I support 34 for the 80% to 20% ratio. I even think things are even worse. The topic is really very complex. Both women and men are divided into attractive and not so. The good thing about women is that, with the exception of the really terribly unattractive ones (ugly, fat, unhygienic), most of them enjoy a relatively large amount of male attention. Over 80% of women are in the "fit" category for most men. The dark side of this is that for most women this attraction is present for a carefully limited period of time - from 15 to 35-40 years of age. Whatever we talk about, both society and the woman's biology itself presuppose that she is initially the more passive side in intimate relationships. In Anglo-Saxon societies, under the influence of feminism, something completely different is preached, but in my opinion things will not go on like this for a long time, because they do not correspond to the natural order of things. For men - I firmly believe that no more than 5% of men are found "attractive" at first glance to most women. Women want to receive and enjoy the attention of such "alpha" men, not the other 95% of men. It turns out that a huge number of women are fighting for a very limited number of men. The rest of the men are initially characterized as "annoying", "tensioners", etc ... usually by the more beautiful women, saturated with unwanted male attention. These men need to put in a tremendous amount of effort to be "noticed" and appreciated by women. Some stumble into accumulating material gains to "compensate" and do something, which they are not, but quite a few despair and give up the fight. Nowadays, social networks and dating sites only exacerbate the problem. Many men do not have the courage to talk to a woman live and prefer to hide behind the anonymity of the chat, to write to 100 women "zdr ko pr", which "binds". Since the education, upbringing and social intelligence of many modern men are also lacking, they really don't remember and don't know how to approach a woman except with "how are you baby, what are you looking for?" in a chat. When, with this approach, they are naturally cut off 100 times, they despair and start writing angry posts about how capricious and mercantile women are. I was watching The Joker the other day. This film best describes the drama of unwanted and rejected men. In the West, secret societies have even begun to organize in the so-called "island", spreading hatred of women. In conclusion - Do not worry women! As long as you are beautiful, you will never stop being the object of desired and unwanted male attention .... that is the nature of things. You may disagree with me, but it's a kind of compliment to your beauty. After a certain age, with the inevitable reduction of this attention, you will begin to appreciate it more and more. And for annoying men, the bottom line is: Dudes, just learn how to do these things. There is tons of literature on female psychology and how to become attractive men. Read, observe what works and what doesn't ... and most importantly - act. Stand out with the right approach and skills, not simplicity! In conclusion - Do not worry women! As long as you are beautiful, you will never stop being the object of desired and unwanted male attention .... that is the nature of things. You may not agree with me, but this is a kind of compliment to your beauty. After a certain age, with the inevitable reduction of this attention, you will begin to appreciate it more and more. And for annoying men, the bottom line is: Dudes, just learn how to do these things. There is tons of literature on female psychology and how to become attractive men. Read, observe what works and what doesn't ... and most importantly - act. Stand out with the right approach and skills, not simplicity! In conclusion - Do not worry women! As long as you are beautiful, you will never stop being the object of desired and unwanted male attention .... that is the nature of things. You may not agree with me, but this is a kind of compliment to your beauty. After a certain age, with the inevitable reduction of this attention, you will begin to appreciate it more and more. And for annoying men, the bottom line is: Dudes, just learn how to do these things. There is tons of literature on female psychology and how to become attractive men. Read, observe what works and what doesn't ... and most importantly - act. Stand out with the right approach and skills, not simplicity! but it's kind of a compliment to your beauty. After a certain age, with the inevitable reduction of this attention, you will begin to appreciate it more and more. And for annoying men, the bottom line is: Dudes, just learn how to do these things. There is tons of literature on female psychology and how to become attractive men. Read, observe what works and what doesn't ... and most importantly - act. Stand out with the right approach and skills, not simplicity! but it's kind of a compliment to your beauty. After a certain age, with the inevitable reduction of this attention, you will begin to appreciate it more and more. And for annoying men, the bottom line is: Dudes, just learn how to do these things. There is tons of literature on female psychology and how to become attractive men. Read, observe what works and what doesn't ... and most importantly - act. Stand out with the right approach and skills, not simplicity!
1 miss__anne answered
I am a man, but I agree. And yes, I know that now many men will jump on how pretentious you are and how you have to pay attention to everyone. I myself have a profile on a gaming site and there I put a profile picture of my ideal woman for a profile photo. And there is no gender option to choose what gender you are and they have decided that I am the woman in the photo. So I can't play a game in peace, and it's not even a dating site. Starting with "zdr ko pr", "tarsi6 li seriozna vrazka", "platena li si" and some such, I get bored. And when I don't answer, some swearing, some accusations of how rude I am, etc. start. It's like it's super crazy on a gaming site to want to play games instead of looking for a tramp. So I can put myself in the place of beautiful women. It's not a job probably on the streets and bus stops non-stop they are bothered by villagers. And it is probably not pleasant at all to talk to 5 peasants every day and to explain yourself to them, given that you are not next to them and you have a job. I attribute it in part to the fact that we have been instilled since we were little, that we almost have to fight for the woman, that we have to show her that we do not give up on her, as if persistence was presented as something masculine and proof of how much we hold on to the woman, and she has to pull off a kind of decency, not because we are not wanted. And apparently a lot of men think that when they are assertive and the woman will gasp "wow, he doesn't give up and fights for me, what a man, obviously he likes me a lot, let me take him." And it is probably not pleasant at all to talk to 5 peasants every day and to explain yourself to them, given that you are not next to them and you have a job. I attribute it in part to the fact that we have been instilled since we were little, that we almost have to fight for the woman, that we have to show her that we do not give up on her, as if persistence was presented as something masculine and proof of how much we hold on to the woman, and she has to pull off a kind of decency, not because we are not wanted. And apparently a lot of men think that when they are assertive and the woman will gasp "wow, he doesn't give up and fights for me, what a man, obviously he likes me a lot, let me take him." And it is probably not pleasant at all to talk to 5 peasants every day and to explain yourself to them, given that you are not next to them and you have a job. I attribute it in part to the fact that we have been instilled since we were little, that we almost have to fight for the woman, that we have to show her that we do not give up on her, as if persistence was presented as something masculine and proof of how much we hold on to the woman, and she has to pull off a kind of decency, not because we are not wanted. And apparently a lot of men think that when they are assertive and the woman will gasp "wow, he doesn't give up and fights for me, what a man, obviously he likes me a lot, let me take him." that we do not give up on her, ostensibly assertiveness was presented as something masculine and proof of how much we hold on to the woman, and she is a kind of decency must be pulled, not because we are not wanted. And apparently a lot of men think that when they are assertive and the woman will gasp "wow, he doesn't give up and fights for me, what a man, obviously he likes me a lot, let me take him." that we do not give up on her, ostensibly assertiveness was presented as something masculine and proof of how much we hold on to the woman, and she is a kind of decency must be pulled, not because we are not wanted. And apparently a lot of men think that when they are assertive and the woman will gasp "wow, he doesn't give up and fights for me, what a man, obviously he likes me a lot, let me take him."