It's hard to give advice without knowing where you are. In Bulgaria? If so, in what city?
Well, I have one like this... A wooden philosopher... Haha sometimes i tie him up to conspiracies and talk to each other, but then I know that someone still has to clean up, cook, etc. Such people are generally slightly lazy, stubborn and often live in their world... Are you sure for the one political conversation over coffee, you want to put that hedgehog in your pants? I hope I didn't kill you. I just wanted you to see what it's like on the other side, and if you want something more as a family, this guy won't be much of a supporter to you. As they say, they want to, not words.
I'm asking myself the same question about a woman. The truth is, you can meet him anywhere, but it's only going to happen when the time comes, and until then, keep an eye out.
You're out of your way with the guy. It's not enough that he's a jerk, and you're dealing with geopolitical themes. It's not fair.
I've had exactly the same problem, i've been thinking lately that I've got it. Perhaps, I myself am not intelligent enough for what I am looking for, so I have decided to work on myself further in other spheres and look forward to development as soon as possible. Greetings and good luck to you too!
You don't want a relationship with a bunch of traffic-obsessed idiots, and neither do I, so we fit in with you. It's a pity it can't work, we almost certainly don't live in the same city, and I'm not a great beauty. And through the site can not ...
m34
Not in Bugria' Entelligent and Bulgarian are oxymorons. It's so animal-like!
2, between an intelligent and wooden philosopher, there is a difference.
In my opinion, he is smart, who can live well (the root is the same). He uses his mind, that is, his thinking, to live better. Intelligent, however, can be something completely different. One can have brilliant mathematical intelligence and be a good engineer, for example, but actually live miserable lives and make bad life choices, his wife hates him and see his children 2-3 days a month (I have an example of such a professor from the university). Is he smart? A lot of people will say he's smart, but in fact he's intelligent in a very limited frame of life's experience.
Make it clear if you're looking for a smart guy or an intelligent man. I think most women subconsciously look for smart men. Of course, some men are smart, intelligent, but the vast majority are not. Most men are, for example, verbally intelligent (I, for example) and can speak broadly on many topics, but they don't actually have an adequate life mindset, i.e. they're not particularly smart in life.
Well, where, in the library!
I'm sick, boring and uninteresting.
Един ден като ви втръснат тия с големите бицарки и голи глави и бради тогава ще разберете за какво иде реч.
You're right, but there's also the lucky factor (or at least things that don't depend on us). There are people who are not very smart, but they just had a certain luck and their lives have worked out well. Conversely, there are smart ones, but they suffer from a disease, it has happened to them, it has happened to a bad woman, etc. sometimes being smart is not enough to properly judge a woman. Because there are things you don't know, and a woman can change with the storm or unforeseen things happen. As smart as some people are, they're psychics. So there's no guarantee with the smart ones.
I don't think you're going to meet one. Besides me, it seems to me that there are no other intelligent men. But on this site do not allow personal contacts.
Number 15, you hinted at something very true in our society. Stupid people always think that besides them, other smart people in their communication environment will not. I hope you're one of the smart guys! Greetings!
Ladies, such men just don't deserve it.
From The Author:
Maybe I should have made it clear that I was looking for a natural intelligent man. I don't want it to be an encyclopedia, it's just to have a rich common culture. To know how to apply his knowledge, as I mentioned in the description - "prospective". Moreover, when it has that capacity, he will also be aware of things of an emotional nature, as I said - "tactful." A person to talk to, and even when you have differences, to be able to see things through each other's eyes together and come to consensus and acceptance. Actually, I don't think they're very high-quality. :D Maybe I really came across a very immature person with a very limited worldview.
By 2 - Wooden philosophers are often empty-headed, prof. Vuchkov. That's not what I mean.
About 12 - Thanks for the direct answer. That was the first thing that occurred to me because it's an absolute cliché. I don't think the library is a very popular dating place, after all, everyone is focused on their reading and barely talking. Besides, every one borrows books to take home, and I don't like to read the awkward chairs.
