Hello, I am 21, my friend is 28. We have been together for 5 years, our city is small and most people know each other. I wonder why this is always the case when you are with one person 1-2-3 ... 10 years old they start asking you: Abe, when have you been together Won't you get married anymore? I am personally asked every year, this pointless question, most of the time they are the same people. When you say "NO" to them, in most cases it's either why or: Well, yes, life is expensive now, there is no need for unnecessary wedding expenses. Then why should the same thing be asked of God every time? For me, this is a hint that we are old or that they want to invite them to a wedding, to slap each other like pigs, to fuck like last time or ....? Then, after you get married, the question comes: And when will there be children? And if you don't give birth within 1 year after the wedding: AAA, they have a problem if they don't have a child yet, or something is lame here, they can divorce. And the answer may really be that there is a health problem, it may be because of money or you are just in no hurry to have a child. I'm just starting to get nervous from these questions. I'm tired of saying the same thing, that I'm small, that nothing is certain yet, work, housing, and therefore my ears hear once again: You're not small. People of that age have children. and your friend is not small. It's like he's an old uncle, and he's not even 30 years old. I get tired sometimes and I wonder when, this my handsome man will offer me, and I start to get annoyed by these questions. Come answer me now, if you asked such questions why do you do it? Don't you feel annoying people? Aren't you tired of asking these people the same thing? And the answer may really be that there is a health problem, it may be because of money or you are just in no hurry to have a child. I'm just starting to get nervous from these questions. I'm tired of saying the same thing, that I'm small, that nothing is certain yet, work, housing, and therefore my ears hear once again: You're not small. People of that age have children. and your friend is not small. It's like he's an old uncle, and he's not even 30 years old. I get tired sometimes and I wonder when, this my handsome man will offer me, and I start to get annoyed by these questions. Come answer me now, if you asked such questions why do you do it? Don't you feel annoying people? Aren't you tired of asking these people the same thing? And the answer may really be that there is a health problem, it may be because of money or you are just in no hurry to have a child. I'm just starting to get nervous from these questions. I'm tired of saying the same thing, that I'm small, that nothing is certain yet, work, housing, and therefore my ears hear once again: You're not small. People of that age have children. and your friend is not small. It's like he's an old uncle, and he's not even 30 years old. I get tired sometimes and I wonder when, this my handsome man will offer me, and I start to get annoyed by these questions. Come answer me now, if you asked such questions why do you do it? Don't you feel annoying people? Aren't you tired of asking these people the same thing? I'm just starting to get nervous from these questions. I'm tired of saying the same thing, that I'm small, that nothing is certain yet, work, housing, and therefore my ears hear once again: You're not small. People of that age have children. and your friend is not small. It's like he's an old uncle, and he's not even 30 years old. I get tired sometimes and I wonder when, this my handsome man will offer me, and I start to get annoyed by these questions. Come answer me now, if you asked such questions why do you do it? Don't you feel annoying people? Aren't you tired of asking these people the same thing? I'm just starting to get nervous from these questions. I'm tired of saying the same thing, that I'm small, that nothing is certain yet, work, housing, and therefore my ears hear once again: You're not small. People of that age have children. and your friend is not small. It's like he's an old uncle, and he's not even 30 years old. I get tired sometimes and I wonder when, this my handsome man will offer me, and I start to get annoyed by these questions. Come answer me now, if you asked such questions why do you do it? Don't you feel annoying people? Aren't you tired of asking these people the same thing? and he is not even 30 years old. I'm tired sometimes, and I wonder when this bastard of mine will offer me, and I'm starting to get annoyed by these questions. Come answer me now, if you asked such questions why do you do it? Don't you feel annoying people? Aren't you tired of asking these people the same thing? and he is not even 30 years old. I'm tired sometimes, and I wonder when this bastard of mine will offer me, and I'm starting to get annoyed by these questions. Come answer me now, if you asked such questions why do you do it? Don't you feel annoying people? Aren't you tired of asking these people the same thing?
1 shantel97 answered
"We have been together for 5 years, our city is small and most people know each other. "That's why they ask you - because nothing is happening in your village. And yes - right, because they want you to invite them to have fun, soak and cram at your expense. But I think you want to get married yourself, and you're angry that your friend is prudent enough not to propose. Your analysis is very correct, but it's time to take the next step together - to pack your bags and go to a big city where you can live in peace. Weddings and children will not escape you. Now is your chance to break, because in 20 years, without noticing, you will have become part of a limited Seljuk society that will ask its limited Seljuk questions, which irritate you so much today. The worst is that these people in their limitations are also terribly cruel to the different - as she herself hinted. God forbid something happens, they will tear you apart. Not to mention the intrigues and gossip. Get out on time!