Why Doesn't He Offer Me Marriage

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We have been together for years, we live together, we understand each other, he says that I am the woman, that he wants to grow old with me, that he wants us to get married and have children, and why doesn't he do anything about it? What's his problem? I already think he's an idiot and stupid! I can not stand it any more. I'm starting to doubt everything. I get nervous, I fall into strange states. I even feel like I'm starting to hate him for his passivity. We've talked about it many times, and it always says the same thing - that's what he wants most - to get married and have a baby. And time passes and nothing happens. I once asked him when, he said - I don't know, soon. Half a year has passed since then. I say that I do not want to be at the same stage in 10 years. He says that in 10 years eheee ... we will have a whole football team. I don't know what to expect anymore. What is he waiting for? Should a ball explode, what? E, Should I propose marriage to him? Do I have to say go to bed to make babies? This is disgusting. I don't wish it on anyone. There is no such indecisive man, and he is not like that, he is always very determined and with a firm position on my side for everything. I told him I wanted to break up. He didn't stop crying and begging me, I see he doesn't want us to part. Then why not do anything? I'm thinking of moving out for a while and letting him think about what he's going to do. I'm sure it doesn't cross his mind to propose marriage to me. He likes our current relationship and thinks everything is fine. I don't want to offer. I do not suffer from prejudices, but for this very thing I do not want to be the initiator. Has anyone been in a similar situation? What to do? P.P. Don't convince me that these are obsolete.

Last Updated
September 27, 2020
Author:
syn_summer

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