I ask for more (specific) suggestions.
On behalf of smart men: do you realize that it's possible that you've already met a smart man and ignored him? The smart ones are rarely any Apollonovians, because they waste no time on fitness or cosmetic procedures, and nature has not made every man 1, 90 and athletic, say. And who guarantees the smart guy that you won't get carried away with some handsome asshole like your ex again and hurt the guy? The smart one will reflect on this issue and will not be particularly convinced what he receives in return, especially how long the result will be.
So are you sure you really want this? Don't turn out to be fooling yourself and somehow reacting to the failed relationship by looking for the opposite of your ex. You're going to play with it, but the guy next to you doesn't have to, do you? So first make sure you want this, and then I'd love to introduce you to a smart man. I can even find a few - it's not hard if you know where to look for them.
To the author:
You say you want to meet an intelligent man, but what are your other demands? After all, there are many intelligent men who weigh 130kg. and are 1. 65, but i don't think you're going to settle for a lad like that. Here, to some extent, I agree with number 13 - the intellect in itself is not worth anything on the Bulgarian sexual market (especially for women).
As for the opinion of number 9, if in a country of 6 million people you can't find the one you like, then you have absolutely nothing to offer you.
That brings me to the point:
What do you have to offer you? Maybe I'm wrong, but if, apart from intellect, you also possess a beauty, a groomed tight body, and your character is not an absolute bitch, I doubt you're suffering from a shortage of men in your life. However, if that is not the case, you should work on the subject.
In secret, to your question of where to meet such a man:
There are certain cumulative points of smart, dumb, strong, weak, etc. There are all kinds of people everywhere. You have to look and be patient.
It's been getting harder for you women lately, and it's going to get harder. In high school and student years, you all throw yourself at 20% of men (not with the bibsages), while the remaining 80% watch and get sick. Then 80% of them say, "I'm not going to be the last out of someone who broke 35 k**s! ". It's no joke - I know 10 people who work good jobs, train, support themselves, chase 30s and not hear about a relationship.
Still, I'm glad I read such a post from a relatively young woman. You can't stop looking, and you'il find one.
Greetings
M24
I'm exactly what you're looking for, but are you what I'm looking for?
I suggest we start with a little test - I don't see a problem and others get involved.
They met father and son with mother and daughter, father and daughter made a baby, mother and son too - what do babies fall for each other?
The most intelligent man I've ever known, I only met two months ago in the folk dance hall we visit. We got into a lot of quick mix-up, we liked each other, and now we're almost inseparable (by the way, I dropped a topic on this occasion, but the administrators refuse to publish it). I'm a family man, my husband knows him, we even went out for dinner yesterday.
However... If you're talking to me about geopolitics, I don't think I'il call you any more. Just because your ex fell asleep while you're talking nonsense doesn't make him simple.
The well-read and ambitious people are often and successful. That is, they move in other circles of people.
Zmma of the most intelligent people with me I have found in
-The 1st joint company. The guy had a wow girl who was friends with my mutual friends. His life is work and travel. He loves the cinema, he loves restaurants that offer food unconventional for Bulgarian cuisine. (Asian, Indian.. Etc. )
2 at the gym, she was with her daughter. But he works hard, too. In her spare time she goes to steam baths, has a yacht- on it relaxes or walks in Belgrade with her daughter..
I know from an organization in the city I live in. You can see it in mass places. But they're still expensive for the middle class.
What day am I trying to say? Intelligent men are often workaholics. You won't see them in the library. If they want to read, they'il buy what they want to read and read it at home. All three of them wouldn't have a problem buying as many books as they want and taking them home.
All three of them are pretty well paid. They're over 30 years old.
When they rest, they are in all sorts of places, but rarely in cafes.
They like to travel, they love luxury - but only one wears it ostentatiously (clothes, cars). Two of them still pick their best, but not so ostentatiously.
