Hi, I'm a 25 year old boy. I graduated with a good specialty, which I am currently working on. My job is good, I'm happy. I don't have a girlfriend, and at my age, sex is important. No matter how much I pretend that there is no problem, the lack of intimate relationships sometimes acts depressing. In my work, however, I have no desire to catch a girlfriend. There is a girl who is 29, ie. she is 4 years older than me. Very smart and intelligent, and very down to earth. We know each other vaguely, but we have more or less similar interests. She's cute, she's a little chubby. It does not attract me physically, I do not feel the desire for intimacy, ie if I am eventually with her, I have to strain my feelings. So far, I've fallen in love and been hurt, and just the kind of women I like can be expected to hurt me. There's just no girl right now, with which to maintain a relationship and which I really like, so I'm considering the option with the 29-year-old. I'm basically a male boy, I act when I feel the need to do something. I'm not a crook to pretend and play roles, but sometimes I think that time passes and while I wait for the right woman or true love, my life passes, ie a person hopes in vain. I'm confused, I want a girl with my temperament, but it's one thing to want, it's another to be. What would you advise me. How would you do in my place. Do I really have to wait to meet a woman and come from inside to look for her, or should I not just indulge in primary feelings? I hope you will help me with your thoughts and personal example. Thank you for your attention! I act when I feel the need to do something.
I'm not a crook to pretend and play roles, but sometimes I think that time passes and while I wait for the right woman or true love, my life passes, ie a person hopes in vain. I'm confused, I want a girl with my temperament, but it's one thing to want, it's another to be. What would you advise me. How would you do in my place. Do I really have to wait to meet a woman and come from inside to look for her, or should I not just indulge in primary feelings? I hope you will help me with your thoughts and personal example. Thank you for your attention! I act when I feel the need to do something. I'm not a crook to pretend and play roles, but sometimes I think that time passes and while I wait for the right woman or true love, my life passes, ie a person hopes in vain. I'm confused, I want a girl with my temperament, but it's one thing to want, it's another to be. What would you advise me. How would you do in my place. Do I really have to wait to meet a woman and come from inside to look for her, or should I not just indulge in primary feelings? I hope you will help me with your thoughts and personal example. Thank you for your attention! one hopes in vain. I'm confused, I want a girl with my temperament, but it's one thing to want, it's another to be. What would you advise me. How would you do in my place. Do I really have to wait to meet a woman and come from inside to look for her, or should I not just indulge in primary feelings? I hope you will help me with your thoughts and personal example. Thank you for your attention! one hopes in vain. I'm confused, I want a girl with my temperament, but it's one thing to want, it's another to be. What would you advise me. How would you do in my place. Do I really have to wait to meet a woman and come from inside to look for her, or should I not just indulge in primary feelings? I hope you will help me with your thoughts and personal example. Thank you for your attention!
1 tanja_savic_private answered
If there is no physical attraction, there is no chemistry, and without this chemistry nothing will happen. And in these circumstances, I think that things will not work out and if it happens that things do not work out, and as you say you are colleagues, it will not be pleasant at all.