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June 25, 2020
2 angeline699 answered
It's nice that you follow your goals and see what's just fashion, wasting time and imitating others, and what will bring you success long-term. You're just not right about not them- them and the world won't be so crooked. Otherwise, keep following your goals and not do anything stupid. With knowledge alone, you won't be successful - you need some social "skiles."
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June 25, 2020
3 bigbicho7 answered
I'm studying at a metropolitan university, but I've never met any such individuals. There's a hundred per cent, but they don't go to lectures regularly, so I rarely detect them.
As for the rest, can't you filter the people you're communicating with? Why doesn't anyone make fun of me? I'm not "popular" (you could say I'm not a normal xD, at least I'm an introvert and I avoid parties, discos, etc.
By the way, when I open youtube, I don't get out of the way or on the front page - you either always open trending (I can't understand why), or you're lying.
P.P. When someone tells me they're studying eight hours a day, it suggests that nerds are quite different from learning with understanding.
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June 26, 2020
4 sexymf2017 answered
Look, I don't think you can get out of this state without compromising yourself and other people.
Understand that there are no ideal people, and if you put everyone under a common denominator, you will really sit alone in front of your laptop and you will not have any friends.
The other is that life is not just learning, yes - it's important, but it's not everything.
Try instead of "feeding" everyone that they've degraded, getting to know them, finding some things in common with them. A lot of people just need to "drop" the pressure, and the things you described above are options for that to happen. In fact, many of them are perfectly normal people. It is normal for a young person to have fun, it is just that everyone decides how to do it.
I agree that a lot of people overdo it, but I definitely wouldn't say they're all like that.
Try to go out more, put yourself in awkward situations (it helps a lot to get out of the "shell") and you will see for yourself that things will start to work out.
At the end of the day, you can't have friends, let alone a relationship when you're not willing to compromise.
The important thing is to properly select the people around you and act bolder, with sitting in front of the laptop you will achieve nothing.
Good luck :)
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June 26, 2020
5 bestmuscleforpvt answered
I had the same problem as you, and I guarantee you you'il never fit in with that attitude. The problem is that we incarcerated people don't need friends, even if you find clogged nerds, they don't want to go out, they don't want friends, they don't want to waste precious time. Whether the fact that we realize what's wrong does us more than the others - it's not exactly. Find the balance in life. Read, but diversify for at least one day.
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June 27, 2020
6 cabiria_ answered
You talk like a granny, relax your soul a little. You wouldn't do your job, but while you're doing this, look at yourself, not in someone else's panic. And it's harmful to yourself.
Alpha, g. 29
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June 27, 2020
7 jimwants2cumforu answered
We're not all like that, don't put us under a common denominator! Maybe the majority of them are, but you're just learning how you expect to be normal people? And that some people like the chalga or etc. don't necessarily make them bad people, maybe try to talk to them by putting your judgmental prejudices aside.
I don't smoke, I don't drink, I don't go to discos, I don't listen to the chalga. However, I do not think that the people who do these things are "bad" and "failed."
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June 28, 2020
8 wowyoulooksosexy answered
Because you are an unhappy and lost generation, growing up without values, devoid of inquisitiveness, a common culture and in general morality and culture, because you are the product of the perverted Bulgarian pseudo-society and the terrible Bulgarian reality that occurred after 1989. Because this is the reality of the disintegration, agony and dying of our country and nation! That's why you're also like that - degenerates and freaks, dumb and aggressive, like each other, against each other and against yourself, destroying yourself with alcohol and drugs, people in whom there is nothing natural and human! And your aesthetic notions - chalga, silicone, besed cotsrambi with feasts and tattoos and males - metrosexual pendants are downright awful. When I see you what you are, I'm convinced that Bulgaria is dead! Even socialism, with all its flaws, and ideological idiots, created much better people than you! That's why I'm happy that my childhood was right then! So "young people" just go to hell, you better not have been born!
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June 28, 2020
9 hutie1234 answered
I'm still in high school. The others tell me not to pay attention to them, but how on earth is it possible, like whatever I open, wherever I look at just the chalk, the drugs, who "fixed" and who he copied. I doubt it's going to work out any more.
G16
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June 28, 2020
10 vikki4328 answered
Then go to Iceland? You chose to study yourself and be locked up all day in the textbooks, why are you complaining? I guess you can't find the balance between learning and social life.