You wouldn't stop at them even if you were in the same room- They're men, they've got years. (in the post, guys you're looking - but young and smart." not that it is not possible but is less often as an option. Men are in their prime and as knowledge and as a career after 30 years)
Also, intelligent people in acquaintance rarely emphasize that they are successful/where they work. They know how to have a conversation with every single person. And certainly as well as being familiar with a topic, they will not start it without being sure that you are interested.
For example, even if they're interested in "nuclear physics," you won't talk about it. Unless you want ;)
Number 21, do you think you're very original? Because you're not funny.
From The Author:
About 19 - About "some handsome asshole like your ex": I didn't mention such a thing. At all, appearance wasn't the thing to fool me into him. I don't look at myself at all because I have a prejudice that they're foolish daffodils; something like the image of the "muffin" in men. Intelligence adorns the person a lot, its overall appearance is somehow respectful. Of course I'm sure of what I want. This criterion has always been paramount. It just happened this time that I closed my eyes and realized i shouldn't have. Now I expect you to keep your promise. :)
About 20 - There should always be physical attraction, of course. I have something to offer and I do not suffer from a shortage of men, but from a shortage of intelligent men lately, obviously. :D
I have observations about how very often these bitter 80% in adulthood, if they get caught up in inflated gold diggers and kill complexes.
Interesting discussions are created, but to summarize that so far the specific proposals are: library and folk dances (or some other course).
And this smart, forward-looking, tactful, guessing and handsome enough in bed, maybe to host and bring the money home, most girls can't grasp an ornament, do you think you're going to be his? Such a person is self-sufficient, no matter the sex. Come get some get off the clouds if you want real connections. And take on at least some of these functions. After all, the idea of the relationship is complementarity. If everyone's self-sufficient, it won't be. Apart from the fact that many of these listed qualities are incompatible at first, and those who think they own them in a bunch usually live in a huge delusion. And even if there's an individual to combine them, it's going to be like six of the lottery - one in a few million.
In places of art, artists think outside the boundaries. But don't think that a person like that thinking about extraordinary things would like you. For example, I am an artist, often reflecting on the meaning of art, how it affects people and public opinion, reflecting on politics, various global problems such as the immense power of corporations, the entry of new technologies into the human world, the development of artificial intelligence, the change of the human gene, the connection of computers with man, evolution in the past and in the future, what life and death is like , how our universe was built. I think all this stuff, but it's not a guarantee of happiness with me. Often such people thinking and being blown away in the clouds of thoughts are more clogged and unfaithful in life than nerds at school. Nerds think their strange and sometimes ingenious thoughts, but they are not usually the typical man women want, even women do not consider them to be subconsciously male. You can hardly meet a cool, funny with a supported figure, working a normal job, without emotional problems and communication problems, a man who
on top of that, he is intelligent thinking and reflecting on many subjects and exploring the world. It's just that society isn't like that, it's not intelligent, it doesn't care about things outside of everyday and household affairs. To start thinking, one has to break away from society, and to break away, or have to have something, or be rejected by society. Here I am, you can say that I am a social cripple, it has taken me a lot and it has given me a lot. I was told I didn't have a lot of social contacts, I was isolated at school, on a personal level I couldn't meet love because I don't have those skills. But on the other hand, it has given me a lot because I have abstained from the monotonous, one-way straight with a clear end and the beginning thoughts of ordinary people. And now I can think for myself and invent and create new things, paintings, installations, inventions. So if you find a smart guy to talk to and think about deep and not everyday topics, then make sure there's something wrong with him. The point is that this defect is one that you would accept and that will not bother you more than a lack of intelligence...
I don't know if there's places for smart, for assholes... If you have access to an environment with educated people, there's a better chance there, but there's still no guarantee... You'd better look for a good guy, and you don't have one intelligence, but you know it.
22... I don't understand you... are you simply inseparable as friends with this gentleman or cheating on your husband with this man who, on top of that, your husband knows him?
If it's the latter, you better not answer that... :-) No, because it's not in life, but such cases are increasingly reinforcing the opinion of what kind of women there is, and that i think the percentage of like ones is quite high, not to say most!
