I was the same bastard, it's true. I'm not proud, on the contrary, I sincerely regret my thinking and actions. It was a successful period because I drove it very straightforwardly, but I lacked almost any emotion and this is never a plus. In reality, I found it difficult to find fault with myself because I acted entirely according to my own norms and morals. Yes, but my understandings are not universal and unique, they are not the truth of others. Then I was with a man who was not much different from me. Remember, the ending wasn't beautiful. We were crazy about each other, but no one said he really loved and no one apologized for his mistakes. These two things happened years later and we didn't have a chance, we didn't trust each other anymore. The unpleasant incident taught me that I'm sorry it's about big people. I learned a great lesson, my heart was broken because of my and other people's ego at the same time. I was in the role of culprit and victim, I did not reconcile with either. Now I'm doing something else. I think during an argument, I don't say harsh words at all if I'm not convinced that I will live in peace in case these are my last words to the person. Besides, I think after the argument. I listen to someone else's point of view and try to understand it. Everyone is right about themselves, sometimes it happens that someone else's right is greater than my own. Then, as I sit, it occurs to me that I am guilty and I begin to regret it. Man is worth more than my ego, man is worth more than my rights, man is worth more than anything. And my life took a new course. I sincerely apologize when this is right. Interestingly, I myself get more excuses. Sometimes I remain silent while they shout at me and I only say that I am sorry that I was the cause of such anger. And the man in front of me squats, because he realizes that he was bad with the shouts and could have said it much more clearly. It is much easier for me to communicate now, because I was the other extreme and I understand it perfectly. Think about my story and my words, I'm not sharing them with you by accident, I'm doing it for a purpose. Believe me, you do not want to lose loved ones for such reasons. Be strong, if you are guilty, admit it and apologize.
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I was the same bastard, it's true. I'm not proud, on the contrary, I sincerely regret my thinking and actions. It was a successful period because I drove it very straightforwardly, but I lacked almost any emotion and this is never a plus. In reality, I found it difficult to find fault with myself because I acted entirely according to my own norms and morals. Yes, but my understandings are not universal and unique, they are not the truth of others. Then I was with a man who was not much different from me. Remember, the ending wasn't beautiful. We were crazy about each other, but no one said he really loved and no one apologized for his mistakes. These two things happened years later and we didn't have a chance, we didn't trust each other anymore. The unpleasant incident taught me that I'm sorry it's about big people. I learned a great lesson, my heart was broken because of my and other people's ego at the same time. I was in the role of culprit and victim, I did not reconcile with either. Now I'm doing something else. I think during an argument, I don't say harsh words at all if I'm not convinced that I will live in peace in case these are my last words to the person. Besides, I think after the argument. I listen to someone else's point of view and try to understand it. Everyone is right about themselves, sometimes it happens that someone else's right is greater than my own. Then, as I sit, it occurs to me that I am guilty and I begin to regret it. Man is worth more than my ego, man is worth more than my rights, man is worth more than anything. And my life took a new course. I sincerely apologize when this is right. Interestingly, I myself get more excuses. Sometimes I remain silent while they shout at me and I only say that I am sorry that I was the cause of such anger. And the man in front of me squats, because he realizes that he was bad with the shouts and could have said it much more clearly. It is much easier for me to communicate now, because I was the other extreme and I understand it perfectly. Think about my story and my words, I'm not sharing them with you by accident, I'm doing it for a purpose. Believe me, you do not want to lose loved ones for such reasons. Be strong, if you are guilty, admit it and apologize.