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June 29, 2020
11 alice_portman_1 answered
Listen, my friend! On You Tube there are other genres of music– play your old city songs, there's Trans, Metal! It's all there, as long as you know what to look for! Too bad about your colleagues! They don't study, mom and dad pay the tuition, they envy you, so you're isolated! And if the girl invites you to sleep with her, take advantage! You insulted her so much! If I'm on you, I'il do what I have to do-- do you get, beat you- run! Your colleagues are already deaf! If they're going to be zombies every day, they're going to be zombies! Copying, you say! What if they tell one guy to at least let go of the locomotive and drive it on a trial, can he do it? I don't believe it! They'il say, "Buddy, you're leaving! If you don't know how to ride a locomotive, you don't have a job on the railways! We're not going to risk train security for cheating on university instead of studying! Sorry! I'm giving you this as an example! That's what they do to everyone when they first go to work! Once they see that he does not know the elementary rules of safety and exploitation it is clear that he did not study! And no one's looking! At least you get that! That's why you teach and look at yourself! And your colleagues tomorrow will collect the garbage and sweep the streets! You know from now on!
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June 29, 2020
12 melani1_ answered
Once, my grandmother buried me in the ground on exactly the same subject. She told me she was very happy that I wasn't like the table, but she was sad for the woman. At the age of 18, I can't dance, not sing, hang out rarely, not have a lot of contact, have trust issues... was right. I had nothing to say.
Don't look at the mass of people so much, you're full of hate, and that's never constructive. You're going to meet people everywhere, you have to learn to understand them a little bit and stop judging them. With these same colleagues, you will graduate as one class and develop on one level for a long time. You can have a higher salary after a while, you can be in a good position, but what if you've never taken pointless trips, if you've never woken up with a hangover, if you've never kissed a stranger, if you've never sung fakely in a room full of people? Besides, no one will appreciate you, if you can't communicate with your collective, that's important for every job. Sometimes there are wonderful specialists, but they do not do well in a working environment because they are too negative, straight and do not get along with their colleagues. I agree that nowadays there are light women, addicts, failed youths, but there are also value units between them. Find them. Your main occupation is to study, you came to the capital for this reason, and it is right not to forget it, but learning does not prevent you from having a coffee in the afternoon with friends, meeting some beautiful girl and the weekend out of the blue to decide to go to Vratsa because you were not there. Your subject is extremely negative, and I can't close my eyes. I agree, you're right about a lot of things, but concentrate on yourself and try to live life to the fullest. Nobody talks to you about chalgoteki, drugs and prostitutes.
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June 30, 2020
13 ginotattooer answered
Young man, study and ignore the degradations around you at all. Study, graduate and get a good job. Where will your colleagues be in 10 years? Where are you going to be? Don't pay any attention to Sofia's debauchery. Unfortunately, these are the consequences of a glorified democracy. It's going to get worse.
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June 30, 2020
14 angel_dush answered
Why didn't you play me the comment? !!!! I'm going to sue you!!! Do you know who I am... I'm the father of rock and the mother of the wind!!!
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June 30, 2020
15 chloe_chloe answered
I love it when someone from the old quality generation spits on us young people what a piece of we were. I'm calling a comment number 14. Well, we young are the product of this old and "quality" generation, which if it were really so quality, it would not give such degenegory individuals (that is, us).
Things go from family and qualities like morality, upbringing, politeness, honesty are given not where it is, but right there. But this old and "quality" generation was too busy to give them to us, and we raised ourselves from television and the Internet and the nudity and posh that advertises them every day. Finally, we are to blame for this condition and for the lack of attention on the part of the parents. And whose job is it to be well-behaved? Piner's? Mtv? On the shows? Aziz or Justin Bieber? Or the old "quality" generation? I think it's the last one.
Put another way - the pear does not fall far from the tree.
I regularly encounter the stupidity of young and old. The truth is that aggression and stupidity have gripped a huge part of Bulgarians and older people do not give in at all in this regard. So, dear "quality" adults, before you go to insult us young people how much we are worth, think about how you did your job with our upbringing, because again - it is your duty, not on tv or the Internet!
Black Sabbath
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June 30, 2020
16 samairajones22 answered
What university are we talking about?