I answer directly to the title, do not read to me down - in Sofia go to an IT event/conference.
University lecturer working at BAS or elsewhere in the scientific fields?
G
21, the babies among themselves are uncles/uncles/aunts of each other.
But your test is a stupid attempt to prove yourself to who? ;)
g30
Babe, your native language, you know? To think outside the "box" is an unmarital translation into an English idiom! In Bulgarian it is called "to think outside the box"!
Intelligent men go to intelligent women, draw their conclusions....
You won't meet him in Bulgaria!
Number 30, number 22, and usually on my lunch break I enter this site and necessarily open the "Love and Infidelity" section reading a story about family infidelity or stambling, and I already know what it will say down - 50 responses, of which at least 30 have been unbreakable attacks without ever reading the content and insight into the meaning of the writing. I guess that kind of nonsense you write yourself (yourself) under every single topic.
I don't feel like I have to explain it to you, but I'm still going to do it, because I'm under the impression that it's insane for you to have a married woman as your best friend, and a single one.
Sori. Get out of the virtual and look outside. Yes, that's quite possible. When you have brains in your head, you find yourself a settled and relatively intelligent person.
I'm not physically attracted to this person to the point where I succumb. It's absurd to even think about it. Luckily for me, he thinks the same way.
Yes, we go out to dinner, coffee, and I don't see anything abnormal. I don't hide my phone from my husband-- he can always pick it up and dig as much as he wants. It doesn't bother me that he's going to see that we heard this guy 15 times today. My husband knows the face password-you can always come in and read my personal messages. When he calls me to ask where I am, I never lied to him. Most of the time, I tell him where and who I'm going to be with. I have no secrets from my husband. Trust him on that.
I hope you understand what I wrote. The fact that you asked such a moronic question leaves me with the impression that your level of intelligence is negative.
I'll try to answer 24, 33 and the author at the same time.
I don't know what I am, but I'm definitely not. When it was supposed to and where I was supposed to have proved myself, and for self-proof, I have no idea what it should mean. For me, one of the tests of intelligence is how much a person brings to joke, not just to tell a joke or to laugh at a joke told by someone - I greatly respect people who, in a word, can make a joke, extract the humor from a situation, smile, pass the stupidity, create a mood of others, etc. things I didn't see the author say.
What an intelligent man means is the first thing to understand, and then you can talk about where there are such people.
In short, I wanted to provoke the author to think about it and more accurately define his criteria for intellect, in return, two others called, which something was affected by what is not addressed to them - it smells like a complex, but everyone with their luggage.
The author should not be offended, but hers is also complex - intelligent men are all around you, miss, but whether you have eyes to notice them is a very separate question. Judging by your age, you've already finished studying, if you haven't been able to find the intelligent person on the student bench that you're interested in, what to comment on your intellect after you've admitted to yourself an "absolute jerk, no excuse." I sincerely hope you never let this happen to you again, but you know, "never say never" - I didn't make it up.
Last (for now), life is not a store or mall, no one can tell you where to go in and choose the goods you need - people (and men and women) are not a commodity!
A little reason to include 24 and 33, you know that it is abnormal to ask about pantyhose in the bakery - I still "pretend" to be original, but it is not important to me your opinion, in fact, what you two advised the author, did you answer at least one of her questions, or perhaps it is more important for you to speak out, whether it is unprepared?
21 - I'm curious about the answer.
In my opinion, the word "daughter" is not clarified. It doesn't say she's the daughter of the particular mother or father. It's the same with the word "blue."
I mean, it's a ruse, and the babies aren't any, right?
What a woman. Find yourself a friend, a fellow co-worker at an intesey club, and you're going to have to go away. And in your life, find a cute fit to shake your earthly layers and warm you up.
No31
So only beautiful and intelligent boys/men gather at a conference like this?
I totally agree with number 35!
What's the library, what dance? En masse, people are so busy emotionally and with problems that I can eat 3 trays of noddeds while listening to complaints without giving me a say.
