Number 11, why do you think the author of the topic is lying? It is very likely that everything written is true. I was also a studious, meek and good child, but my mother called me a mare for no reason, she had nervous breakdowns, she attacked me. And, no, I didn't have the problem. Years later, I realized that my father had had lovers, humiliated her, and she was unhappy and angry with me. Separately, my father did not love her, he married her in social times, because she was pregnant and so it was right (although he waited 5-6 months hoping that something would happen and she would sweep). After all, because of their immature behavior, lack of sexual culture and socialist morals, I exist, which is not small. On the other hand, I had a terrible childhood, for many years I walked with low self-esteem, and it cost me a great deal of effort to shake off my parents' opinion of myself, which I no longer consider to be true. I can say without a doubt that I was one of the smartest students in school, I was easily accepted into a difficult specialty at the university, and without going to private lessons, I learned several languages almost by myself, I currently work and have an income well above average. But for everything in my life, my parents tried to refuse me even to try, they didn't think I was right for him. They transferred their own complexes to me. My mother beat me, and my father cursed and beat me, hurting everyone emotionally, threatening to leave us. I haven't received money from him for months, I'm talking about the time when I was a student. I saved on scholarships so I could buy normal clothes, because otherwise I walked with a rag. In our small town, there weren't even second-hand clothing stores where I could buy something decent for no money. My classmates made fun of how many unsupported people, but how can I explain to them that my parents don't care and I'm just an unnecessary expense. Only now, at the age of 30, do I realize how emotionally crippled my childhood has been. I am grateful that I managed to overcome it, and I already have a stable relationship with a wonderful person, although it took me a while to trust enough to build a healthy relationship. Not all people are suitable for parents and not all parents love their children. You have to become a parent when a person is not only sexually but also emotionally mature for the purpose. I know for myself that I would not have a child if there was even the slightest chance of causing him what was done to me. In our small town, there weren't even second-hand clothing stores where I could buy something decent for no money. My classmates made fun of how many unsupported people, but how can I explain to them that my parents don't care and I'm just an unnecessary expense. Only now, at the age of 30, do I realize how emotionally crippled my childhood has been. I am grateful that I was able to overcome it, and I already have a stable relationship with a wonderful person, although it took me a while to trust enough to build a healthy relationship. Not all people are suitable for parents and not all parents love their children. You have to become a parent when a person is not only sexually but also emotionally mature for the purpose. I know for myself that I would not have a child if there was even the slightest chance of causing him what was done to me. In our small town, there weren't even second-hand clothing stores where I could buy something decent for no money. My classmates made fun of how many unsupported people, but how can I explain to them that my parents don't care and I'm just an unnecessary expense. Only now, at the age of 30, do I realize how emotionally crippled my childhood has been. I am grateful that I was able to overcome it, and I already have a stable relationship with a wonderful person, although it took me a while to trust enough to build a healthy relationship. Not all people are suitable for parents and not all parents love their children. You have to become a parent when a person is not only sexually but also emotionally mature for the purpose. I know for myself that I would not have a child if there was even the slightest chance of causing him what was done to me.
1 lieselpritzker answered
You can go to some homeland grandparents, aunt something ..