Off, you are totally desperate, first think about why you don't have so many friends, and I'm trying to find a girl friend, people of one sex always easily overcome any nasty habits in the other ... I'll just tell you that at times and I was like that, but gradually you will find, and sometimes 1 is enough ..
If you want, you can write to me by e-mail, because I am slow in Cyrillic. But don't worry. Everyone feels lonely, sometimes for months and years. If you try to love and help others, it will work well for you, because even if they do not pay attention, know that you have given the best of yourself.
Also know that nature has created us so that we have something to change, but there are also wonderful things that we can give to our loved ones and not only .... Everything around us. Your mistake is that you have lost faith, but the good man is in you.
Give Him most of your attention. Success! If you want write to [censored] which I am.
Don't worry, there are others who feel that way. It will pass in time, or at least I hope because my case is exactly the same. ;)
Sooner or later everything falls into place! It is difficult to feel alone, but in this society, which today is better to be able to - no one is interested in others! They are all singles - even in groups! Sooner or later you will find people who are less lonely!
This sounds very familiar to me as if I am listening to my story, I am a boy of 16 and I am still dating ours because there is no one else, as far as my friends I have changed four schools and I still can't find it, and I'm neither fat nor am I dumb (I would even say extremely intelligent) just my views differ from others or I'm a little antisocial. As for my psyche, I'm great, it never occurred to me to commit suicide because they didn't look for me and I even seem to be mastering the Stoic philosophy with this boredom of mine :)
Yes, I have now changed third school. And why? Because I thought I would find someone there, but what turned out ?! The complete opposite of everything I thought. It's just ... everything is very nasty, I don't believe at all that I will find friends, but still thank you for giving some advice :)
Hey hey, let's stop the nonsense! I think you're prejudiced, and you like to feel sorry for yourself :)) Don't, it's just not as cool as it seems. The question is to find common ground with different people - one hundred percent you have such, whether in terms of musical preferences, hobbies, books, if you will;) friends are not there sitting and thinking how they all avoid, from personal experience I tell you , so instead of grumbling, you better find people with similar interests, and then things should work out good luck :)
The more a person closes himself - the more he presses himself to the dark and lonely corner from where he can only look and envy!
Open your windows a little ... look what's outside! Look at yourself, you will see that you are like everyone else. Go out more often do not sit in front of a broken computer. - he will not find you friends - only pseudo friends are found through him!
Get out, take a walk - watch the people and merge with them! You will not regret this.
I was also a boy who was self-centered just to study, to help at home and to learn from everything around him! And the first most unexpected acquaintance happened to me, which left me a very good friend ... You know the good old Ikarus ... where a lot of people come in and collide ... well, at the moment my best friend is just from such a bus - because he sent an elbow in my face ... and here is a situation for acquaintance with an unexpected effect ... the future is somewhere out there - one has to look for it alone and not wait for it to come ... because it never happens move - YOU MOVE IT YOURSELF!
You are not the only one with this problem, feel free and I feel that way. I have the feeling that everyone avoids me and does not want me as a friend. The only good friend is my mother, in which there is nothing wrong, I want to have my own. This feeling saddens and depresses you, but one day it will boil over. Don't worry, don't resort to such measures to commit suicide, this is not a solution. Just look ahead and don't give up.
Don't do that, many people are lonely. I didn't have any girlfriends at your age, and now I don't and I think it's because I'm different. Or maybe the board is banging on me, I know. However, this has not excited me for a long time. Girlfriends only bring trouble, you know, I had two for a long time, but I met them when I was about 20 years old and both terribly disappointed me. My daughter is 12 and she has no girlfriends, but it does not occur to her to commit suicide , me too.
Wow! I did not expect that there were other people with my problem. I'm a 16 year old boy and I also don't have any friends, I don't go out. I tried, but without success, I always felt different. And if you try to fit into a company ... of course everyone is interested in who you've been with before, and it's weird to say, "I, with no one, was sitting with us." And on top of that, I found that I fell in love with boys. In recent weeks, in addition to the lack of a friend, I also feel the lack of a partner. Although I've never had a boyfriend before, I really want to have one. But it probably won't happen soon ..
