But what do you play sports? If it's not fitness, it doesn't work. Let the fitness guys, who think that when you play sports and everything in your life suffocates and binds and women line up, comment that I'm tired of reading "sign up for fitness" in every second topic as if it's some kind of panacea against all adversity in life.
To number 1, but I rarely go to the gym, but I like to run, swim quite often and have a sporty physique. I said that because I'm not fat, otherwise I haven't been to the gym in years. This is not the main thing, I'm just amazed by the female logic and I can't understand it. The worse you treat a woman, the more she loves and respects you, and these are my direct observations of the people around me.
Number one when I read about fitness and I automatically put an asterisk on you, and it turned out that you said the right thing. Sorry bro, you're absolutely right.
And when was the last time you invited a woman on a date? Do you have contacts with women in general? Not that women like arrogant types. They are just more open and invite them to meetings and initiate relationships. By the time the woman realizes that the man is not getting up, they are already in a relationship. At first they behave well, then they show their real face, so don't be surprised. They just deceive women. They are cheeky, but at first it seems more like an interest and some women are flattered by the attention. I don't think you do anything and that's why you're alone. You need to learn to flirt better with women, most likely, and invite them on dates. Pay attention to them and so on. It also helps a lot to look confident and with good self-confidence and a sense of humor. Those who described her are just naughty people, so they are not suitable for a long-term relationship, but women tie them for a while until they understand what they are. Why don't you pay attention to their approach in the beginning, when they start downloading one? See what they do and do like them, then the differences between you and them will come, because they are in a long-term relationship, as described above. The difference between them and you is that you had difficulty starting a relationship, and they have difficulty keeping it and continuing to maintain a normal relationship.
You're a rusk. It doesn't matter what you look like, bro. It doesn't even matter how much money you have. Women's success requires self-confidence and a story. That's it.
If you can't make her think of you when she goes to bed alone ... wait until she sees you standing in the street alone.
It's not the women's fault, it's the complexes that make them angry.
Hmmm, dumbbells rang again and the smell of musk.
Number 4 described it very well. I never managed to "become like them" and I have no desire. I found a wife, by coincidence, though. But the idea she gave you is true. Unfortunately, many are attached to drummers and impudent people :)
Author, I will give a few examples.
I have a colleague who is 50 years old. Low, about 165 cm. high. Broken nose and slightly bald. There are, if I'm not mistaken, 4 children from different women. His current wife is about 15 years younger than him. To say he's rich is not.
All his colleagues are fond of him, he is a big fat man, but the story is very open to him, he knows when to say what. Apparently the man has some charisma.
I know two twin brothers. When you see them, you can't tell who's who.
However, one is super open and talkative. She changes boyfriends every 2 months.
The other, although visually the same as his twin, as a character is quite different. Quiet, modest, you can't hear his voice. I haven't seen him with many girls, but he has a serious girlfriend.
The last story is about a relative of mine.
Short, skinny, he only wears some old jeans and rocker T-shirts. Slightly dark-skinned, with yellow teeth, constantly on coffee and cigarettes. In the distance, when you see him, you will say to yourself, "Bahti gypsy." But this guy has two divorces, he constantly changes women and he doesn't care about anything. He has confidence in the heavens and can catch anyone.
So author ... Vision is important, but it's not everything.
I am 190 cm. tall and I like to play sports, during puberty I didn't even have pimples, I'm not Alain Delon, but I'm not a Quasimodo, but for example I slept with a woman for the first time when I was 21 years old.
I look good, but I'm just like a tree. I can't talk to a woman, I don't like the story, I'm not witty, nobody laughs at my jokes and I don't have charisma.
But "a cat like that." I've struggled with some psychological tricks, approaches, how to fish, how to download and the like, but this thing you either have it or you don't have it, and it's just not learned.
Things are not as you see them. Talk to a specialist to show you where you are wrong. If you are as conscious as you think, the reality will be different.
Until N. 11. I just can't be a simpleton and be rude. Ie I can, but I'm not happy and it's not me. I can be wonderful with a woman and that gives me pleasure, but obviously women prefer bad boys. Otherwise, I have no other explanation for why they admire men who are rude to them and behave badly with them. Otherwise, for me, I realize very well that I do not look bad, as I already mentioned, I am quite nice, I am 187 cm tall, I weigh 90 kg, I have been swimming almost all my life, and this sport itself develops the body as correctly and well as possible. My last relationship was more than 2 years ago and we were 4 together, but things didn't work out. Unfortunately, such things happen. Happy Baba Marta all. I'm going to do a cross :)
People who "need" women are their slaves. We don't need women, understand that.
When you find out or you will become an asshole with many admirers or a monk.
The latter is preferable.
The problem is that women, like the author, want to change and behave like mold. People, are you okay?
Those like the author are exactly like that because they are NOT like the molds. How so, both to behave like mold and not to be like that ... I don't understand the logic
And why don't women finally learn to choose men better?
I am in the same position as the author, almost the same! I am a 29-year-old doctor, with a high income and no friend (husband and children), beautiful and sexy, I have no friend, the last one dumped me a month ago. A colleague from the clinic where we worked together attacked me, jealous, but even if he hadn't abandoned me, I would still tolerate him in the name of starting a family!
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