The story sounds like a teenager, although we should be adults - about 30. There is a girl I really like. I had decided that I would do 110% to be with her, even when my chances seemed small. I don't know if it will happen or not, but I will do what I can. About the girl - we drank two coffees, flirted, wrote to each other sometimes. She is nice to me, she likes it, but that's it. It gives me a chance, but it's not mine at all. Rather, I brush my ego and I'm certainly not the only candidate in the queue. Something strange happened on Sunday. I wake up at eight in the morning, open Facebook and watch - I uploaded photos at three in the morning from the disco with a man. By the way, he looked super ugly, I was surprised. They weren't intimate photos, they could be together, or it could be just a drunken night. However, I became super crooked. I call to myself - if she liked it and they are together, alive and healthy, I will have to retire and experience it. By 10 a.m., however, when she woke up, the photos had disappeared. And instead she had only uploaded hers. So, I'm very curious why a woman can upload photos with someone and delete them in a few hours? Her status is still Singe. It is possible that they have been together recently and do not want to show it. It could have been just a one-night stand or even just getting drunk in friendly company. However, after this case, I lost the desire to deal with it at all. Although I still have my feelings. Logically, I have nothing to be angry about, the chick is having fun and living her life. It makes sense for me to keep fighting - obviously things with that boy aren't serious yet, if they have anything at all. I have to act and it will either cut me off or it will happen. But somehow I can't breathe. I gasp, worrying that I'm about to intrude. I don't care about committed women, and I don't even know if they're together.
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Dude, judging by your behavior, which is of a 15-year-old insecure and confused teenager, it's not okay to say "we are 30 mature people" :) Does Facebook tell you what to do? Are you chatting? Don't you have a mouth? Call directly. Exit, invite her again and act. Or are you waiting for her to take you down? What does "we flirted" mean? I don't think there is anyone to finish the dump .... Standing and struggling .... it's not a man's job. The key word is "confidence". Sorry to be so rude and indecent, but my boyfriend is a foreigner. Because he was cheeky when he had to be. I do not want to summarize about Bulgarian men, but I will say that most of them lack confidence and self-confidence. Yes, it is human for a man to be afraid of rejection and rejection, but we as women are also afraid ... which is called: "what are we doing", eh? n. n This is not 110%. That's 30%.