Well, there's no point in continuing to complain, if any of you want to write to me, I don't mind.
Do not try to please others (ie be who you are not) and do not be complex. Learn to like yourself and not pay attention to your shortcomings. Others avoid you because you have no self-confidence. You have to build it ... think about the good things in you, about your family, about your good qualities ... Discover yourself! There will always be someone to appreciate your qualities. Everyone is special, there is no one like him. To find friends you have to be YOURSELF !!!
Ehee dude, I'm a boy of 14, I don't even go out, I spend most of my time talking in front of my computer. They call me [name] the hacker before I was very closed I didn't think about anything at all, my day passed only from home to a teacher and back.
I had friends, but they didn't interest me enough to find a boyfriend - a girl who would look at the world in the same way. My cousin who is now 15 has every girl he wants .. I don't think you have to be complex about something of your appearance on the contrary you have to be yourself try to treat yourself well with others and they will start to reciprocate with the same ..
In fact, I don't have a girlfriend because I'm quite anxious, but lately I've stopped being interested in everyone, I said to myself if not now - we never hung out with girls in my class and hugged and I don't know who
I was in seventh heaven, I had closed myself in from now on, from now on I think to go out with a friend every day, I think that if you go out more you will always meet someone with your views on the world:} PS Ac / DC and Guns 'n' Roses, Kiss these bands inspire me to act weird.
I don't know there is something in them, it's not like some of my friends gossip nonsense .. and I don't know I treat every girl well (unless it made me very nervous) and accordingly they respond to me with the same, but not just by eating: D and to hang them but not too much because they are annoying ...
If you want for 1 day you can find a hell of a lot of friends as long as you want it :) Have confidence and forget the rules This is :)
Abe, you are above me ...... not by chance
People, I also have such problems as you - I'm 16 years old but I've never had a friend - the worst thing is that I may never find myself! I really want to find friends, to go out, to go to parties and so on further, however, this is not the case. Personally, I also changed two schools, and yet things did not go the way I wanted. I'm tired of my brother going out with friends and me staying at home all day and not roasting anything else. When I go out I have the feeling that everyone is staring at me and laughing and making fun of me !!!
I honestly don't know what to do anymore - it looks like I'll be alone for the rest of my life !!!
Many of my relatives tell me - it was a man coming out! Meet other people, find friends, make acquaintances - ABE PEOPLE, IT'S EASY TO SAY - I HAVE TO FIND MY FRIENDS - but it's very difficult. The question is not so much why I do not have friends than-HOW TO FIND MY FRIENDS ?????
Today I have a birthday - I just roar - my holiday is roaring, but I roar - because I have no friends and I have no one to share and be happy with - I want to finally celebrate with friends, but alas, it does not work. it doesn't work, and it doesn't work !!!
I even think I'm the only one like that. Everyone else has at least one friend - and I don't have one - don't joke - I don't have any friends and I will hardly ever find them !!!
Well, let me not bother you with my nonsense !!!
oooooooo it's awful not to have anyone, it's disgusting to be alone and to have no one to share with ... I know very well amaa ...... I personally am used to dealing with everything on my own, I try to be my own friend . And this is not nonsense, on the contrary, if there is something that bothers you, it's good to share it ... iiii calm, it will always end with you being alone .... but when .... I don't know
My people only use them. Anyway. Just don't care otherwise if you don't care you won't succeed in life. When you remember a friend when everyone is against you, he is the one who is best to help you, he doesn't pass by them. This is common when you are a big deal, everyone is from you to you, when you are nobody, no one is with you.
em if you want write to me
I can give you my Skype, I am a boy and I am a **** and I can tell you some things about how Jesus can remove this loneliness of yours!
Yes, I'm like that ... a 16-year-old boy who changed 3-4 schools, but wherever I go, it's still the same :( even if I don't go out with us, it's already too 10th grade person with mom and dad :( it works ... and I'm neither fat nor dull as 1 boy said above ... I have a slender athletic-weak figure I'm tall, but my problem is maybe I'm shy :( I don't know if that's exactly my problem, but I don't know what I need to change in myself
Hello, I want to say that I have the same problem, I have no friends and I am very shy. If you want to talk to me my skype is *** do not hesitate to write to me and I am like you :(
The search engine in Skype doesn't find Skype on anyone and ... are you sure you didn't confuse it: / I .... I really want to talk to someone from here but ... it's unlikely to happen ... hmm. ..
