Why Are Girls Like That?

   Right next to the Russian church you will see mutres and little "lolitas" who do not know what they want. By the way (according to them) who know that men are in love when they drink them in the thrifty restaurants (as they are in the area) and tell them how beautiful they are;) Head to other areas, find a company of people with a similar lifestyle and culture and don't throw yourself at men. Success !

   Become muscular and you will see for yourself how deeply you are wrong. You think a bunch of women will jump on your neck. I think you see what you want to see and it corresponds to your beliefs. I am big, athletic and I can tell you that this is not the answer. Yes, it helps, you gain more respect and esteem from people, but not everything is as rosy as you imagine. My observations are that many women date rather unassuming and unsupported men. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, it's just that, unlike you, I see many such cases. Don't underestimate the men who play sports. This is a sure sign of will, perseverance and character. Do you know how much it costs every day (or every other day) to spend 1-2 hours just for that? After a hard day's work, try to find time to put in the workout along with everything else. You are probably younger, you probably have time, but when you become a responsible person, carrying the whole burden of life, you will see how difficult it is to juggle so many balls and find the time, strength and desire to train. That is why so few men over 25 (and especially over 30) are athletic and well built. In addition, building some decent physics takes years. Here again we rely on will, perseverance and character.

   And why do you, after being ugly, look and want beautiful women? Because you are if you can! A beautiful woman with a handsome man, this is the situation !!! Watch your level!

   So women, if we want a nice, muscular and showy man, then we have no self-esteem? We have to be content with people like you to show how much we respect each other. Instead of muttering why women like good men, take matters into your own hands and do something with yourself - make money, improve your appearance. Because with your current attitude to life, you belong to a group of people for whom the Americans have come up with a very nice word - incel.

   "this is not love .. this is selfishness on the principle" I love you while you love me "until you separate and quickly fall in love with someone else .." Absolutely ugly! It has happened to me several times that my halves have dumped me just because at one point I did not feel well, I had problems or difficulties and they were not in the center of my attention. That is, things are not about gender, but about people. Many people in general nowadays look at physics, that someone pays attention to them, makes fun of them and satisfies them. That's it. Very few people really pay attention to the other person as a person, and not as a supplier of various extras. The moment you are no longer profitable, you get bored and they throw you away.

   Because they are absorbed by themselves, by their image, by how they are perceived by others, by vanity, by greed to have more, by the best, to be above others, to feel special, ankle, etc. . Because they are daffodils, the daffodil is a person obsessed with himself, with his own image and beauty.

   Author, you are right, but there is no way to change things. Big and fat women like tall and big men. Weak women like tall and big men. Short women like tall and big men. Tall women like tall and big men. No woman likes shorter and thin men, but some of these women (mostly ugly and fat) still get along with such men because they know they can't attract the attention of the tall and big men they secretly they dream. In this way, 20% of men get the interest of 90% of women, and the remaining 80% of men, after years of drought, can come to terms with a fat and ugly woman who is far below their level.

   In clothes they welcome, in mind they send. I don't understand why you're obsessed with looking at people, they are the way they are and you can't change them. What do you care who goes with whom and whom he loves. You look like an old gossip girl to me, she'll sit and watch the girls and you see they love sex with nice men. Remember from me that both sexes love sex, it is perfectly normal, as it is normal to do it with a person who attracts us. For women who go with the rich, I still do not understand what exactly affects you, let them go, this is for them, and you look after your own life. Do what you love and sleep with whom you want, but do not judge others, they have their own opinion on the matter and everyone has a different value system, ie. if you are not excited about money, for others it is a top priority, if you do not like to have sex, then there are people who love, etc.

   I'm a man, I haven't read the whole thing, but as far as I understand, you accuse women of liking handsome men. Wow what a crime! Apparently I'm a big criminal too, because - oh, miracle - I like beautiful women too. Look, dude, I know you're hurt, you don't succeed among women, but it's stupid to blame them for their preferences. Of course, everyone wants a beautiful woman, a handsome man, a beautiful car, a beautiful house, and so on. and there is nothing wrong with that. Yes, I agree that some go to extremes and neglect other good qualities in the name of beauty, but this is still their choice. My advice is to find a woman who appreciates your qualities, whatever they are, and not those that I see only in beauty. But women who do not look at beauty are usually ugly themselves and therefore reconcile with a less handsome man. But I suspect you want something nice too, otherwise you would have found a wife a long time ago. There are many unattractive women who would appreciate the mind, but you are unlikely to like them especially physically.

   An ugly man will look for an ugly woman !!! Safe from both ugly and simple and evil urchins! Annoying, impudent, impudent, complex, beautiful women wanted them ...! That they scream together how sour the grapes are! Because of people like you, I wouldn't look ugly at all, just thinking about how much poison is inside! He will talk about good attitude at 15 and then pour the little piss ... ops poison! Bass the rubbish.

   To number 10 You're wrong! ... You are sorely mistaken Author Don't go so deep as not to get lost. Just look at yourself. People shouldn't interest you. You are very young. Just wait. The weather will change you. I guarantee you! ...

