, but what's the use? You've already been declared not easy enough to wait for a miracle.
You have to radiate energy and joy from life. How are you going to do that? Look at yourself, observe yourself, and notice what gives you such sensations? And seek only this, only positive impressions, from everything else, ignore, repel all negativity. Play sports and communicate with nature-it is our mother's guardian. From it you can buy energy, and the smile will not get off your face. This is how you start attracting people, and that means men
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