Why Does God Give A Child To Those Who Do Not Want, And Not To Those Who Want?

   Honestly, you are not very young, because 23 years is not small at all. Keep trying, if you don't have a health problem, then you will always succeed. :) ;) Good luck!! :)

   The answer to your question is in something called the law of cause and effect or karma.

   I did not know that the children were distributed by God. And I didn't know that some people were abnormal and you were normal. I do not agree with number 1, on the contrary, you are young and very young. Women give birth and become pregnant without any problems until the age of 41-42. You have 20 years of time to try and hope. Keep trying, instead of writing nonsense on the forums, and I hope you have a child sooner if you want it so much. M28

   Exactly two days ago my best friend called me almost roaring, for two years they have been experimenting with her husband and it doesn't work and it doesn't work and finally she went to the doctor, everything seems to be fine, but ... now they're winding her up. in vitro and she is in shock. Both everything is supposed to be normal, and they instill in her that she has to go in vitro. And now we're both wondering if the doctors don't know the reason or are they just interested in sending it in vitro because it costs a lot of money? So do not despair, young you have time and God forbid you boast soon, with a positive test. There is hope.

   If that doesn't happen - in vitro. Good luck :)

   Hello, first let me say that I am squeezing your thumbs and I wish you happiness sincerely. Check to see if you have a fungal infection, that was my problem.

   Abe The author has thousands of abandoned children in their homes, no one to look at them. Do you know how sad they stand by the fence and how they look out and how their soul cries for a hug. They watch people pass by. So they are also children, and don't think a little about how hard it is for these abandoned children to adopt their child.

   Your age is very good for pregnancy - 23-24 years .... Keep trying, it will happen someday. I read somewhere that according to some statistics, on average 6-8 months are needed. But of course everything is individual. For example, with the first I got pregnant almost once, and with the second 3-4 months. Some can get pregnant at the age of 41-42, but not everyone can .... Don't wait until then. Keep in mind that the in vitro may not happen from the first time .... If at all. There are women with 6 attempts to get up. And these are nerves, a lot of money and time. My sister is in this hall, so I know very well what it is ... Good luck! I wish you a soon pregnancy.

   "Why does the Lord give a child to those who do not want, and not to those who want?" - Because there is no Lord.

   To 7 And do you know that a large part of these thousands of abandoned children have living parents who have not given up their parental rights? And even if you want to, it is very difficult to adopt such a child, because it is more profitable for Aisha and Mango. Both someone else takes care of the tea and they don't let anyone adopt it. So no matter how hard you try, you can't do anything for them until the system changes. You can adopt an orphan, but I don't know if you have any idea how cumbersome and terrible the system is in this regard and how sometimes you have to wait years to adopt a child. So better in vitro.

   You are only 23, you still have a lot of time for many children. One colleague gave birth at 37 without a problem (and the pregnancy was natural). Think of a second. Do not immediately throw yourself into in vitro and the like. Let your husband be tested for sperm counts. Make changes in diet and lifestyle, go to a tent, do something.

   Why does God send some men genetic abnormalities so that they can't have sex, can't have a girlfriend, a utopia family, and not lead a normal life, but live instead of the thousands of young people who die in accidents, for example? Who can answer this question for me meaningfully?

   And have you heard that God does not give us what we want, but what is best for us? It will be what it is meant to be. You are still young, you do not miss anything. Try, but do not put so much energy to happen, one day the test will show 2 dashes. Excessive desire fucks up the desired result. Life is ahead of you, do not despair, you still have a lot of time for children.

   Stop thinking about why the child doesn't. Enjoy sex and don't think every time "now if it will happen". Relax, try something different, go on vacation. Your problem may be purely psychological. It often happens that a woman cannot get pregnant for years, they finally adopt, she calms down and within a year hops - and she gets pregnant.

   Why, because you are still young to understand it and take responsibility for a child. Firstly, not all Roma women have a problem-free pregnancy, secondly you have to learn not to be jealous, and thirdly you have many more years to try. there is more but I will not list. Check yourself for a health problem, and did you check your husband? In recent years, the percentage of men who have problems with insemination is higher.

   Because there is no "Lord". Everyone with their luck, with the braziers can be to some extent next to a gene. If you think you're really ready and most of all you want it, keep trying. :)

   If you follow the example of the Roma and the rest of the world - the Roma are not ashamed to ask for it several times a week and do not think about how they will feed their children, because it is well known that we will do it with our taxes. Since I do not like long philosophical talks with dubious chances of success, I will offer you an effective method to get an answer: ask him! Aren't you going to church? Do I need to know why He does this or that? Slavi Trifonov could not arrange a measly Ferrari, so will I get exclusive access to God's providence?