   You're right ... First the eye catches ... But so the disappointment when you see what a person really is is much greater. My boy is far from beautiful, but for me he is the most beautiful. Yes, he has a nice body, but I realized that a few weeks after we got together ... and again - it's not that "athletic". And I can say that a lot of people have told me that I look good, even though I don't think so (they weren't relatives and good friends and no, I'm not saying that out of pride, I'm just giving an example). and you love me "I will tell you that we had been separated for a long time and I just did not find the strength to even look at another. And when we got together again, I realized that if I had done that, it might have been my biggest mistake. The point is, what I love most about him is far from the looks. Of course, you shouldn't be deceived - I like her too, but I prefer someone not so perfect, but to love me, to someone who is with me without knowing why ... I just want to tell you that not everyone is like that. And one more thing - sometimes people see only that side of the world that they want to notice ...

   Hide your complexes! That way you won't find a decent woman! If you don't understand me, then you are too young and you have NOT been on the other side.

   Virgin woman. Yes, women are to blame. Only a woman with self-respect will choose a snotty grumbler like you. Repeat it at night.

   FROM THE AUTHOR - I'm not blaming anyone, I'm bringing you the "unknown" kind of person as he is .... to see what it's all about .. how material he really is and possessed of passions for the flesh ... it's not about self-sustaining like someone affected and nervous ladies mentioned .. well that character is clearly not a factor ..? I read a few comments on how they justify "we are beautiful and we want good" - yes, there is logic ... but I wonder if you can offer something else .. it's so easy .. you are born naturally gifted and you don't sit down to a book to you open - like the legs .. because that has already been given .. and this requires work already .. have your self-esteem girls while you go to bed under healthy boys ... but with one thing in mind ... you sell your bodies .. with nothing different from ... those nights on Lion Bridge .. only where you don't take money for an hour ...

   Good physics is a sign of many things, at least for me personally. First, does it mean self-respect for yourself, for your health, for the state of your spirit - to have heard the sentence "a healthy mind in a healthy body"? The second is a sign of good genes. Of course, every woman wants good genes for her child. This happens on a subconscious level, of course. Sex in itself is much more than a physical act, if you do it with the right person, and in this case the physical gifts of both the man and the woman are not decisive for the experience itself. What nonsense? Regarding the fact that we are all in a hurry somewhere and we do not know where, I tend to agree. I have had similar thoughts.

   You wrote it that way, as if you weren't human. :) They already told you, but let me do it (I'm a man), I hope you realize. The fact that you direct your dissatisfaction only to beautiful girls shows that you are like them - you like people with good looks. This makes your whole tirade meaningless. It is quite normal to like beautiful and nice people. Here you have to realize the difference between visual liking (external attraction) and love, and that love is something much more complex than sex and butterflies in the stomach. Unfortunately, most people do not realize it, so their relationships and "love" are short and problematic. It may sound nasty, but life is like that - a small percentage of people are beautiful, and beauty is transient. You have to reconcile and pay attention to girls with less attractive looks, and the beautiful just to enjoy them on the side, and instead of nurturing hopes made, "feed" the things that are possible. Besides, one cannot love everyone - there are no physical or mental possibilities for that. He can sympathize, he can give some money to a person in need, but love is more than that. Even Jesus loved one of his disciples more than the others. And God even intends to torment sinners to eternal torment, which clearly speaks of hatred for His own creation. But don't deviate, and I, like you, may not be religious. You seem quite confused in your judgments, you need to reasonably and objectively rethink the essence of the things that bother you. Read about this American word that someone mentioned above - incel. Besides, one cannot love everyone - there are no physical or mental possibilities for that. He can sympathize, he can give some money to a person in need, but love is more than that. Even Jesus loved one of his disciples more than the others. And God even intends to torment sinners to eternal torment, which clearly speaks of hatred for His own creation. But don't deviate, and I, like you, may not be religious. You seem quite confused in your judgments, you need to reasonably and objectively rethink the essence of the things that bother you. Read about this American word that someone mentioned above - incel. Besides, one cannot love everyone - there are no physical or mental possibilities for that. He can sympathize, he can give some money to a person in need, but love is more than that. Even Jesus loved one of his disciples more than the others. And God even intends to torment sinners to eternal torment, which clearly speaks of hatred for His own creation. But don't deviate, and I, like you, may not be religious. You seem quite confused in your judgments, you need to reasonably and objectively rethink the essence of the things that bother you. Read about this American word that someone mentioned above - incel. And God even intends to torment sinners to eternal torment, which clearly speaks of hatred for His own creation. But don't deviate, and I, like you, may not be religious. You seem quite confused in your judgments, you need to reasonably and objectively rethink the essence of the things that bother you. Read about this American word that someone mentioned above - incel. And God even intends to subject sinners to eternal torment, which clearly speaks of hatred for his own creation. But don't deviate, and I, like you, may not be religious. You seem quite confused in your judgments, you need to reasonably and objectively rethink the essence of the things that bother you. Read about this American word that someone mentioned above - incel.

