The story is very long, but I will tell it briefly. More than a year of relationship and cohabitation. Everything is okay. Daily petty quarrels from time to time, but passed successfully. Here and there a serious scandal due to differences in character, but they passed successfully. Until a moment came when my girlfriend started avoiding me in bed. We go to bed and she turns and falls asleep. Every time he finds an excuse, but here and there we seem to have intimacy once in 2-3 attempts. After a while, he decided that there was nothing more to give in the relationship and asked us to separate. A few days passed and she decided to try again, the explanation being that my lifestyle made her suppress and close in on herself.
I've never driven anything. She always followed me on her own and complied with me on her own. I never imposed my opinion. It was a bit like reading, she's sunk a lot more than me and she's doing everything to make me okay. So we went again and so in a few weeks only a few times she came to us, of which when I tried to have intimate contact she told me that it is not okay for her to do something. After a few days, just as we talked, she put an end to it again. Out of nowhere. He said that we could be friends and quite close, but not partners. He wrote to me, called me, and we heard each other. He wrote to me every day and we went out here and there every few days. When I talked to her on the outings, she said she was adamant about the end.
When I offered to go out, she refused and said that it was better not to see each other so often, but alas, two days later she called me or wrote to see me ... There was a chase and so on until we got along. I can't get it back, she can't explain it to me. I can't understand why this is happening. How someone both does not want to be together, but is looking for you, loves you, when you tell him, you will not see him, his mood dies, he is looking for you again, but that's it. It's super confusing. He doesn't know what he wants or wants, but he can't fight the feelings. The behavior says "I want to be together, I miss you, I love you", and she says no, it's just a friendly interest between us ... I doubt there is another, I have a lot of trust and faith. I wonder how someone can avoid you intimately for so long and at the same time be with you and behave as if you are the only one in the world. The behavior says "I want to be together, I miss you, I love you", and she says no, it's just a friendly interest between us ... I doubt there is another, I have a lot of trust and faith. I wonder how someone can avoid you intimately for so long and at the same time be with you and behave as if you are the only one in the world. The behavior says "I want to be together, I miss you, I love you", and she says no, it's just a friendly interest between us ... I doubt there is another, I have a lot of trust and faith. I wonder how someone can avoid you intimately for so long and at the same time be with you and behave as if you are the only one in the world.
1 zestypretzel answered
I didn't read it all, maybe you're not for each other.