And I have no friends and I have many things I can say on this topic ........
Let me add another loner to the list on this site. I understand you very well girl. And I think I'm wrong and I feel like killing myself, but ... you know? I don't think we have anything. We just haven't met people who are like us and understand us. I know what it's like to spend your next birthday alone ... But don't despair. This is the risk of being different. Be positive and you will find friends for sure!
Don't despair! I live in another country and I am 23 years old and I also have a problem - I do not have a serious friend with whom I can meet. But what to do? I can only tell you one thing: we are to blame for all things. Only the cause must be found. I know my own: I am very naive. So I can say these are yours. I need to know you better.
Hi, I'm exactly your breed. I was always alone, without friends, with only a few inevitable acquaintances connected with school. I'm more sensitive, more shy, I don't like conflict, I guess I'm more cowardly. My parents divorced, my mother and I lived badly, I closed even more. I always had the feeling that I had to live up to someone's expectations - I was excellent, weak, beautiful, polite, and to this day I have not said a rude word to anyone.
And one day in high school I got bulimia. I found happiness and pleasure only in food. There is nothing left of the beautiful slender excellent girl. I just finished. By the end of puberty, I had almost doubled my weight. And my few acquaintances abandoned me. Everyone was shaking with ambition for the future, and I would be hopeless for them.
Graduating from high school worked well for me. Although it took me 3 years, I got on my feet ALONE, somehow I was afraid to apply, I was accepted, little by little I lost about 30 kg. Today I am facing graduation from university, looking for a job, I really want to have a family and children.
I wanted my story to sound optimistic, but to this day I have not found a way to radically change myself. I don't have many friends, I don't even have a friend. But I know I'm strong, resilient, loyal, and even though I don't fit into this fucking world with fucking people, I know I'm going to make it.
Keep your head up!
Hello №27. Your story reminds me a lot of me and I would really like to have the opportunity to write to you. and so I'm 18 and so far I'm not any friends because I'm shy quiet and shy, but I've ignored it so far. I have always lived up to other people's expectations - excellent grades, successful endeavors and so on. But this year I really collapsed. I had big dreams and now I have nothing - just memories of ridicule and humiliation. At the moment everything is apathetic to me, I don't study, I have no desire for anything. All I do is cram, eat all day, even at night without being hungry, and whatever comes my way, whether it's tasty or not. even honestly, I already feel sick to the type of food but I still eat. Do I have bulimia. I'm afraid I'm going to ruin my life.
At least when I wrote what you read, it gave me some hope. Please if you can write, because I have the feeling that our stories are very similar!
Hello. I am 14 years old. So far, I think no one has my problem, but I've obviously been wrong. I have no friends and sometimes I feel very alone. I know the reason is in me, but I don't know how to change :(
Hi ! I'm in the same situation but .... what are you doing, life is fucking !!!!! So I want to write with number 21, because I have the feeling that I know him :) PLs, if you see this, write to me !!!
who wants to write (mostly I want to write with number 21, because as I said, I know I know him :))
Hello :) ! I have the same problem and I thought I was the only one ... I was wrong. At least after reading the topic I was a little relieved because I remembered how I'm not alone :) I forgot to introduce myself :) I'm 14 years old from Ruse. I have a number of reasons why I can't find friends ...
There are not many people my age in my neighborhood, I don't have a brother or sister, I don't have a village and only when I became 8th grade and now I have less to study and more free time I realized that I am very lonely ...; people who are nice and my friends, but here's the next problem - They're from the surrounding villages. I know I'm to blame for that too. I had computer problems this summer. I just didn't get up from it. I stayed here around the clock. Towards the end of the vacation I realized that it was time to go out for a while, but even that was impossible, because I only had online friends from other cities ...