   Murmur, murmur, murmur, murmur. Does he cry while writing about your complexes? Si, don't lie. Let's just sum up: "the most charismatic will always pick up the points .. even if he's empty-headed .. so much for women's self-esteem" "sometimes I sit next to the Russian Church on the benches to think and the area is very convenient to explore actually" "sometimes I start to hate people "We realized that if women do not attach themselves to this unfortunate man and have at least some standard, then they have no self-esteem. Also, the Russian Church (I guess it's the one in the capital next to the Military Club) is where we can draw conclusions for all of humanity. Third, the little fellow said it directly - it's just a pathetic misentropic. I have a question for the moderators of the site: why is a topic insulting and cursing women published in such a pathetic way? No, really - why is a virgin complex (a child will obviously die a virgin) allowed to curse people like that? Did anyone read what was written at all, did they look at the tone of his illiterate speech? If a woman doesn't like him, she's obviously not worth it. Women only like idiots, split butts, charismatic morons, but in general this unfortunate is the smartest in the world, the rest of us are in one of the above categories. It's not for watching (he admitted it to himself), he doesn't have a gram of charm (he said it again), there's really no niche to offer as a person and a partner - women are to blame for it, of course. Congratulations to the moderator who approved this. Just rename the site to autismspeaks. no did you look at the tone of his illiterate speech? If a woman doesn't like him, she's obviously not worth it. Women only like idiots, split butts, charismatic morons, but in general this unfortunate is the smartest in the world, the rest of us are in one of the above categories. It's not for watching (he admitted it to himself), he doesn't have a gram of charm (he said it again), there's really no niche to offer as a person and a partner - women are to blame for it, of course. Congratulations to the moderator who approved this. Just rename the site to autismspeaks. no did you look at the tone of his illiterate speech? If a woman doesn't like him, she's obviously not worth it. Women only like idiots, split butts, charismatic morons, but in general this unfortunate is the smartest in the world, the rest of us are in one of the above categories. It's not for watching (he admitted it to himself), he doesn't have a gram of charm (he said it again), there's really no niche to offer as a person and a partner - women are to blame for it, of course. Congratulations to the moderator who approved this. Just rename the site to autismspeaks. no there is really no niche to offer as a person and a partner - women are to blame, of course. Congratulations to the moderator who approved this. Just rename the site to autismspeaks. no there is really no niche to offer as a person and a partner - women are to blame, of course. Congratulations to the moderator who approved this. Just rename the site to autismspeaks. no

   Author, in your other topic we gave you advice on how to meet girls, socialize, break your behavior. You probably haven't tried anything or tried once and it didn't work, and now you're posting angry topics. To change a person, you need perseverance and focus, hanging on the benches in the gardens is not possible. Believe me, the problem is not your appearance. Girls cut you, not because you are not muscular and athletic, but because they feel anger in you, lack of self-confidence, low self-esteem. No girl wants a grumbling boy that everyone else is to blame. Go back to your previous topic and read the advice you were given. Try to understand their meaning. As for your question - girls are not cruel. The reality is cruel, namely that the higher your status (appearance, self-confidence, charm, professional development, material opportunities, interests), the more women will want you. It is the same with us women - the more beautiful a woman is, well-groomed, well-dressed, charming, the more men want her. The question before you is whether to be against this truth and stay nervous at home, angry with women, or to work on yourself in the hope that at some point you will be attractive enough for the women you want. Of course, you can not change, but simply accept things as they are - there will always be men stronger than you with more beautiful than your women. You will also find your soul mate, but first you have to change your attitudes towards people and the world in general. the more men want her. The question before you is whether to be against this truth and stay nervous at home, angry with women, or to work on yourself in the hope that at some point you will be attractive enough for the women you want. Of course, you can not change, but simply accept things as they are - there will always be men stronger than you with more beautiful than your women. You will also find your soul mate, but first you have to change your attitudes towards people and the world in general. the more men want her. The question before you is whether to be against this truth and stay nervous at home, angry with women, or to work on yourself in the hope that at some point you will be attractive enough for the women you want. Of course, you can not change, but simply accept things as they are - there will always be men stronger than you with more beautiful than your women. You will also find your soul mate, but first you have to change your attitudes towards people and the world in general. as they are - there will always be men stronger than you with more beautiful than your women. You will also find your soul mate, but first you have to change your attitudes towards people and the world in general. as they are - there will always be men stronger than you with more beautiful than your women. You will also find your soul mate, but first you have to change your attitudes towards people and the world in general.

