Hello! I want to share a life problem with the readers of the site. I have a serious relationship for 4 years with a boy. This year he left a student "regularly". I don't like it, it's just a habit. See you only on Saturday and Sunday. He loves me madly talking for hours on the phones ... but I have no feelings for him. During these 4 years in which we were together, I cheated on him ... He did NOT cheat on me! He doesn't know about my sins. Since he has been a student for more than a month, I have been dating another boy, whom I like very much, I can even say that I am starting to fall in love. We are always together, he is very nice, he knows I have a friend and he is waiting for us to separate. I still don't dare to leave him. My new suitor and I pulled away, and I understood from his words that he didn't want to hide anymore, he wanted us to be together. But I can't take the step of leaving my longtime friend. Subsequently, I decided to take this step, to leave my friend ... but I realized something that shocked me .. At the end of February he went abroad ..!?!?! I was shocked by this news .. my studies were filled with tears ... I am currently in a dilemma .. Is it worth leaving a longtime friend ... for one ... "flirtation" that ends in 3 months? My friends told me not to start with the new boy, because in 3 months I can build feelings for him and then it will be difficult for me after he leaves ...? What to do share with me your opinions. Thanks in advance! .. I am currently in a dilemma .. Is it worth leaving a longtime friend ... for a ... "flirtation" that ends in 3 months? My friends told me not to start with the new boy, because in 3 months I can build feelings for him and then it will be difficult for me after he leaves ...? What to do share with me your opinions. Thanks in advance! .. I am currently in a dilemma .. Is it worth leaving a longtime friend ... for a ... "flirtation" that ends in 3 months? My friends told me not to start with the new boy, because in 3 months I can build feelings for him and then it will be difficult for me after he leaves ...? What to do share with me your opinions. Thanks in advance!
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Your girlfriends are right. You will suffer less if you do not start this relationship at all because if you really fall in love it will be very difficult for you to break up when he has to leave.