Intelligent, forward-looking, geopolitics to understand... I've had a headache. Why don't you put them in an excel chart? Don't we as men have a say and talk about what excites us?
I don't know if it's in the middle, what's it like, but it freaked out the people. There's no bread on the table, it's politics clear. Babies are not born, gypsies have taken over us, and we are 35 years old... and lists of requirements are being used.
And the author to say which type of EntelEgent is talking about, the guy who has already stepped on a high income or a "natural professor" who will implicate her intellectually?
Hi. It's nothing personal, but as long as you define yourself as a 25-year-old girl, you can't meet an intelligent man. We're girls up to 20 years old. Then we are women, ready to take on responsibilities and show the experience and qualities gained to valued men :)
From 20 to the author:
And i mean, intelligent people your age aren't as upbeat and with as much self-esteem as dumbass. I have studied quite a lot on the topic of what attracts women (don't ask why :) ) and it turns out that it is quite important for you that a man has a self-confidence, is proactive, is a leader and hardly comes, takes everything into his own hands and builds the whole relationship out of nowhere on his own. For understandable reasons, the people who have been busy in the last 10 years are not the most in-time. A lot of them won't be tested with you unless they see some green light. And for that to happen, you need to communicate with them.
My guess is that with your behavior, you only attract the breathless ones - you're passive and reward any in-touch communication with you, even if it's not significant. Pay attention to your behavior around men and share it, we can clarify the right problem.
I'm not saying there are no smart men with self-esteem - on the contrary, there are many. But they're generally the CEAs of corporations or something, and you really have to have something to offer.
If you look at yourself as an average woman, the choice is smart and dull or dull and upbeat.
Remember that "blow"is treated (and very often by a woman), but "dumb"- no.
Greetings
When you show real intelligence, not think you're intelligent, then the intelligent man will notice you. A lot of women think they're intelligent, but they're mistaken for being. If you give them an innocent test, you immediately feel they have or don't have one. I've never met a woman who doesn't think she's intelligent, especially a woman who's graduated from a university degree. They're thinking. that higher education means intelligence. What a delusion. Author, at what level is your intelligence on a scale of 1 to 10? Just don't exaggerate.
38, I don't know if there's an answer to the task, but obviously you're a thinking person, and I've clearly not learned to speak properly, or at least be understandable, the riddle is about father and son, and mother and daughter, obviously it's good for people with separate marriages, but that in this case is irrelevant - the important thing for me is that the competent and devoid of sense of humor intervened, spoke and turned their tails.
I wonder sometimes where this malice is, I wanted to provoke the maiden to talk to each other on HIGHLY intellectual themes, and hathers/ki intervened - I'm not going to sum up what kind of nation we are.
In fact, I have already been pulled for the tongue, and without wanting to roughen the maiden (author) I will say that the claims and exported in this form are slightly hollow, and from there the question of intelligent men is rhetorical.
Well, I wanted to be a little more delicate, but it still didn't work out!
In my opinion, the author of the topic makes two visually small, but essentially significant mistakes:
1. Confused by the meaning of words. We Bulgarians say "reasoning", and English speakers say "intelligent". But it is clear from the author's writing that she is clearly not looking for a thoughtful man - one who likes to get into things, to excite him about what is set up in life and nature and why it is, also to seek new solutions, but rather needs a person with a rich common culture for diverse and fun conversations about it. The two qualities (reasoning and general culture) can exist both individually and together in one person, and there are people in whom both are absent.
2. You can not judge by one quality (a skill for a fascinating conversation) for any person, that he would have all sorts of other qualities and was fit for a life together on a family basis in the long term. Communication is communication, attraction is attraction, love life is a love life, entertainment and hobbies are fun and hobbies. But the possibility of someone, regardless of gender, to cope in case of need (whether a domestic or health problem arises, caring for the person in front of the people and future children, etc.) is not inherent in all people and is a rare quality that is evident only in the occurrence of unforeseen challenges in everyday life and the violation of its usual rhythm. It is no coincidence that older women have the practice of testing how fit a man can be in certain, deliberately created events. Men in the majority are first-signal and much less often resort to these pryomas in order to test women.