   Welcome to the 21st century - the century in which the true nature of gender relations is seen. It's not like one time - they arrange a woman for you, ugly or not, and you live. Now everyone wants the more beautiful, the busiest, it's normal. You will hardly want a fat and ugly woman - I don't even like them. For women, the situation is the same - unmaintained and ugly men are not arousing. The only problem is that someone has irradiated you with the false idea of ​​"true love" and similar nonsense since childhood. There is no such thing, no "true love." In gender relations, everyone loves as long as there is a benefit and as long as he implements his program. You obviously look at women too idealized (probably influenced by your mother's image) and want them to like you unconditionally, but you see that they like more mobile men. Well, what can I say - I am in a similar situation to yours, with the difference that I have resigned myself. In high school I had a classmate - tall, blond and athletic - respectively, he changed boyfriends every week. I - shorter, with glasses ... I had a (something like) boyfriend for two months throughout high school. That is the situation. It is still better than 4-6 thousand years ago, when 1 man inseminated 17 women, respectively 16 of 17 men did not reproduce at all (https: // psmag. Com / environment / 17-to-1-reproductive-success )

   Dude, you're obviously angry that you don't have a beautiful woman next to you. It is true that most women are looking for added value - whether the man is wealthy, whether he has an expensive car, whether he is impressive, strong, ie he looks respectful to others, whether he has valuable relationships, position. This is the added value that many young girls and women want to get against their youth and beauty. That's why it's full of so many beauty salons. The lofty goal is to enchant a man of appropriate value and gain access to goods that will be difficult or impossible for them to obtain in any other way. It is unpleasant, but a young man can hardly have such value except with the help of his parents, if they are wealthy. I don't know if you will be able to do it, but try to be aware of your situation. Lower your expectations. Strive to do something for yourself, but only because you want it. Train if you train. If you don't train, then don't be angry with girls who are trained men. Over time, I realized that it is most difficult for a person to understand what he wants on his own, and not to follow the desires imposed by the world around him. Nothing is as beautiful as it looks from the side.

   Because it is better to be healthy, rich and beautiful than sick, poor and ugly.

   And again the moment has come when I have to recommend MGTOW and Sandman. I hope this time at least they post my comment. Author does not cut, everything will fall into place. Concentrate on yourself and do not seek validation from women. You will find more information on the Sandman channel on YouTube. Because obviously the people who like all this nonsense are becoming a laughing stock, judging by the comment on number 5. The only way to win the game is not to play it. Let things take care of themselves, it won't be like that. Regards, Heisenberg

   You are wrong about this with the muscular and about the vision. which you described. Everyone has different preferences. I am a girl and I prefer weaker boys. It's like saying that you only like khakis with big butts, long hair, etc. Everyone has a different taste. The fact is that beautiful people like their peers, smart people too. There is no way an intellectual can like a complete fool, no matter how beautiful ... and if it does happen, she will realize after a while. To me, all you've written is killing complexes. If you are a complete wreck, it is very clear that they will not like you, but everyone has something ... some earn with appearance, others with intellect, others with behavior ... some unfortunately with money. There's no way no one will like you.

   Number 27, you claim to be a girl and you like weaker boys. And are they your height, are they shorter than you, or do you want them to protrude high above you? Do you prefer boys without cars and without money? Do you value boys for their soul? Or do you prefer the others because of their material gains?

   Hoho, I rule out the exceptions for mercantile women who date ugly men for some benefit, most often financial. However, as it has been said in more than one opinion, it is absolutely normal for a physically cool woman to be with a physically cool man - the opposite will be unfair. Thank God that there is still justice in this matter. The other is that the author proceeds from the presumption of low intelligence in such men. Yes, there are some, but it is clear that although outwardly the chicks are cool, they are often on the same intellectual level. But many of them have their intellectual level, money and many other things. Especially if we're talking about men around 30 and over. It is now clear that many young girls of this age fly in the clouds and catch up with various mutragenyovtsi, but ladies aged 26-27, for example, already think differently. On the other hand, it is important for the woman what emotion you create for her. They are not a logical being in the broadest sense. Your understanding of quantum mechanics and thermodynamics means almost nothing to her, she's cool when you create an emotion for her, when you arouse her. And ... I would forget, which is the bad news for many men - women love successful men or those who go down this path. Which is perfectly normal. And it's not always about luxury living. Not every woman is necessarily and first attracted to the car, the yacht, etc. She is attracted by the individual himself, who exudes power and success, an individual who leads and manages processes, destinies, etc., etc. when you arouse her. And ... I would forget, which is the bad news for many men - women love successful men or those who go down this path. Which is perfectly normal. And it's not always about luxury living. Not every woman is necessarily and first attracted by the car, the yacht, etc. She is attracted by the individual himself, who exudes power and success, an individual who leads and manages processes, destinies, etc., etc. when you arouse her. And ... I would forget, which is the bad news for many men - women love successful men or those who go down this path. Which is perfectly normal. And it's not always about luxury living. Not every woman is necessarily and first attracted by the car, the yacht, etc. She is attracted by the individual himself, who exudes power and success, an individual who leads and manages processes, destinies, etc., etc.

   Hi, instead of being angry in vain about the reality we live in, whether you have a reason - I think you have, use this as a stimulus for development - go and work out in the gym and develop your body as you like. By the way, the comments on the topic are quite vicious, they lack sympathy, proud, etc. - It's not good !!! It's time to let go of this malice and comparisons and pull each other down, instead - lift each other up!

   I'm number 9 and I'm still wondering what all this affects you after you don't want a pretty girl. Who goes where and what he does is his job, do you do that all day. There is no point in this topic, the author will not think about the comments, he knows a song. I will only tell you that the hatred you hide in yourself harms only you.

