We've been together for almost a year, quite a little time to get bored in my opinion. In the first few months, I stayed at her house without having sex, kind of getting to know each other because I was a virgin. Then we had sex every other day, constantly saying that he was aroused even when we hugged and I felt of course. We went on vacation, everything exactly. A few months ago, he said he wanted things to get serious, and I wasn't ready to live with him - I didn't live with a man I didn't know how it was going to be) and he said it was like we'd only seen each other for sex. He gave me an engagement ring to show he's serious. As a sign of this, I moved in with him ( not completely, but you can say that we live together) It's been three months since we've had sex five times. It's a little small, given that we do it for 5min in 2 poses - Always. I'm not relaxing or getting excited. Is it normal for him to get tired of it? I can't start with it, I understand, but still. He wanted kids, but that's not going to happen. I don't want to think in two years how it's going to be. I don't want to split up. He's not cheating on me, we work together, we hug at night, we kiss and that's it. If it comes to sex, it just gets me in pain sometimes. You know I'm not done. Are there others like us so soon to be together and things don't work out? He finds out about relationships that have been together for 20 years, for example. 22 years old. I am, he's in his late 30s.
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judith_i answered · June 01, 2020
The difference in years is the problem. You're 22 years old, why are you with some guy in your 40s? You didn't even tell him the years, understandably why. Do you realize he could be your dad a little bit more? And on top of that, he's selfish. Guys like him get naïve like you, get out of there until he made you kids! Then you'il see what happens to you. You probably had a bad childhood and you lacked fatherly affection. But my advice is get out of there, your whole life is going to ruin. I'm talking about his attitude! He doesn't love you, I guarantee you.
Helga
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missevagold answered · June 01, 2020
That "just score" doesn't sound good. She has to touch you first, kiss you, have a foreplay without her normal.. Talk to him about it.
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mommy_incext answered · June 01, 2020
He's a real old man compared to you, and his mera's been !!!
In just five or 10 years, he won't touch you, let alone kiss you and you!
And you're going to have to, in your 30s, look for a lover, a jerk or a surrogate!
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pumped2020 answered · June 01, 2020
My relationship is 15 years and my husband and I have sex every day, sometimes several times a day. You're young, and for years, as I understand it, he's just tired of it, and at such an early period of your relationship, I think you're dumping and until you're pregnant, then it's going to be late and a lot harder.
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lovejuice100 answered · June 01, 2020
And you ask what the problem is... of course it's because of the age difference. Why do you need such a big man...
Besides, guys, how do you do that to live together in your first year? For me, it's an extremely short period for a complete acquaintance.
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uncut98765 answered · June 01, 2020
I was looking for someone who lived. I want a quiet life, I'm not on the discos, even though I look like a muffin, for example. In the beginning, sex wasn't a problem, so it's not from the years. Why now she should be glad to have a young, pretty woman by her side.
Enough of this difference. There are people with 20 years and children.
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anie_honey answered · June 02, 2020
Find a boy your age close to yours and you'il have sex regularly. Drop that guy!!! Very quickly you lived together, the story of an acquaintance is very similar to yours, soon expects to limit your outings, make you a baby, and before it's 1 year old, she'il want a second and so. It's a good idea of youth.
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thec2cguy92 answered · June 02, 2020
Not always. It's up to the people. We're older than you, but when we're married, we have a lot more sex than we used to be. And we don't get tired, we're always surprised by something.
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dolly_basset answered · June 02, 2020
It melted like a lanky snow.
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sxc_babe answered · June 03, 2020
ufff, there are so many variants that I spill between them :) let's say in your case, it may be that you're all together. as long as you work together :) after all, a man needs to separate himself from you a little bit to be more interesting to him, so constantly when you're glued to each other.... maybe he doesn't feel enough freedom because of you, to feel limited and to limit it in sex ... but because he loves you and dares not say anything to you, so it gets more complicated :) but these are assumptions de....
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tslovely_kelsey answered · June 03, 2020
I don't want to disappoint you, but I see you have no experience of sex. Your husband's not sexual and he's a bad lover. It's never going to get any better, you just didn't notice it at first, now that you live together, you can see it. At first, the man knows he has to impress the woman. Men, likets are not sexual, behave just like that. Sometimes Viagra will drink, only to perform well at the beginning. Things come to light when you're living with someone. That's the only criterion. Since he's had enough twice a month, that's what he can do. When he's in his 40s, he'il be reduced to having sex more. I advise you, if you don't want to be with a lover and a man for the rest of your life, stop someone more sexual.
G 31
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helloxxxooo answered · June 03, 2020
Mom, he's still 40 years old and he doesn't want to have sex, I'm 40. I was healthy, it wasn't until I passed in my 50s that it started to soften, but it also had fingers and tongue so my sweet would get to orgasm. You're 20 years old, and what are you going to do tomorrow when you're 40 or 50 years old, you're going to turn into a old man's babysitter, and you're going to change his diapers? And keep in mind that the woman becomes more mature, the more her libido and orgasms grow and become stronger. So let that old man and find a young foal, jump you every day!