Why Does Sex Decrease When We Live Together?

The Story

We've been together for almost a year, quite a little time to get bored in my opinion. In the first few months, I stayed at her house without having sex, kind of getting to know each other because I was a virgin. Then we had sex every other day, constantly saying that he was aroused even when we hugged and I felt of course. We went on vacation, everything exactly. A few months ago, he said he wanted things to get serious, and I wasn't ready to live with him - I didn't live with a man I didn't know how it was going to be) and he said it was like we'd only seen each other for sex. He gave me an engagement ring to show he's serious. As a sign of this, I moved in with him ( not completely, but you can say that we live together) It's been three months since we've had sex five times. It's a little small, given that we do it for 5min in 2 poses - Always. I'm not relaxing or getting excited. Is it normal for him to get tired of it? I can't start with it, I understand, but still. He wanted kids, but that's not going to happen. I don't want to think in two years how it's going to be. I don't want to split up. He's not cheating on me, we work together, we hug at night, we kiss and that's it. If it comes to sex, it just gets me in pain sometimes. You know I'm not done. Are there others like us so soon to be together and things don't work out? He finds out about relationships that have been together for 20 years, for example. 22 years old. I am, he's in his late 30s.

Last Updated
June 01, 2020
Author:
lillithbarbie

Comments