   Unfortunately, most women do not have eyes for men of their caliber (I mean the mediocre and damaged by quality genes of the fairer sex), because they do not have real self-esteem. I have noticed how a large percentage of women who write here stand out as unearthly beauties and versatile individuals with successful careers (none of whom are likely). They are also very vicious and unable to get into the situation of the other person. It often happens to me to see on the street a couple in which there is a visible discrepancy in the appearance of the partners in favor of the woman. I very rarely come across the opposite.

   From the author: You will be eaten by malice: D there is so much hatred in you that it's good that I'm not "nice" to jump my ego .. Without your beauty you are nowhere and now you are more upset because I affected my only useful trait. Mother, only the macho and made-up pre-fringed student are here .. Like just "complexes, complexes .." every second word .. And you will wrinkle .. You will gain weight and see .. And by the way I'm not fat I don't have pimples .. But you want to show yourself. To be some jerk .. It makes you happy to rejoice .. Ehhh .. Malice .............

   34, I sympathize with you, but do not blame it on others, because people are not guilty. You'll find out a little more that it's better to be ugly than beautiful. If you think that if you are beautiful, you are automatically dumb, mediocre and I don't know what you are, then I don't know who the evil one is. I thought it was better to be handsome and smart than ugly and stupid. You are the one who wrote the topic to spit on people. If you didn't feel damaged, you wouldn't be wasting your time with topics. Women don't want you so much because you're ugly, but rather because you're mean. Some will swallow the ugliness, but malice is hard. I'm telling you in a friendly way, I'm not picky.

   I agree with number 30: There is a lot of malice in this topic, and not so much from the author, but from everyone who thinks of something more than him. They spat on him in 200 ways. I know representatives of the so-called "quality genetic material" from both males and females. If someone went to them on the street and told them in their eyes what the author was saying, they would not react like that at all. They will wonder what is wrong with him, they will try to understand, they will give some advice, but they will never insult to crush such a person. They just have nothing to prove to anyone. They are calm people. Especially a few women in the answers try almost to pierce the heart with words. He was a virgin, a complexion, an incel (these are very good targets for ridicule until they go crazy). A beautiful lady in a position would never write such nonsense.

   Number 29, I answer you with your answer, but addressing women from a male point of view! :) On the other hand, it is important for the man what mood you create for her. He is a logical being in the broadest sense. But your understanding of quantum mechanics and thermodynamics means almost nothing to him, it's cool to him when you set his mood, when you turn him on. Ah, I would forget (which is bad news for many women) - men love successful women or those who have gone down this path. Which is perfectly normal. And it's not always about luxury living. Not every man is necessarily and first attracted by the woman's car, the woman's yacht, etc. He is attracted by the woman herself, who exudes honor and trust; a woman who leads her life and does not wait for everything; a woman who, not relying on what is between her legs, can replace her humanity. :)

   Author, you have accumulated a lot of anger against women, but for no reason. But you won't find a girlfriend any time soon. And yet, once you claim that beauty is not important, find a more modest-looking friend. There are more ugly girls, or plump, but very good in character. That way you won't be lonely, or you may be happy. Some of my ugly friends have started wonderful families, have children, and so on. They are happy. As you fall in love with someone, they begin to look more beautiful than anyone else. So, do not be angry, but act.

   Dude, I don't just think about sex. What does it mean to think only about sex? Let me tell you how things are - you can't predict what someone will be like. You have to get to know him. And that's why it takes time. Beautiful, not so beautiful or downright ugly - they can all be terrible human beings. If so, then at least have sex with a man with a nice body and vision. If he turns out to be a good person - that's great. If it turns out to be bad - at least the view was nice.

   Dude raise money buy a beautiful sex doll. Women are unable to give you what you want or give them what they need.

   37 .... I'm 29, I didn't really understand, are you a lady? But she described things as if from a man's point of view. Otherwise good - with my stones on my head :-) M. 45 years old.

   Number 36, the author claims that women are mercantile and almost prostitutes because we want to sleep with nice men. How do you think we should react? Which to approach with understanding? I am sorry that we do not react calmly to such epithets. And if someone called me a prostitute on the street, I wouldn't react like that because I would be afraid of being physically attacked and beaten, not because I had nothing to say to him.

   Son, you are very angry with women. Judging by the tone, bitter or sour does not describe you even half - if it was a dish, the chef would have poured a container of salt on you. First, I also go through the center regularly, inclusive today. I saw quite normal couples - girls with cheap sunglasses, boys with ragged hipster beards ... all sorts. Since it's so typical, why wasn't there a split cock with a croaking duck once? Either you selectively choose which of what you see here, or for you boys aged 23-24 weighing about 79 kilograms (and the hands of programmers) are muscular. If it's the latter, I'm afraid to ask how you lift your underwear without warming up. I will disappoint you, but it is not so. If your experience with women comes down to rejection, look for the problem in yourself, not in half of humanity. I can tell you a starting point - make your testicles go down and offer something other than grumbling and self-pity. You're right, over 3 billion wrong, it's a losing battle.

