Why Does He Do It?

The Story

Hello. My question is more focused on men, but women can also get involved. In short, I have been communicating for a long time with a very fickle man, a little older than me (he is 22). Our relationship is built on constant mixed signals that leave me terribly confused. When we see each other, he behaves so wonderfully that if I didn't know him, I would have decided that he was in love. And here comes the impermanence - it suddenly disappears and does not look for me for a month. I reluctantly refused to write to him, disappearing like that - I realize that he has no serious intentions towards me. But one thing annoys me that I can't explain. As if he hadn't been looking for me for a month, he suddenly wrote to me. After "hello, how are you" he always tells me that he missed me and wanted to see how I was. Well, that's the end of our great conversation, at most we can exchange one or two more sentences and leave me alone. Naturally until next month at this time, when the same story is repeated. I don't even want to communicate with this person anymore and I'm better off not looking for me, but because of some empty feelings when he writes to me, I'm responsible every time, which makes me angry with myself. My question is why does this whole thing do it? Checks if I forgot it by accident or? I will be happy to see what you think about it and if you can give me advice if it happens again what to do to see that I am not interested in it even if it is not. My question is why does this whole thing do it? Checks if I forgot it by accident or? I will be happy to see what you think about it and if you can give me advice if it happens again what to do to see that I am not interested in it even if it is not. My question is why does this whole thing do it? Checks if I forgot it by accident or? I will be happy to see what you think about it and if you can give me advice if it happens again what to do to see that I am not interested in it even if it is not.

Last Updated
September 12, 2020
Author:
strawberryousy

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