I'm twenty-four, my boyfriend is twenty-five. We go out often for dinner, a bar, a movie, a walk in the park, when we're just the two of us going home together, but if we're in company, I see no reason to take him home if I'm bored and he comes home. Also, if he goes to work first and I come later, he doesn't expect me to go home with him. It touches a person, someone breathes the foreign air, so as not to miss anything. I don't ask the questions "Where have you been?", "Who?", "Why?". Most people forget that the person they fell in love with was a separate person before they met him, continues to be a separate person after that and has his own needs and desires, even something quite ordinary, like going out to drink beer alone or a piece through the streets aimlessly.
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In my humble opinion, it is to leave together. Moreover, if one of them gets sick, as in your case. It is unacceptable to be a couple and not show concern for each other. I personally do not understand how to one of his couple is ill, and the other leaves him to fend for himself and continues with the fun.