   I read almost all the comments on the topic. I am a woman and I think the same of men. And they have top criteria for a woman's vision. Over time, I have changed my appearance so much that I will soon look like a top model if I lose a few more pounds. I am constantly praised for how good I look, my men constantly pay attention to me and I am constantly alone. Yes, I attract the attention of handsome men, but I can't hold it. If you don't let him - you're boring, asexual. If you let him go, you're easy. If you are not looking for it - you are very arrogant. If you are looking for it - you are annoying. There is no pleasing. For me in Bulgaria, everyone has screamed and have unrealistic claims.

   From the AUTHOR again: You are wrongly judging me that I am vicious .. that I am desperate .. thirsty for a relationship ugly who has no self-confidence .. will, etc. not such hatred as to break dishes .. I control myself as much as I can .. Actually I do not look no girl .. I haven't mentioned anywhere that I'm looking for !! :) So far you haven't understood me at all .. most .. not all! I'm glad that .. some read and do not distort .. You copied my characteristics as if we know each other .. Just the human imagination is limited .. think about the worst .. how to make the opposite of some lower creature .. and at the same time point me with a finger that I am a villain? Okay .. but for no reason .. I have already said it and I will say it again .. I wrote everything to make you think about it .. even if some have already understood it .. their halves with whom they love a lot .. will dump them one day for example, if an accident burns their face ..

   Author, I think you are absolutely right .. Reading the comments you can see that most of them are exactly as you described them, not only girls but people in general. Stick to the topic was people describe it as vicious and desperate. He is absolutely right and this is a man who sees reality and is not afraid to admit it. Thanks from me.

   God ... Not to the author, but to the empathetic, male group - where are you - wonderful, sensitive, devoted, loving and faithful men? Where? !! Apparently, on the forums and in words. Do you know what you do with a pretty girl? You are stupid, you talk, you talk a lot, you are beautiful, you think it is love, but love quickly cuts you off when you see that the person opposite is not deluded, but is awake because he is used to relying only on himself, he is not with the mass attitude. for perception of the world, is not impressed by offers for holidays, offers of help and gifts, and in general ... does not want your 'male' support, but only wants - sincerity and fidelity, human relationships - forever! If you see such a woman opposite you (I am referring to myself if it is not clear) - your love sinks, because it is not love at all, but a passion. Love ... she is, first of all, inside herself,

   Absolute nonsense. I guess the author is not more than 16-20 years old, because he sounds extremely infantile. I am tall, quite tall and slender, at certain moments I had a super clean and muscular body, but believe me, this is not the thing that attracts women! SELF-CONFIDENCE - this is the key. Read books, play sports, make money, develop - this is my advice to you. Digging in the complexes is a pointless waste of time. I'll tell you about a story that's instructive enough. Years ago at sea I stabbed a very beautiful and gifted chick, but the interesting thing in this case is that my friend also tried to do it. In the end, she chose me, and he stayed dry, mentioning to me afterwards that she chose me because I have a Mercedes. Well, no, she hadn't seen my car or talked to me. ; ) Recently, this same friend took a very nice car by Bulgarian standards, we go out to a bar, I talk to two girls, I tell him to go to the other table and talk to the other two - no, he stays like a stump, and when he talks to women, in In 90% of cases, his voice trembles like a student's, and women, if nothing else, have a cruel feeling of UNSECURE men. What do I mean, yes - neither height, nor muscles or money will help you if you are not confident! I've seen an awful lot of beautiful women with unassuming men, and someone can tell me how this happens;) The answer is the environment, in the right environment and the biggest mold can turn the head of a beauty. Success! and when he speaks to women, in 90% of cases his voice trembles like that of a student, and women, if nothing else, have a cruel feeling of UNSECURE men. What do I mean, yes - neither height, nor muscles or money will help you if you are not confident! I've seen an awful lot of beautiful women with unassuming men, and someone can tell me how this happens;) The answer is the environment, in the right environment and the biggest mold can turn the head of a beauty. Success! and when he speaks to women, in 90% of cases his voice trembles like that of a student, and women, if nothing else, have a cruel feeling of UNSECURE men. What do I mean, yes - neither height, nor muscles or money will help you if you are not confident! I've seen an awful lot of beautiful women with unassuming men, and someone can tell me how this happens;) The answer is the environment, in the right environment and the biggest mold can turn the head of a beauty. Success! ) The answer is the middle, in the right environment and the biggest mold can turn the head of any beauty. Success! ) The answer is the middle, in the right environment and the biggest mold can turn the head of any beauty. Success!

   Number 47, I don't agree with your words that men fooled around beautiful women. Beautiful women have made me much more experienced, aware, self-respecting, steadfast and justly giving and demanding. I see the same thing with a number of other men. However, there are idiots that you mention, but they are not stupid, and they know very clearly that by enduring the whims of various muffins they will get to their feet. It's called a deal. You can't deny the truth that most beautiful women are stupid and give up their dignity because of the desire to spend men's money (some of which are the same ones you call fools).