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June 30, 2020
17 laysanrazi answered
Oh.. while struggling to make yourself an unseen moralist, as every gagnostic likes to fight in the chest during the witty lecture of morals and values, there were more complexes for women and entertainers than Einstein's wit and the values of gaño. You're still barking in the clouds.
g21 non-listening and non-drogue.
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July 01, 2020
18 danahot4u answered
I'm very funny about these themes. Until last year, I was a student - the same as you - imprisoned, i didn't go out on discos, I studied a lot, but not as much as you say you're studying. No one's ever made fun of me. I had a great environment - all the girls who were studying, didn't go out on discos and we matched perfectly. Everyone chooses their surroundings, and no one obliges you to be in the midst of one.
I've never been annoyed with people who can have fun. My colleagues used to go out a lot, and that didn't stop them from being great students. Don't be so black-eyed and pick your friends.
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July 01, 2020
19 sweetyandways answered
You're final. Youtube has everything. What matters is what you see and what you want to see. I didn't like your story, you came home. not all women are rubbish. So decide who we invite.
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July 01, 2020
20 lusioming answered
It's good to learn. I also study (medicine at Sofia University) and know what learning 8 is, and in a session it took up to 14 hours. It is inevitable that your eyes will not hurt, so I found a way not to get so much sleep and not get severe pains in the head - eat more fruit, water, clean coffee and sports.
I despise discos, even the whole Student City (I guess you're there). Everywhere is full of weed, especially in the dorms can be bought whenever you want. I know it, but I just don't care - I don't care who's on drugs, who sleeps with the whole block, who's what. I'm the only one who's going to feel good and be able to study.
You're a man, and I guess you don't want to drive it all your life, so take advantage of these girls - you're not going to swear on them, you're not going to build a family. Once and run, if you're smart, if someone can't get you smart, but nothing will you learn. I was like that at first, that's how you grow as a man, you change.
You look at yourself mostly - make sure you study, make good grades, so you get a little cash reward every month (scholarship) to put back into education. With my scholarship, I usually enroll in some seminars, courses that are very useful. There you meet people like you - they have common interests, having pleasant conversations other than weed, sex, alcohol.
I don't have a lot of friends either- two alone. I'm not looking for any more, these I've been able to keep over the years, that's enough.
Last thing, don't look so black-eyed over life - you're young, life is ahead of you. You won't find a virgin, you won't stop using weed. It's up to you to enjoy life, to learn, to make yourself feel good. That's the easiest way to survive.
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July 01, 2020
21 beuttykitty answered
It's a little extreme and exaggerated. Change the middle. Go on a paid course, something you like, and that's where you'il meet motivated young people with your interests. I go to graphic design and drawing -we listen to jazz, we talk about history of different currents in art and architecture, etc. The course is only with young, sympathetic, thoughtful and well-mannered people. Just find something that inspires you and unloads and join a group with a kind of one. There are group walks in the mountains and outings, management courses, languages, whatever you want. If you want a chess club, there are no junkies there.
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July 01, 2020
22 friendly___guy answered
Thank you for saying we're all "rotten drug addicts and prostitutes." At least I didn't know I was like that, probably a lot of people here.
Otherwise, there'il be other nerds like you. You can't be just you from the whole university. The point is, they don't come out much either, and they're hard to find. Look for them, and you won't feel that way, because you'il have a kind.
The other option is to accept the people around you as they are and fit in with them. It's not meant to be a "junkie," but if you accept it, they'il probably accept you too.
Black Sabbath
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July 02, 2020
23 freuds_libido answered
23 - Look, if your parents have left you alone, then you have my condolences, but don't think we're all like you!
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July 02, 2020
24 cowboycamoffish answered
The goal of fellow communists came true, to create a generation of BROILERS, poured in a mold, like in North Korea, but to drink, smoke weed, snort coke,, no matter with men or women!
It is more important not to THINK and not to think about what is good and what is bad, because they so want it, so they can and so have wiped out for 2 generations!!!
Look at the pumpkin, kiss the hand of dominion and patriarchs, but it doesn't introduce 27 years. faith in schools because he is a simple communist who thinks nothing about anything but gypsies/voters and how to fill his pocket!
Bulgaria has no future, it perishes before our eyes, but who cares about it!?
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July 02, 2020
25 paisleyqueen answered
I haven't read all the comments. but it's nice to have a balance. Learning is great, it's important to be concerned about the future. But social contacts are also a good thing, and you shouldn't underestimate them. You're young, get out. It may not be more coffee with your colleagues, but if there's a way to meet people in your field who've already realized, it's going to be great.