   I am number 7 to number 10, I know how many children have parents and do you know how many children have abandoned thoughts just before you write here is Bulgaria and Bulgaria do not compare it with Turkey and Mangalia. When you have children, I am happy or you have abandoned them, what are these children doing for them and then you give them for adoption, think a little number 10

   From the author: We are both healthy, we have passed all the necessary tests. It's very difficult for me to stop thinking about it, but it seems that over time, when I see that it's not happening, I shout at him more and more if I want to. As for the orphans, I don't think now is the time to think about such hasty decisions, since we are healthy, we will always have a child of our own.

   I am very annoyed by the recommendation for adoption. Or even more the imputation of guilt that there were orphans and you see you do not want to adopt. The one who dumped him is not guilty and the women who do not want another's child are? !! In addition, the author is as young as she is and is exactly at the ideal age for giving birth. And the fact that she strongly desires it makes her even more ideal. I don't think she's envious. Laughter, what will the braziers envy for giving birth at 12 and raining with all sorts of lice? He just resents injustice. Author, but just not everything in this life is from God, sometimes it is from us humans. And God has not promised us that it will be easy. :) You will have a child be sure of success!

   Author watch the movie The Secret and read carefully John Kehoe's book - The Subconscious Can Do Anything. They will help you succeed I want and write me the result in time. Here is a quote from the Bible: "Ask and it will be given to you." Just a few people understand it ... The question is not to want things, ie not to say to yourself and think, for example: way you repel the desired. The universe recognizes it as non-existence because it perceives it as non-existence, and the right approach is to know that you have already happened to act and think in the present time. The most important thing is the feeling you feel when you get what you want. Watch the movie and the book and I think you will understand. Success Zake

   I don't know how to answer you, it's strange to me how tens of thousands of young girls (mostly schoolgirls) have abortions every year. Do you remember that in a few years these same girls grow up and want to become mothers. Has anyone said that they give up this desire forever? Why when NO ONE talks about infertility, absolutely NO ONE says a word about these facts. Why when a 30-year-old woman wants to have a child and it doesn't come, she helpfully omits the fact that she had one or two abortions at a younger age. MY APOLOGIES to all women with this problem who have never had an abortion and for whom the reason is different. Probably you are among them. However, I am convinced that the main cause of infertility is abortion, strange why they do not want to talk about it.

   Number 10/18, you offer her instead of giving birth to her own child with the appropriate good and bad genes to adopt someone else's, whose parents may at least be irresponsible once abandoned. Someone will talk to me about poverty, but I know enough people who raise their children despite poverty. And if the child has an illness or something else that the adoptive parents will not like ... What if he is traumatized by the stay there, he cannot live a normal life and even one day he attacks his new parents ... But the important thing is that people are bad because they don't take risks instead of relying on what they already know - what genes they can pass on to their children. And how many children have you personally adopted in order to teach people by your bright example and to bow their heads in shame? There must be more than 1 because the orphans can't wait! Or you only adopt cats, and you rely on us for orphans? :(

   You don't care, but these abandoned children, aren't they people like you were worn out by life

   abe 7, how many children have you adopted and raised that you give advice left and right in such a tone? this is a deeply personal decision and I do not see from the position of what / what you judge and order what to do.

   abe 25 I don't like her, you are nothing more than me to adopt a child because 2 years ago I was told that I can't have children, I had a lot of problems. My husband and I tried, but it still didn't work out and we adopted a three-year-old girl and we love him, but you don't seem to have children and you don't know what it's like to be a mother, huh? And what if orphans aren't people? They may not be for you because you are still 15 years old and you do not know what the word "mother" means.

   25 am not, 26, did not know. I know very well what it is like to be a mother and there is no need to shine. I have long passed 15 years, I have 2 children and a husband. what you did is great, well done to you! love and take care of the child! I say it sincerely and without a gram of irony. However, you have absolutely no right to impose adoption as an obligation on people and to instill in them a sense of guilt that they want their own child. the instinct to procreate is deeply rooted in each of us, and you have no right to accuse the author of wanting her own child. she did not leave the children in the home and she is not responsible for their fate. so the decision to adopt is an opportunity, not an obligation. moreover, the author is quite young, they have been trying for only 1 year, which in my opinion is nothing. it is not bad for her husband to be examined. it was also not clear where she was examined: whether at any gynecologist or in a specialized clinic? so to talk about such a decision in her case is quite extreme, and your tone was quite edifying, which is inappropriate in such situations.