   To 42 of 36: You want to sleep with nice men when you are young and then you want some aunt to come and put a ring on your already wrinkled hands. And if this lollipop can pay for everything in exchange for a smile and tolerate you fucking with others, it's best. It cannot be hammered into your brains that people are distributed in a very wide range - there are beautiful and ugly, smart and stupid, poor and rich, high and low. These charming men that you all fall in love with and that you take off your pants for are no more than 10% of all men. The rest are normal people with their limitations. And no matter how much you grumble, no matter how many criteria you impose, no matter how many clichés you recite (for example: "Be confident", "Go to the gym", "Make a haircut", etc.) these men will never reach the level, which you want. But no, everyone wants to have the best, and can, but for one night. The most disgusting thing in the whole story is that it is women who constantly shine this nonsense about love, feelings and characters, and in fact everything is the result of a simple formula: -She is 6/10, he is 5/10, therefore he can to forget something to happen. -She's 5/10, he's 6/10, so he has to pretend to be a clown for a while and pay a few bills to fuck her. -She is 7/10, he is 10/10, so he can have sex in the next 30 seconds, as long as he wants, and whatever he wants - blowjobs, back, front ... everything else is out of courtesy. You can dispute it a lot, but if you look at your life and that of your friends, you will understand that they follow this simple formula. "But, this is not true, because I know of an example in which this is not the case !!! But for each one there are 10 that are. We live in a time and culture where 10% of men are turned into breeding animals, one 50-60% is constantly struggling to please and can be changed at any time, and the rest blow the soup. And everyone thinks that things will be like this forever and that everything is OK. The "good news" is that while everyone is wondering who to fuck with, our nation is perishing, and the cultures in which the whore has not infiltrated are prospering. So the balance will be restored in 50 years. But everything I wrote, I wrote for myself, not because someone will think about it. After all, people are busy wondering who to fuck with. And, yes, I'm one of those unassuming men, the bottom 10%. Not because I don't try, or because I didn't give my best, but because it doesn't matter how much you give, but how much you were born with. But for each one there are 10 that are. We live in a time and culture where 10% of men are turned into breeding animals, one 50-60% is constantly struggling to please and can be changed at any time, and the rest are blowing soup. And everyone thinks that things will be like this forever and that everything is OK. The "good news" is that while everyone is wondering who to fuck with, our nation is perishing, and the cultures in which the whore has not infiltrated are prospering. So the balance will be restored in 50 years. But everything I wrote, I wrote for myself, not because someone will think about it. After all, people are busy wondering who to fuck with. And, yes, I'm one of those unassuming men, the bottom 10%. Not because I don't try, or because I didn't give my best, but because it doesn't matter how much you give, but how much you were born with. We live in a time and culture where 10% of men are turned into breeding animals, one 50-60% is constantly struggling to please and can be changed at any time, and the rest are blowing soup. And everyone thinks that things will be like this forever and that everything is OK. The "good news" is that while everyone is wondering who to fuck with, our nation is perishing, and the cultures in which the whore has not infiltrated are prospering. So the balance will be restored in 50 years. But everything I wrote, I wrote for myself, not because someone will think about it. After all, people are busy wondering who to fuck with. And, yes, I'm one of those unassuming men, the bottom 10%. Not because I don't try, or because I didn't give my best, but because it doesn't matter how much you give, but how much you were born with. 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And everyone thinks that things will be like this forever and that everything is OK. The "good news" is that while everyone is wondering who to fuck with, our nation is perishing, and the cultures in which the whore has not infiltrated are prospering. So the balance will be restored in 50 years. But everything I wrote, I wrote for myself, not because someone will think about it. After all, people are busy wondering who to fuck with. And, yes, I'm one of those unassuming men, the bottom 10%. Not because I don't try, or because I didn't give my best, but because it doesn't matter how much you give, but how much you were born with. in which 10% of males are turned into breeding animals, one 50-60% constantly struggles to please and can be changed at any time, and the rest blow the soup. And everyone thinks that things will be like this forever and that everything is OK. The "good news" is that while everyone is wondering who to fuck with, our nation is perishing, and the cultures in which the whore has not infiltrated are prospering. So the balance will be restored in 50 years. But everything I wrote, I wrote for myself, not because someone will think about it. After all, people are busy wondering who to fuck with. And, yes, I'm one of those unassuming men, the bottom 10%. Not because I don't try, or because I didn't give my best, but because it doesn't matter how much you give, but how much you were born with. and the others blow the soup. And everyone thinks that things will be like this forever and that everything is OK. The "good news" is that while everyone is wondering who to fuck with, our nation is perishing, and the cultures in which the whore has not infiltrated are prospering. So the balance will be restored in 50 years. But everything I wrote, I wrote for myself, not because someone will think about it. After all, people are busy wondering who to fuck with. And, yes, I'm one of those unassuming men, the bottom 10%. Not because I don't try, or because I didn't give my best, but because it doesn't matter how much you give, but how much you were born with. and the others blow the soup. And everyone thinks that things will be like this forever and that everything is OK. The "good news" is that while everyone is wondering who to fuck with, our nation is perishing, and the cultures in which the whore has not infiltrated are prospering. So the balance will be restored in 50 years. But everything I wrote, I wrote for myself, not because someone will think about it. After all, people are busy wondering who to fuck with. And, yes, I'm one of those unassuming men, the bottom 10%. Not because I don't try, or because I didn't give my best, but because it doesn't matter how much you give, but how much you were born with. So the balance will be restored in 50 years. But everything I wrote, I wrote for myself, not because someone will think about it. After all, people are busy wondering who to fuck with. And, yes, I'm one of those unassuming men, the bottom 10%. Not because I don't try, or because I didn't give my best, but because it doesn't matter how much you give, but how much you were born with. So the balance will be restored in 50 years. But everything I wrote, I wrote for myself, not because someone will think about it. After all, people are busy wondering who to fuck with. And, yes, I'm one of those unassuming men, the bottom 10%. Not because I don't try, or because I didn't give my best, but because it doesn't matter how much you give, but how much you were born with.