And don't judge your colleagues/people. Alcohol/drugs are a way to escape from everyday life. You don't know what kind of families they're from, if they don't have problems, and so on. Sometimes we draw conclusions, but even if we're not aware of what's going on. It may be easy for you, but it's not for them.
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July 02, 2020
26 misusami answered
Everything written is somewhat true. Why, to some extent, well, because you're just at the center of stupidity. I'm a college student at a metropolitan university, and I have a lot of learning, but there's no such thing as cheating. It's very hard to get my grades out, and all my colleagues are studying, if not 2.
And I am not a fan of chalga culture, but it is as if rooted in our Balkan thinking, which turns it into a mass. On the other hand, if we look at a country like Britain, boasting its fine upper class, we will notice that they also see a similarly failed anti-culture. An example of this could be their Big Brother, Geordie Shore or just what they do in Sunny Beach.
Now to the girls theme, you just like those girls that every boy likes. With the provocative in themselves, the great self-esteem coming from the large number of guys who have gone through them. These girls feel very desirable, which is also the main reason to keep having fun in this way. They're not many, but they're for everyone. Haha, the choice is in your hands.
There's no point in wanting to change the people around you, that they've chosen to be mediocre is their choice, respect it and keep evolving. Someday, they'il be your subordinates.
Again, not all of them are what you describe to many other young Bulgarians with your vision. I support the position that it is important to be responsible for what you study afterwards, because otherwise you will not be useful to yourself or to society.
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July 03, 2020
27 tayla02 answered
I'm Number 35 (maybe that's how it goes... the responsibility to the learning and the profession to be useful to society and to you :D) and I have perceived in the comments rebukes to democracy from Number 21.
I mean, as a result of the idealistic idea of a communist regime and its real application, a large pit is formed, in which many people who are capable and valuable fall, at the expense of the lazy who look at them from the edge and laugh at them. In other words, capable people are also depressed incapable of development because of the equivalency.
Such statements as, a glorified democracy, which is hardly to blame for the decline of people culturally cannot exist. It's just that the democratic world gives you freedom, to be the one to choose, what is worth it to you. These are the risks of such a society, to choose the wrong choice and to drop out of free struggle.
I don't want to be misunderstood, the communist idea in itself is too good to execute. SHE sees people not as real people, but as ideal subjects, where everyone is doing great and giving of themselves 100%. Such an idea collapses right at the moment when people stop believing in it and see what it really does.
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July 03, 2020
28 scarlettefrench answered
31, it's the opposite. I grew up in a good family. If they had left me at random, I would hardly have written these lines, because such people rarely understand their drinking. My condolences for not grasping simple things. :)
Black Sabbath
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July 03, 2020
29 rosethorn666 answered
13, almost all of you are like that and it's not from now on! When I was going to university, I expected to see intelligent people coming to study, and I found a bunch of drunks and not to say what yet. Nothing's changed since my time. When did you say anything to those across the street about their bad habits or vices? Silence is a sign of consent, man! It's like drinking, smoking, getting high and having indiscriminate sex - while you're just nodding your head in the company of those who do it, you're the same!
Better alone than bad company. It's something that will always apply. The coolest band is the one you're in! Until you realize it and pray to some losers to accept you, you'il all be losers. And that's part of the reception in the group - not just the good stuff! In your army, with losers, drunks, drug addicts, sex maniacs, etc., you're a loser.
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July 03, 2020
30 _cindy_rella_ answered
You're a jerk! "You're all rotten drug addicts and prostitutes. I've been told to go abroad, but that's what only people who haven't left Bulgaria say. ", "Avala! What progress, what a miracle! I'm on my knees in front of your great civilization! "you all under one denominator put them, the way you talk puts a huge ego on display and you think you're above everyone, and you're just a pushed-up scumbag. I know people who are bohat mara and a third high school graduate and have friends and friends and dogs and cats... that through the prism of your point of view there is some line "everything I do is constructive and everything you do is degrading" does not mean that you are above things, on the contrary - no one wants to click with you because you are a jerk. Even if he did the things that others do, you'd still be isolated because people feel selfish. And the fact that no one wants to click with you proves that only in your own eyes more than others, which doesn't really matter in practice. Wherever you go, you'il be the same bot, and you think you're above it. You're an idiot!