Iiii since then I felt what that feeling is :( Really very naughty; (And I'm very happy when someone thinks of me :) When the phone rings or on Skype :) But they remember more because of a game I play and still want help from me ... They can't think of something like for example if you want to go out somewhere or something like that ... :( It's very naughty so there is no dispute.
Hello, I also have no friends, although I am 22 years old and very difficult for me. But I don't think everyone hates me. Many times I have said to myself "Am I to blame for not having friends" but in the next moment we should not look for the cause from only one side. I have communicated with many people and I have tried to build some kind of friendship and the next moment everything goes wrong. Don't grieve everyone you write here. If anyone wants to write to each other and become friends,
And I have no friends, I only have acquaintances!
I am 18. I am ready to become friends with anyone who wishes. I went through a period of loneliness and I know EXACTLY how to get out of it forever! I have developed a special program that will help everyone get out of it! I changed a lot in one year!
YOU WILL NOT KILL YOURSELF !!! As soon as the dreams come true ..this is supeeer ... I want to say that I dreamed about it as a little younger, Seki almost dreamed of it (my point of view): P
What's your Skype..? How do I want to have a girlfriend like you: P: P (I'm a little crazy: D: D ..)
Although I am 10 years old, I also do not have so-called friends! Do not be friends with the one who says to you: "My friend", but with the one who asks you: "Be my friend" and this is so I was very disappointed when I had to not talk to my best friend and it is not two weeks or days, and two and a half months! : @
Society is going lower and lower. Conscious and different people have a hard time surviving :( So I completely understand you, I'm the same and I'm 17.
If there were sites or forums on the Internet where such people could meet, it would be great, but I have never seen such a thing ...
There are many people with your problem (as can be seen from the comments)
Maybe my advice is to regroup in places where someone like you can easily find you ...
Hello! Very naughty but I know what's wrong with you. I'm like that, I changed 4 devices, and I have no contact with anyone to this day. I can't say that I haven't even gone out for coffee, but only to that extent (as acquaintances, not friends). I used to have a lot of friends, but most of the rubbish came out that only used me and the rest were just hypocritical. Since then I have closed myself in, I don't go out, I don't talk to people and sometimes I feel sick, but I seem to prefer that than having someone hurt me again. I no longer trust anyone, only my family.
Strange as it may seem to you, what you wrote also applies to me, but I have a little sister who is 3 years old and I don't get along with my mother a little worse and I really understand you .... you can meet, meet or You play something. For example, I train volleyball, but I don't know why I'm still there ....
I'm 17 and what you wrote (at least for the most part) overlaps with what I would write. You need to be more open to people - there is no other way: S
Don't despair and I don't have many friends I have one who is very far away but I put up with I have a few friends from the chat but others are live honestly I'm so great before I had many and sometimes I want to explode but today I'm bad tomorrow I'm fine so don't say in vain and you can die on your own, a little more faithful to the grave than hypocrites, etc. You can have a gift
Well, I didn't realize this until 1 month ago. But right now I'm in the same condition as you. Recently, everyone I know started avoiding me and I realized that the problem was in me. When I want to meet some of my so-called "friends" they are always busy with something, they are always somewhere ... It's awful, these days I'm constantly crying, I know it won't help, but ... In principle, I'm always I found someone to go out with, I was always among people, I always made them laugh, I haven't had this problem with "friends" until now ....
I am not proud of many of my actions..and I have left friends and I have behaved, to put it mildly, horribly with people weaker than me .. and as they say everything comes back..it came back to me..I already know what Well, I know .. I will never behave like that with people again. NEVER !! and I did it just to prove myself to someone who doesn't even remember me for sure anymore. childish work..and I've hurt someone's feelings in this way, which is a terrible thing ... Since Sunday everyone has been avoiding me as if I am a leper. There is something else that prevents me from meeting new people, but .. I will not write more ..
