You've definitely never met men before, just male beings. First: boys prefer girls who do not burden them, do not make them think much, even more to advise, etc., this is impossible given the fact that they are excited about the pub and hit someone else, for example, because it is much easier. / I speak en masse / Second: do not go into long explanations, to reveal your life fully, to talk about your grief and trauma, because it repulses boys, they are not men after all and do not have much life experience discos and drooling, but that's another) Third: these things are shared with very close people, such as good friends you trust, you know they will listen to you and will not run away / from the facts .... /. Don't blame people because they don't want to hear you, that they don't want to be burdened with your memories, etc. It's important to know that it's not right / if you do, of course! / to start for example ... "I am Milena, I grew up without a father, I have a trauma, no one understands me ... I hate my life, WHERE ARE YOU FATHER, why did you leave us" - in this way, of course, you will repel them. To tell someone's life and problems is to have full confidence in that person and to know that he or she is interested. Don't rush, don't reveal everything at the wrong time, to the wrong people. There is time for everything, I believe it is difficult to carry this burden within you, but still it is your personal burden, and the others carry their own, let them get to know you well, let things develop ... when everything is deepen, you will have the opportunity to SHARE “but not to complain or make a sacrifice and seek regret, because that's not good. And I'm not blaming you, I'm saying it HYPOTHETICALLY if that's the case at all (in your case), and I'm sharing my PERSONAL point of view. Everyone has a different life and carries different memories, emotions, traumas and experiences, but all these things must remain behind us, in the past - and our goal is to live in the present and focus on the future, we just accept things and blows, the bitter truth of life and we only strive forward, because if we open the door back and if we are too harassed and tormented by the past, we will give him the freedom to be here with us, in the present and to influence our emotions, on our way of life and our thinking. Eunice Everyone has a different life and carries different memories, emotions, traumas and experiences, but all these things must remain behind us, in the past - and our goal is to live in the present and focus on the future, we just accept things and blows, the bitter truth of life and we only strive forward, because if we open the door back and if we are too bothered and tormented by the past, we will give him the freedom to be here with us, in the present and to influence our emotions, on our way of life and our thinking. Eunice Everyone has a different life and carries different memories, emotions, traumas and experiences, but all these things must remain behind us, in the past - and our goal is to live in the present and focus on the future, we just accept things and blows, the bitter truth of life and we only strive forward, because if we open the door back and if we are too harassed and tormented by the past, we will give him the freedom to be here with us, in the present and to influence our emotions, on our way of life and our thinking. Eunice because if we open the door back and if we are too harassed and tormented by the past, we will give him the freedom to be here with us, in the present and to influence our emotions, our way of life and our thinking. Eunice because if we open the door back and if we are too harassed and tormented by the past, we will give him the freedom to be here with us, in the present and to influence our emotions, our way of life and our thinking. Eunice
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There are all kinds of people - good and bad, but I can't believe a man who takes care of some children doesn't want to take care of others. Parents love all their children Just ask your mother why you have not had contact with the father, because it often happens - the mother because of the divorce and the new family does everything possible to turn the children against the father or prevent any vision. But anyway - just go, see him and talk. Confront him with your feelings and ask him why it was so. You have the right to do this, but leave your prejudices at home, and listen to him first quite objectively and then draw your own conclusions. For men - I don't think they don't want a relationship with you because of your family - what kind of nonsense is that? Today, half of the world has divorced parents, and 70% of children are illegitimate. Your mother must have been ingrained all the time, that your father should be responsible for everything in your life, but the truth is that you repel men with your own behavior and especially with your unrealistic expectations. Understand that a man wants support, attention, and a life partner from a woman, and women who are just looking for a strong man to carry them through the hardships of life are left alone or run into freaks who deceive them into being men. The cruel truth is that everyone is responsible for their own lives and neither your father nor your men are to blame. Your father is guilty of not fighting enough for you, but that's past things. Now you are an old woman, you want to be a mother yourself - your father has no power over you that a man wants from a woman also support, also attention and a partner in life, and women who are just looking for a strong man to carry them through the difficulties of life are simply left alone or fall into freaks who deceive them that they are these men. The cruel truth is that everyone is responsible for their own lives and neither your father nor your men are to blame. Your father is guilty of not fighting enough for you, but that's past things. Now you are an old woman, you want to be a mother yourself - your father has no power over you that a man wants from a woman also support, also attention and a partner in life, and women who are just looking for a strong man to carry them through the difficulties of life are simply left alone or fall into freaks who deceive them that they are these men. The cruel truth is that everyone is responsible for their own lives and neither your father nor your men are to blame. Your father is guilty of not fighting enough for you, but that's past things. Now you are an old woman, you want to be a mother yourself - your father has no power over you but these are past things. Now you are an old woman, you want to be a mother yourself - your father has no power over you but these are past things. Now you are an old woman, you want to be a mother yourself - your father has no power over you