Hello! I want to share with you the problem I have. My girlfriend and I have been having sex recently, and I was 1st. We have sex every 3-4 days because the time we have allows us to do so. The problem is that our love game is great .. before we start having sex we are both super aroused, but when I try to get into it and it feels pain and pushes me away, we stop for a moment and try to get around this pain more slowly , but it doesn't work..and after some time and pain everything is normal, there is no pain, there is nothing and we have sex. If anyone has had the same or a similar problem I will ask her to give me advice on how we can overcome these pains she feels. Thank you in advance for your time!
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Hello! Don't worry, over time her pain will go away. I had exactly the same problem ... it lasted about 2 and a half months. And I had sex for the first time and honestly in those months I was wondering how people can like this 'torture' :))) I don't think so anymore, of course. Well, the pain was only until it penetrated and seconds after and then everything was ok, but still, to get some pleasure I had to go through this pain. When your girlfriend learns how to relax and overcome fear, because there is this moment - a psychological barrier probably / subconsciously at least feels fear of pain /, then there will be no problem. But if she thinks only that it will hurt her, it will be very difficult. Success! ;) I hope you both soon experience the pleasure of sex