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July 03, 2020
31 ana_belle123 answered
Why are you attacking the man? Don't you know the vices lead to the grave! And what do you have against us, the introverts? It's just that he decided, and that's it! And some are just fictitious students because of the free alcohol in those copts, but not to study! They only pay for their sisters, and they have dozens of exams, and they never sit down to study! They live to have fun, and why don't they buy the diploma at the end? And their heads will have turned into empty gourds because they have no interest in anything, and they've become scum! But look, street sweepers are good! At least here diplomas do not want and will take them right away! And their parents will drink cold water, that their children have wasted their education money and become sweepers! And you always know a lot!
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July 04, 2020
32 rare_couple13 answered
Number 23, you're forgetting something very important! The younger generation is formed not only in the family, but especially in society! That's the problem, society is degenegory and it creates germs! Children are kind and kind when they are young and in the family, because then, family is a major factor, but when they go to school, everything goes to school, because that's where the street becomes, the assholes in the class who impose fashion, is those more scholarly and modest become the subject of ridicule, fashion gives it precisely the jerks. And from there on, everything else follows, such as drugs, cigarettes, alcohol abuse, extreme selfishness, total blunting, violence, beatings, crime! In girls- prostitution in various forms, incl. and in looking only commercial in a relationship. Look at the co-ord. "playmakers" - an eloquent summary image. That is why the author of the question is disappointed in his surroundings because he is from the "white crows" and is not like the other bunch, a product of our modern day!
number 14.
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July 04, 2020
33 wifepleaserr answered
43, I don't totally agree with you. The family is the smallest unit, but our society is built on it. Rather, the generation formed society, not so much society, if the two are interconnected and influence each other.
If in a "normal" family children were raised with the necessary attention, tenderness and love, the children themselves would not be so aggressive. I don't have children and I haven't been in a relationship, but what I see in most young families is their attitude towards their own children, which is shocking. Most young parents not only do not pay enough attention to their children, which provokes them to seek it outside the confines of the family, but also treat them aggressively, which makes the children themselves aggressive.
Yes, maybe sometimes it's really frustrating to watch kids, but insulting your kids with epithouts on the street or yelling at them in the faces for some trifle for me is not normal. And adding that perhaps the relationship between parents is aggressive, and this is felt by the children themselves, at some point the psyche of children growing up in such an environment degenerates. It becomes normal for them to shout and insult, even if it reaches.
I look at many young families that fathers are still somewhere, because there is an ugly perception that men are not needed in the family, or that their role is limited only to bringing money, and from there the authority in the family is lost. A large number of young mothers, as I said, do not give the necessary love and tenderness, and begins to lose empathy and sensuality. And this thing began to become mass and normal, therefore many young men became slobs and very young women - light.
With healthy family resisters, no matter how degenebrity society is, this depravity would hardly penetrate the family. But it can definitely affect you, as you say. And this is exactly the kind of example the author is. I understand it because I've been in a similar position and I know how frustrating it is. But! Not all smoking and drinking people are bad. Smoking and drinking doesn't necessarily make you a bad person, and there are other "white crows" around him. There's not that many, the point is, he didn't come across them.
Black Sabbath
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July 04, 2020
34 jessyblondy answered
That's the way it is after the universals. 70% of her colleagues go to work, and her job is actually to send themselves stickers and backs all day. In the end, one or two idiots like me and another colleague fix their shit and do the job. That's how he grows up. At university, I don't know if they're going to notice you, but the employer never misses a proper, responsible and hard-working employee. When you're diligent, as you say, you're going to progress. Don't give in to temptation.
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July 04, 2020
35 cristianxderedx answered
I have no doubt about the sincerity of the author, but from the written shine some kind of verter pose, some exaggeration and universe sadness... You just don't find yourself in your natural environment, and you have limited communication skills. In this situation, instead of judging others and civilization, learn to live in loneliness - it is not so complicated, and there are many advantages. I do not want to give you advice to enroll in interest clubs, etc. as it is too obvious. Certainly, people engaged in a certain artistic, excursion, social, etc. activity are not as you describe them. You just closed yourself, and the crusts for this world. It's a pity so many people had to put time into something that in itself wasn't mature.
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July 05, 2020
1 change340 answered