Hello. I am a 13-year-old girl. I live with my mother. He hasn't stopped annoying me for a few days. I can't stand it ... She complains that I don't study, and I do my best ... What's more ... I want to go out with her like everyone else, and she always refuses me ... I've always loved her , because she raised me alone ... She received a lot of insults for her weight, but I still defend her ... She hasn't had a job for 2 years and I think it affects her badly and she earns it for me. We fight every day. A while ago about my assessments ... My father is in another country and it is very difficult for us. Winter comes only for 1 month. I can't understand why he doesn't say anything to my sister, who is 23 years old, but makes money for me. I can't take it anymore. Help me, please:(
1 powerswy answered
You can't know what's going through your mother's head, but I don't think you take it to heart. You say he's been annoyed for a few days, so it's probably something temporary. You hardly want to hear this about your mother, but we're human, your father hasn't been here that long, it's possible the woman is just ... annoyed. Not having a stable job contributes to the stress he is under. They may have problems with your father, but they hide from the children, as many parents do. Did you think to just ask her? Say that it weighs on you, that it strains you, you are uncomfortable ... ask, and he can tell you why he is nagging. If not, at least he'll know it's a problem for you. I don't think it's your fault, she blames it on you and looks for reasons.