The author is looking for a thoughtful person, but as the number 19 and 20 have already mentioned, she has not laid out her other demands on the man (without which I am convinced that she would not accept it) or she would be disappointed if she really came across such a man, and lacked other basic qualities. There are men everywhere, but "Will women who seek them decide to notice them? " is a very separate question.
If you were intelligent enough for an intelligent man, you'd know you're just trying to repeat some teenage emotions from the recent past. Things like that don't work, and they end in failure...
Your fall as an inappropriate individual is simply caused by your own social environment that you've built. She's a projection of herself. When you want a smarter person, raise your level, and find that kind of environment. The fact is, in this country of foregied, it's not easy. At your age, I hung a lot on forums where there was a lot of discussion on a variety of topics. I found a lot of people on my then mind. But that's over because... If you had found someone to talk to "on geopolitical issues of modern times," you would have understood that man is a creature extremely limited in communication. In most cases, it all ends in pointless disputes. Now only Facebook knows...
I think you've learned a little bit to control your emotions, not to fall all the way to Neanderthals and discuss geopolitics with your father, for example...
I consider myself an intelligent type, I keep getting literate and learning new things. But I haven't been in a library since 8000.
Author, read again number 47. That's my advice. My environment consists and has always consisted of writers, artists, directors, musicians and university professors (my father was an engineer, an associate professor at the Technical University, my mother - a school director, their best friends were diplomats, scientists, economists, etc.). These are supposed to be "intelligent" people, right? Yes, they are wonderful friends (I speak of my comrades), we communicate wonderfully and our conversations are fascinating and meaningful; we all love art, we meet in exhibitions and literary premieres, talk all night, recommend books, speak several languages, etc. However, I - a Doctor of Literature - married an electrician with a secondary education who to this day comes home with cracked hands and powdered clothes. I dare say that he is one of the smartest people I know, even though there are at least fifteen professors in my close circle. Why do I find him intelligent? Because he is inquisitive, creative, thinking, has a high degree of mental and emotional culture, inherent in his wits and empathy. Proof of the adequacy of my judgment is that from the very beginning he was accepted by my friends as "his own man" and fully fit into the middle. We people, especially in our families and in our friendly circle, do not talk from morning to evening about geopolitics, nuclear physics and Dostoyevsky. Usually, dear author, in an informal environment there are more casual conversations, and even if it's serious topics, at least the tone is more simple. I know people with three higher educations who are absolute "canes" and no conversation happens to them, let alone some kind of emotional connection, but more intimate relationships - absurdity! Believe me: at home, in bed, at the table and in society, it is better to have a person who will create a mood, be inventive, be witty and will be relevant to the situation - domestic, emotional or social, instead of some impotent academic, who even a light bulb can not change, however, is a Kafka specialist. I'm telling you from experience. And because you ask where intelligent men meet, I answer: I met my intelligent man in a sedentary village where I have a villa; he lived there and repaired the boilers and stoves to the people.
Hello, author. I am a very intelligent boy and do not have vices (I do not do drugs, I do not smoke, I drink only 4-5 times a year). I am a champion of Bulgaria in chess, besides, I am interested in many things and I have a rich common culture... You mentioned geopolitics, so I'il tell you when I was born - on halford mcinder's date, if you know who he is... If you want to meet me, as long as you don't mind.
Respectfully, M, 20.
By 52 - The author wants to meet an intelligent man, not a self-confident student who thinks he's smart and intelligent. :)
To the author - If you're intelligent enough, you wouldn't ask the site, because actually what you're looking for isn't a problem, but it's a problem when you think you're not, that you see such smart, inquisitive and ambitious men, so every man didn't meet your requirements.
It's you, not them!
( G. 21 )
The author poses a silly topic for discussion, and expects to meet intelligent men. What's more, this site is anonymous! Good luck in your search for natural intelligence!
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