   To number 50 of 47 Of course, there are women you talk about - without dignity, morals, self-esteem, skills, etc., there are all kinds of women and men, unfortunately, the majority are like that, judging by their interpersonal relationships, and by reading the stories on this site. The situation is very unfortunate and failed, so I did not have a relationship, respectively I did not have sex. I do not want to be with more than one man (my husband), and I have not met a person who is categorical and selfless in his attitude towards me. I don't consider it normal to have relationships in which people have multiple relationships in their lives, say 'I love you' to everyone they are with ... that's not for me. And no, I'm not a little girl, I'm 28, I'm not a careerist, but I'm independent in my household, yes, I can't buy a house, and I can't support myself financially - other than myself, but if I don't have a family, I don't need a house, what good is it if I have no one to leave it to after I leave this world. I have interests and activities, I have no friends, but I no longer expect much from anyone. I'm not ugly and evil, I'm even beautiful, both inside and out, with my own character traits like everyone else. My only request to the people, incl. to men who want to have a relationship with me is to be - sincere and moral, and then we will find out if we have anything in common, but to want a relationship with me, to try if there will be a relationship, a request that is dictated by appearance, and my way of thinking, which is different from that of the mass woman, and arouses interest ... but for me - trying involving sex is unacceptable. Definitely. When I meet someone, in this case we discuss the relationship between a man and a woman, so, getting to know the man in front of you, I can judge whether he loves me or wants to have sex with me and so on. I can tell if he is genuinely interested in me, or trying, testing, or manipulating me. I can find out if he is himself, sincerely sharing his thoughts and feelings, or gives me what he thinks a woman is looking for, because I am more special, some are confused because I do not like the typical things in men, nor as vision, nor as social status, behavior and reasoning. It's just that I haven't seen soul reciprocity and I judge this, without trying, and connection. Can't you judge people, judge that the person opposite will not be your man / woman for the rest of your life, and just not deal with it? There are also degraded people for whom I am a Mormon, a Jesuit, etc., for whom it is normal to have sex with different people, without feelings, to cheat, not to get married,

   There are passengers for each train. You just find a girl who suits you or look for a change. I agree with everything written by number 3. And I will add that when a woman is in shape and she wants a man in shape. There is a nice friend but a little round, all the chicks he took off cut him because they are chicks. What you offer and you receive accordingly. Physical attraction is stronger than any other. Many women sleep with a man with whom they do not even have a common theme. Fact.

   To number 47/52 from number 50. At least in terms of describing yourself, you look like a decent woman. But personal data is not allowed to be exchanged here, so there is no way to get acquainted. I find your expectations and requirements for men are quite normal and logical. One must value oneself and want to receive what one can and is ready to offer. But many others are not like you. I lost my virginity two years before your current age and the reason for this is similar to yours - I wanted to be convinced that the chosen woman is really valuable and will be "the only one in my life". Well, many will giggle at these words and think that these are impossible things, but I personally know several couples in which one or both had no other relationship and yet are currently married and happy. We were together with this woman for a few years and this is the first of only two women I have made love to in my life, although I have had short-term relationships with more women since then. I had 3-4 relationships before and after school and after the barracks, but I didn't get to "sleep" then, precisely because after a while I felt some frivolity in these girls and women. I have never been able to understand why most people pretend to be who they are not and make an effort to show themselves in their best (often exaggerated) light, and cover up their shortcomings at the cost of all sorts of lies. For me, this phenomenon is a manifestation of weakness and insecurity, a conscious or unconscious feeling of inferiority. Some people of both sexes manage to play the role relatively well and longer communication is required, to be felt in their true light. That is why it is best to have a cohabitation in the beginning, and not just meetings for coffee, a walk in the park or the cinema, because in a home environment almost certainly shines the whole truth about the person you met, and it is often different from the initial impression. It happened to me right when I was getting together in a dormitory to quickly find out how a seemingly supported woman in our meetings actually turned out to be sloppy and replaced bathing with industrial quantities of deodorant and perfume, and changed her underwear once a week ... Another after when she came home from work, she tossed her clothes and socks all over the furniture, and she had never heard of cleaning dishes or vacuuming. I didn't mind being a housewife, but the feeling of what kind of woman I had next to me was not the most wonderful. I am extremely aware that you women can give many times more examples of various slackers at home and my goal is not to compare women against men. Both sexes have splinters, but each person is for himself and one may be decent, the other may not be, and so on.