It's very, very one-sided you look at things. Yes, there are women who choose the easier path, although being a prostitute is hardly the easiest way to make your money, but there are many more women who would rather starve to death, work until complete exhaustion, but would not sell their body.
I'm sorry, but I think 9:00 in the 21:00. to make a sacrifice, because, oh, horror, you've had to study and work in parallel is just ridiculous! I don't know what kind of women are around you, but I don't know a woman who doesn't work and waits for her husband to support her. And at the same time, it is still assumed that the household is a "woman's job". So your wife can work full-time, then run the whole house, and then you're unhappy and feel screwed? Pull yourself together, man! It's not easy for anyone, no matter if you're a man, you're a woman, and you're a woman, and you're not going anywhere!
As for domestic violence, there are also insanely evil women who really ruin their husband's nerves on a daily basis, but the mass case is the opposite. 80% of victims of domestic violence are women. Otherwise, if you feel like your wife is harassing you, well, there's no shame in seeking help.
So in the 21st century, you have all kinds of options. If you find a rich woman ready to support you, you can become a trophy man. It's okay. As long as you don't get your ego crushed, you have to ask your wife to give you 10 leva to go see you for a beer with friends.
So the coin has two sides. Yes, there are women who are lazy, who expect their husband to support them and pay for everything, but it has a price. They're voiceless letters! Yes, they have money ready, but yes, whatever their husband says, that's what happens! Not to mention that there's always a risk that one day their husband will dump them for a younger one, and then you don't want to be in their place. So their lives seem easy on the side... but do you agree to sacrifice your ego and just be your wife's gadget? Because in their case, that's exactly what it is. Yes, they're make-up, they get up late, spend time in shiny restaurants and beauty salons, but when a man says something to them, because if they refuse to follow sanctions, I don't say a fight. Otherwise, on the side it looks very easy, do not get sailor like other people, do not work 10-12 hours a day, however, and this life is not so pink. And like I said, it's up to the time, at 40, or they're literally out of nowhere, or if they've been cunning enough to get their lover to marry them, they're wives that no one respects and regularly has to turn a blind eye to their husband's flings with young girls. So don't think it's for everyone.
And things aren't just black and just white.
And making statements like "men are hard, it's easy for women", means you're not at all familiar with the real situation. Yes, you must know women whose life on the side seems easy, but like I told you, it's deceptive. However, especially in Bulgaria to claim that it is easy for women, but it is quite funny. What's easy? The 12-hour workday for some money? Babysitting and household without help, because you understand "it's a woman's job"? Is that easy?
Are you referring to your story? Because there aren't any around me. Are you picking them on the pink sites? It is not only those who study heavy specialties - medicine and pharmacy, IT (and it 1st, 2nd course) and who are from wealthy families and their parents insist on supporting them. The rest work and study. Some only work and it is normal work - they are usually in a shop or office. You sound a little weird, like you don't want to be a man, but a woman, because you weigh in on male behavior. Think deeply about why you're jealous of the other sex. 'Cause I don't envy them, I don't want to give birth, nor do I want to get into a fight, nor do I want to prostitute or be served in the office and tried on me. Not to mention that my boss will give more as money and trust me more because I'm a man. And the co-workers don't like that, and they work the same thing and don't make fouls. I'm sick of thinking about it. I really didn't understand what you were jealous of. Are you sure you're accepted as a man and you're not angry that you weren't born a woman because female behavior attracts you? And when you're a man, you can't, you have to be the strong man and the tough guy.
I'm a woman.
In my opinion, women who engage in violence must necessarily be severely sanctioned by the Act, especially when they have exhibited some form of violence towards a child(s).
You can see, for example, in the theme of "the child drove me crazy" http://spodeli.net/6/story-136885.html
how some people even sympathize with her and try to say supportive things to her instead of reprimanding her.
The funny thing is that abusers like this wouldn't normally dare to show character in the community - there are quiet and crisp, often with their heads bowed.
In Bulgaria, we live in a confused society, in which it is fashionable from time to have tolerance and tolerance for complexes and abusers, regardless of their gender. That's why we're going to continue to be a mega-complex and mediocre nation that spews servants for the Western world.
For prostitutes, my view is that these are women who have severe emotional and personality problems, also very low opinion of themselves as a person. Therefore, they need prolonged psychotherapy. Unlike other people, I don't annoy them, and I feel sorry for them, but sincerely.
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