I have been married for 8 years with two children - 5 years old. And for almost 2 years. I'm still a mother. I love my children. I think I still love my husband, even though we fight almost constantly - mostly for trifles, but if the dispute starts, there will be no end. The bad thing is that it happens in front of the children ... we are both so nervous, we burn at the slightest thing ... I don't know how to explain, but I feel some constant irritation and aggression towards everything and everyone. I can't control my emotions and anger, I often break out. As I said, I love my children and give myself completely to them. But they also annoy me terribly at times, especially the big one, when they stumble on something and when it starts to answer me, it just drives me crazy! Sometimes I even slap him ... I know I have to be patient, understanding and not explode, but I just can't anymore! I haven't had any time for myself since they were born, I constantly run after them for something, the housework has no end. My husband hardly helps me. Apart from the children, we have no social life, neither he nor I. He works late every day. I know some things need to change, but I don't know how to do it. There is no one to help us. My question is - is it normal - that I feel such aggression and irritation almost constantly? Very often I get depressed - I have no desire for anything - neither to cook, nor to pay attention to the children, nor to get out of bed ... I just want to be alone, in silence, without doing anything. And the bad thing is that lately it is more and more often so .. I feel desperate and hopeless, I feel that I am suffocating ... lately I even feel dizzy to run away and leave them to fix themselves for at least 1 month !! Maybe I'm going crazy !? !? Please give advice on what to do, how to restore balance, happiness and peace in my life and that of my family? How to be a normal family, in which we do not constantly shout about everything, to enjoy our children and our marriage?
1 bigboy answered
Sit on your ass and watch your children and MEN so that I don't start you !!!