Em tva is generally, I had a close friend with whom we were inseparable for about 2 years (literally), especially since she is from my class .. from morning to night we were with her, but she dumped me because of another girl, with whom even they have no common interests, noo anyway, I'm not angry with her, still people change .. I think I should change too .. I thought that before I was drawn to this nonsense like skate and BMH .. before I had BMH and skate, but because of my new "friends" I stopped driving them, and I started going to cafes, etc. hahaha horror .. and I'm thinking of getting either BMX or skate to ride again, because it's super boring only in us and I can find other friends like that..ahaha ave I will not give up, absurd: D
Or as the author had written to commit suicide, to be never: D ... to enroll somewhere to train can also .. That you have no friends..who is to blame, because of that .. You yourself ..something in your behavior has irritated others, or you just don't even have behavior .. you seem impersonal to them, etc .. let people get to know you .. one hundred percent will like you. !!!! You know, "EVERY TRAIN HAS A PASSENGER!" don't despair horrrraaaaa..who wants to write to each other to say .... Because it's a hell of a lot to be constantly on the computer and hanging out with us .. so otherwise I'm from Dobrich, I'll be happy to meet some poor guy like me: D I'm kidding, but I'd really like to meet someone like me
:) good luck and don't give up :) everyone finds their place sooner or later..for everyone there is a place on this earth ..
Hello!
I'm a 15-year-old girl, and it's as if everything you've written has been said by me. I have no friends, many acquaintances, but no real friends. It sucks when you see everyone outside and having fun, and only you stay at home and do nothing, you sink into loneliness.
Personally, my problem is that I am super good to everyone, I do not offend people, I am anxious and shy. I have tried many times to change this, but I have not succeeded.
Everyone tells me "there are passengers for every train", but how long do I have to wait for mine, when will I find friends who understand me, to be a part of something ...... But I still don't despair, I keep going and I hope everyone will forget that he is alone and live, that he doesn't care about anything, because once you live, the wasted time will not return. Good luck !!!
I'm 18 years old and I don't have any friends :( I've been going through such a period for a long time, but mine has been going on for 5 years :( :( I'm just more special and I don't let everyone get to me ... my life sucks :(
Everyone is strange (special) ... more or less. Everyone sooner or later finds a person like himself and ... feels understanding, warmth, protection - these are true friends. You will find them - do not despair ...
I am sure that you will not be alone forever - just have a little faith and strength to fight.
I am not shy or shy. On the contrary, I even have fun, I laugh, I talk to strangers - I don't like being copied at all. I am 19 years old. But I also don't have friends because I'm not interested in things that interest them. Ever since I was a child I have always had a boyfriend, there has never been a day when I am alone. And you probably all know that when you're with a boyfriend you only go out with him and so friends stay in the background. I understood that, but late when I finally decided to be alone. I changed 100 companies, but never found the most suitable one. I have friends, but I don't want to go out with them ... they just aren't interesting to me. I have long forgotten about girlfriends, I have had and I no longer want to have them. I guess when my first semester starts in about 2 months, I will meet new people there.
Everyone has such moments, especially in this period of self-knowledge and growth. Realize yourself, learn not think about it, know that not only you are like that and this is normal. Go out with everyone, because they can introduce you to people who will become your friends. Don't give up - this is a stage that will just pass ... :)
Well, I know how you feel, and completely, but yes, but you've already found a lot of friends, you go out all the time to talk to them and so on, everything is without dreams and I feel it :)
Hello, I'm a boy of 17 and I don't go out anywhere just because I don't have friends. I only have Skype friends. They tell me to go out a bit and I wonder what to tell them. I was missing him and I lost my friends, I feel sick when my brother goes out with friends and I stay at home.
I registered on the dating site "IMPULSE" and met two girls. We have been drinking with one for about 6 months and we say "I love you" and we really like each other but she is from another city. The other is from my city (Shumen), and I think 4e likes me but I'm quite shy, and if we see each other I won't like it because of that.
PSYCHOLOGY - read a little and many things will become clear to you. In general, I am like that, but for a year or two I started to not care. in general, if I want to go out somewhere like others do, there are a few people up and down with whom I can, but the point is that I realized that I don't need it.
after all, being at home isn't that bad. the trick is to try everything (no drugs de: D)
I may not be right, but when you think about it, there are so many people like you who are imprisoned and isolated ... anyway - please your soul. do what you internally want and not care about the other. however, this is a completely mental problem and as I said if you want to read another book with psychology - it helps ..
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